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Ethics Credits and 20% Discount on Winning Settlement Techniques

(above, the incomparable Charles Fincher at LawComix.com)

November 13, 2007 Winning Settlement Techniques Seminar

9-4:30 at the Wilshire Grand Downtown Los Angeles

Head's up!!  If you read this blog, you are officially a "friend or colleague of the speakers" and are entitled to a 20% discount on our day-long Winning Settlement Techniques Seminar with Judges Chaney and Williams; former Federal Magistrate John Leo Wagner, Patent Arbitrator and Mediator Les Weinstein, Arbitrator and Law School Professor Jay McCauley and, last but not least, your faithful blogger, Victoria Pynchon.

Your blog-reader coupon code is S3SETL.  Enter in the coupon code when you register on-line and receive 20% off the registration price.

Register here now.

Settlement Techniques that Give You the Winning Edge  

Novice and seasoned litigators will learn to maximize the value of their litigation positions by learning winning settlement techniques from a panel of seasoned ADR experts.

Experienced mediators and Judges teach the latest settlement techniques, such as distributive (splitting the settlement “pie”) and integrative or interest-based (expanding the settlement “pie”) bargaining. Topics also include the dynamics of conflict resolution, settlement best practices, negotiating techniques, settling complex and patent litigation cases, and international disputes. Don’t miss this chance to hear from those who truly know -- how you can best maximize your client’s settlement opportunities and outcomes.

What You Will Learn if You Attend This Seminar

• The ten social psychological insights that will minimize your own self- defeating negotiation behavior and maximize your opponents’ bargaining weaknesses

• The ten basic rules of “distributive” or “fixed sum” bargaining that will give you the “edge” in all future settlement negotiations

• The ten ways to “expand the fixed sum pie” by exploring and exploiting the client interests underlying your own and your opponents’ legal positions

• The ten ways to get your case settled to your clients’ best advantage at Mandatory Settlement Conferences for both routine and “bet the company” cases

• The Top Ten Errors Made by Parties When Attempting to Settle Disputes that their Contracts Require Them to Arbitrate

• The Ten Rules of Cross-cultural negotiation in International Arbitration

• The Ten Laws Critical to the Enforcement of Mediated Settlement Agreements

• The Ten Mediation/Settlement Conference Traps for the Unwary

Instructors

Hon. Victoria Chaney--Assistant Supervising Judge, Complex Litigation, Los Angeles Superior Court

Hon. John Leo Wagner--ADR Neutral/Hearing Officer, Judicate West

Hon. Alexander Williams, III – Judge, Los Angeles Superior Court, presiding over the full-time Settlement Court

Les J. Weinstein--AAA Arbitrator and Mediator, Patent and Antitrust Attorney

Jay McCauley--Hearing Officer, Dispute Resolution Provider, Judicate West

Victoria Pynchon--Complex Commercial Mediator, Settle it Now 


November 13, 2007 - Los Angeles

Check-in: 8:30 - 9:00 a.m.

Seminar: 9:00 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. (Lunch on your own)

Wilshire Grand Hotel

930 Wilshire Blvd.

Los Angeles , CA



Pincus Communications certifies that this seminar has been approved for 6.0 MCLE credits and ethics credits will be given.

Foreign exchanges -- mediator blah blah comes to the states for dinner

This is Geoff Sharp's (Mediator blah blah) lovely family, wife and Judge Susan Sharp, and children Hector, Jack and Kate.  My husband Steve is in the fore and our good friend and neighbor Tony, who appears here on Geoff's Mediation Video Blog, is far right.  I understand Tony taught the children the siren song of TiVo which we're hoping the pleasure of the dinner mitigates (and yes of course your parents can afford it, kids! and no it won't interfere with your homework a bit)

Geoff and I are hiding in the back after being publically shamed by both spouses and neighbor Tony (the young people were remakrably indulgent) for our blogging habits.

Geoff and I nevertheless planned joint blogging endeavors which we'll unveil soon!

Have a great trip back to New Zealand Sharp family. 

Gradually a Shot Rang Out -- the Dangers of Contractual Ambiguity

(an image of Snoopy at his typewriter with the caption "gradually a shot rang out" graced the Shell v. Winterthur opinion holding that the term "sudden" meant "quick" and not simply "unexpected.") 

Every deal you negotiate must eventually be "reduced to writing." 

I haven't talked much about negotiated agreements here.  I usually defer the entire topic of contract drafting to the experts, particularly to the meticulous and scholarly Ken Adams over at Adams Drafting.  

Ken recently ran a hypothetical by me, however, that gave me pause.  You can find his question,  together with answers by Eric Goldman of the Technology and Marketing Law Blog and  Charles B. Craver, Fred H. Alverson Professor of Law at George Washington University Law School here

(Professor Craver's useful text on basic negotiation skills, by the way, can be found here). 

Although my own response to Ken's ethical question (it's not unethical until you pull the trigger) can also be found on the linked post, it's really the pragmatic question that interests me:

IS IT EVER GOOD BUSINESS OR LEGAL PRACTICE TO INCLUDE IN A NEGOTIATED AGREEMENT AMBIGUOUS TERMS THAT ONE PARTY BELIEVES THE OTHER PARTY WOULD NOT AGREE TO FOR THE PURPOSE OF EXPANDING THE CONTRACT'S REACH AT SOME LATER DATE? 

As is often the case, I find it easiest to answer that question with a story -- this time, with one about a word that cost American and U.K. businesses at least a billion dollars in legal fees.

Sudden. 

Does Sudden Mean Quick?

This question consumed at least half a decade of my professional life.  Why?

Because I was engaged in litigation for years concerning (among other issues) the meaning and application of the “sudden and accidental” pollution exclusion common in comprehensive general liability ("CGL") policies from the early 1970’s to the early 1980’s.

Because sudden's story is lengthy and complicated, I’m forced to reduce the tale here today to its bare essentials.  If you wish to understand its well-documented journey through the American regulatory and legal system, click here or here.  If the pragmatic question interests you, read on.  

The Word that Launched an Entire Legal Specialty 

Once upon a time, a few creative and persistent litigators of great reputation demanded insurance coverage for the environmental liabilities imposed upon their chemical and petroleum company clients by the Federal “Superfund” law (CERCLA) enacted in 1980. Many equally creative and persistent litigators of great reputation represented the insurance carriers who refused to provide coverage for many reasons, one of which was the presence of the “sudden and accidental” pollution exclusion in the “polluters’” insurance policies.  Many of the names of these attorneys are here.

That provision excluded coverage for

any liability of any insured, arising out of the discharge [etc.] . . . of . . . . . pollutants into or upon land, the atmosphere or any . . . body of water unless such discharge . . . . is sudden and accidental.

The 64 hundred million dollar question?

“Does ‘sudden’ mean ‘quick’ or only ‘unexpected’?

Because most environmental contamination took place over decades as the result of the slow seepage of chemicals and petroleum products into the land, water and air, the answer to this question was worth billions of dollars to corporate insureds and to the carriers that insured them. If “sudden” meant only “unexpected,” rather than “quick,” those billions of dollars would likely be paid by Lloyds of London or AIG – two of my clients -- rather than by Texaco or ARCO, two of my husband’s clients.

The petroleum and chemical companies accused the insurance industry of dissembling about their contractual intent when seeking approval of the "sudden and accidental" exclusion language.  The carriers, contended policy holders, had represented that the use of the word "sudden" would not narrow existing coverage -- coverage that would have excluded unexpected -- but not "quick" -- releases of pollutants into the environment.  (see here, note 5)  

Assuming that the insurance industry "gamed" regulators and policy holders by placing narrow language in a contract while simultaneously intending to interpret it broadly, and without addressing the ethical issues raised by that assumption, would it have made good business sense to have done so?

I answer with another story.  

When negotiating the settlement of a $250 million environmental insurance coverage action, the General Counsel for one petroleum company said the following to me about the cost of the looming three-month trial:

You don’t seem to understand.  We pour hundreds of millions of dollars a day into dry holes searching for oil. We are not risk averse. The expense of litigation does not deter us.

If you and your clients can say that – or something remotely like it – including ambiguous terms in a contract to take advantage of the uncertainty thereby created might make good business (if not necessarily ethical) sense.

If you cannot, I would suggest that contracts be used for the purpose they are intended – to create as much certainty as possible in your clients’ unpredictable future so that their plans today can make them profits tomorrow.

GC boasts aside, even the richest players far prefer planning that profitable future to fighting over an unprofitable past.

How to "Lose" the Negotiation

What is the negotiator's true desire? 

S/he doesn't want to leave $$$ or value on the table?

PERIOD.

This great ABA article, How to Make a Losing Argument can be translated, almost point by point, into How to Lose the Negotiation (i.e., how to leave too much value on the table).  

The points?  It's worth your time to read the ABA article in full, but for the hassled and harried, here's the executive summary:

Argue with the [mediator]

Bury [the heart of the dispute] in clutter

Misstate the facts

Base your argument on obscure technicalities.

[Remembering that in negotiations, most legal positions constitute "obscure technicalities." Why?  Because only lawyers have legal problems -- people and business people have people and business problems.  Some of those problems -- about 10% -- fall within the purview of the law.  The rest of them and the remainder of the potential solutions have nothing whatsoever to do with the law. What do they have to do with?  Ask the parties.  They're the only ones who know.  Never think you already know what they are.]

Push a good point too far.

Of course I have more to say about all of these, but I've gotta run pick up burgers and buns to host N.Z. mediator Geoff Sharp and family to a true L.A. late October bar-b-q this evening.

FAVORITE BUMPER STICKER SIGHTING THIS WEEK:  You don't have to believe everything you think.

Michael Webster's Resolution to the Shubik Dollar Auction Game

(photo:  Bill IV by cmiper)

We've had a lively discussion going about making agressive first offers, for which we are indebted to our regular readers Michael (da Game Man) Webster and mediators Chris Annunziata and Geoff (Coalface???) Sharp.  

Michael provided a link to his solution to the "Shubik" Dollar Auction Game that most of us have played in mediation seminars.  Because the game itself demonstrates just how irrational bargaining can be, and Michael's solution demonstrates how everyone can "win" when cooler heads prevail, I am quoting part of his post here and commending to my readers' attention the full post here.

Shubik reported [of the Dollar Auction Game described in Michael's post]:

"Experience with the game has shown that it is possible to 'sell' a dollar bill for considerably more than a dollar. A total of payments between three and five dollars is not uncommon." Possibly W. C. Fields said it best: "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. No use being a damn fool about it."

Without at all diminishing my respect for W.C. Fields, I venture to suggest that there is a more reasonable way to play this game as opposed to quiting. What is it? 

First, lets update the game to the 21st century and restrict it to two players. Replace the $1 with $20 and each bid must be a multiple of $1. Each person must bid at least once, or they can agree not to play at all. What should they do? Suppose first bidder bids $1, and second bidder pays $2, what is the first bidder's reasonable response? Right now, as a collective they are paying $3 to get $20, or netting $17. He should demand that the second bidder pay his $9.50 not to bid! Alternatively, second bidder can offer first bidder $9.50 not to bid again.

Then the second bidder will the $20, paying $2 to the auctioneer, $9.50 to first bidder and so he nets $8.50. First bidder gets $9.50, pays $1 to auctioneer and nets $8.50, jointly getting $17.00. As I see it, $8.50 is better than nothing, giving lie to the claim that you cannot get something for nothing.

This is why I usually defer to Michael's greater wisdom.  He can do the math.

Loss Aversion and the World Series: It's Not Popcorn, Peanuts and Crackerjacks Anymore

(right, Fenway Park Scoreboard by Alex)

Listen to this NPR podcast about the sale and scalping of World Series tickets if you want to experience the loss aversion bias while standing in line to buy tickets for the great American passtime.

The quote to listen for?  Hometown purchasers who say "someone offered us $500 each for our places in line; no way" or "not on your life."  Something along those lines.  Click on the audio for the exact quote.

Online and broker ticket prices currently range from "$25 per seat for Game 4 at Coors Field, home of the Rockies, to $20,589 for a potential Game 7 at Fenway Park."  

 

Here's the point.  These guys would not likely pay $500 per ticket to go to the game, but will not give up the right to buy a ticket for $500

Losses loom larger than corresponding gains.  Loss aversion. 

  

 

Aggressive First Offers and the Nash Equilibrium

Recently, in response to my Power Point Presentation on Cognitive Biases (the one labeled Social Psychology Insights) I mentioned that aggressive first offers "anchor" the bargaining range in favor of the first offeror.

Our correspondent and resident blog expert on cognitive biases, Michael Webster of the BizOpNews Due Diligence Blog, responded as follows:

Hmm, anchoring to support aggressive opening bids? Doubtful, despite the academic literature -which in my opinion has little contact with real negotiation.

And nothing about coordination versus nash equilibrium reasoning? Big oversight, in my opinion.

Because I respect (and generally defer to) Michael's opinion, but because I disagree with him this time, I include here my response and open the discussion to our readers.  To help our readers, I'd like to ask Michael, if he has the time, to provide us with his thoughts about the coordination v. nash equilibrium reasoning that is absent from my Power Point Presentation (an absence I'd like to rectify before giving this presentation on the 13th of November)

Response to Michael:

 For once in my blogging-career, Michael, I'm going to differ with you but ask for help on the coordination v. Nash equilibrium reasoning. 

It's difficult to "observe" the effects of anchoring and framing outside of a controlled environment. You need to have a kind of duplicate bridge experience where the bargaining partners are all negotiating the same deal to determine the effects of framing and anchoring. Research shows we'll all deny that we've been effected.

I have, however, participated in these types of role plays with "teams" of seasoned attorney negotiators.

In fact, it was the first of these experiences, on my first day of mediation training through the Straus Institute here in Malibu (at Pepperdine where the fires were yesterday -- terrible) that I experienced the power of anchoring first hand.

All twenty attorney teams negotiated a buy-sell contract for about 45-minutes. When we returned to the classroom, we all put our negotiated deals on the blackboard together with the first offer made.

I'd been taught as a young attorney NEVER to make the first offer -- folk practice where I come from, i.e., California.  In the role play, without exception, the negotiator who made the first offer in the hypothetical bargaining session got the best deal -- often by many magnitudes.

THIS is the moment when I decided I wanted to return to school to learn more about this and everything else having to do with negotiation -- rules of persuasion, the effect of cognitive biases, etc.

Since that time, what I've read in the academic literature on controlled negotiation studies, not only on students but on judges and attorneys and business people, has concluded that he who makes the first offer sets the bargaining range and gets the best deal.

As to Personal Bargaining Experience.

Since I've been mediating full time, I've helped lawyers negotiate hundreds of deals. Still, it's difficult for me to say whether the first offer had a substantial anchoring effect because I don't know how the negotiation would have turned out had the other side made the first offer or if the first offer had not been more or less aggressive.

More importantly, a REAL negotiation to settle a REAL dispute is so multi-determined that I can't imagine being able to opine on which of the many factors was determinative (assuming one factor could ever be determinative) of the final deal.  

Every deal in my business results from a combination of the vitality of the parties' legal and factual positions; their financial and personal or business interests; the personalities of the attorneys and the disputants; the willingness of the disputants to share information that will increase the number of options available; the negotiation and "people" skills of the mediator; and, numerous other factors that I often am never advised of, i.e., at the end of one difficult negotiation session, I learned for the first time that two of the three parties had been negotiating the sale of one of their businesses while I was negotiating the settlement of an unfair competition lawsuit.

We weren't even negotiating the same matter!

Insights?

Insights from Social Psychology to Help You "Win" Your Next Negotiation

My fellow panelists (Superior Court Judges Chaney and Williams; former Federal Magistrate John Leo Wagner; Patent Infringement and Competition Arbitrator and Mediator Les J. Weinstein; and, Complex Commercial Arbitrator and Mediator Jay McCauley) have all been working hard in preparation for our November 13, 2007 Winning Settlement Strategies Seminar (.pdf flyer here and complete program description here).

I'm posting my power point presentation on the Social Pysch Insights that Can Help You "Win" Your Next Negotiation for the benefit of anyone who is interested in attending the seminar and for those who cannot.  

Remember, this is just one of six presentations by an extremely talented and experienced group of Judges, former Judge[s] and attorney-mediators and arbitrators.

Stay tuned for more great ideas and fresh perspectives to help you get the best settlement you've ever achieved.  Really! 

Because It's Sunday

Reframing and Reality Testing

(Photo by Dean Ayres)

 

Another good reason to hire a mediator:

People will interpret the same information in radically different ways to support their own views of the world. When deciding our view on a contentious point, we conveniently forget what jars with our own theory and remember everything that fits.

From PsyBlogHow and Why We Lie to Ourselves:  Cognitive Dissonance.

More Conflict Resolution Resources on the Internet

There are two entry ways to the Museum of Tolerance here in Los Angeles.  One of the doors is labeled “prejudice” and the other “unprejudiced.” How chagrined is the museum-goer who attempts to walk through the “unprejudiced” door.  It is firmly locked.  We are all guilty. 

If you cannot visit the spectacular Museum of Tolerance, you can visit the Tolerance.org web site to find all of the resources you're ever likely to need to deepen your understanding of the prejudices we all carry with us about those who are not from the same race, religion, nation, political party, or socio-economic class as are we.

To give you a very small taste of what tolerance.org has to offer, I provide twenty of the 101 "Tools for Tolerance" on the site.  There are hundreds of other resources.  Feel free to browse them and provide them to others who share your concern that a lack of tolerance for other peoples and cultures will be the undoing of us all.

101 Tools for Tolerance

Here are twenty aimed at helping ourselves to be more tolerant.

  1. Attend a play, listen to music or go to a dance performance by artists whose race or ethnicity is different from your own. 
  2. Volunteer at a local social services organization. 
  3. Attend services at a variety of churches, synagogues, mosques and temples to learn about different faiths. 
  4. Visit a local senior citizens center and collect oral histories. Donate large-print reading materials and books on tape. Offer to help with a craft project. 
  5. Shop at ethnic grocery stores and specialty markets. Get to know the owners. Ask about their family histories. 
  6. Participate in a diversity program. 
  7. Ask a person of another cultural heritage to teach you how to perform a traditional dance or cook a traditional meal. 
  8. Learn sign language. 
  9. Take a conversation course in another language that is spoken in your community. 
  10. Teach an adult to read. 
  11. Speak up when you hear slurs. Let people know that bias speech is always unacceptable. 
  12. Imagine what your life might be like if you were a person of another race, gender or sexual orientation. How might "today" have been different? 
  13. Take the How Tolerant are You? A Test of Hidden Bias. Enlist some friends to take this "hidden bias" test with you and discuss the results. 
  14. Take a Civil Rights history vacation. Tour key sites and museums. 
  15. Research your family history. Share information about your heritage in talks with others. 
  16.  List all the stereotypes you can — positive and negative — about a particular group. Are these stereotypes reflected in your actions? 
  17. Think about how you appear to others. List personality traits that are compatible with tolerance (e.g., compassion, curiosity, openness). List those that seem incompatible with tolerance (e.g., jealousy, bossiness, perfectionism). 
  18. Create a "diversity profile" of your friends, co-workers and acquaintances. Set the goal of expanding it by next year. 
  19. Sign the Declaration of Tolerance and return it to: the National Campaign for Tolerance
    400 Washington Avenue Montgomery, AL 36104 
  20. Read a book or watch a movie about another culture.


Conflict Resolution Resource of the Week

Because I'm participating in a CyberWeek Webinar today on Conflict Resolution web resources, I took a closer look than usual at one of my favorite ADR web sites Beyond Intractability.org 

What can you find here?

How about an interactive step-by-step guide on how to stop fighting in your personal relationships.

There are also checklists to help you resolve the day-to-day conflicts that sap our energy -- such as those in the workplace and to help you understand and contribute to the resolution of international conflicts that lead to war and terrorism.

At the  you can learn about and participate in an initiative that identifies and proposes action to resolve the twenty greatest conflict challenges of the 21st Century.  While you're there, be sure to see the PowerPoint slideshow designed to demonstrate how we might build interest in a Frontiers documentary or popular book. 

 

You can also learn how to talk about politics across the red/blue divide, deviating from the old saw that you shouldn't talk politics or religion in polite society.

 

You can also: 

Spend just a little time on this site and you'll never again laugh at Miss America hopefuls who say their fondest dream is world peace.

Read, think, do.  

And Just in Case You Need Reminding . . . .

this is what happens when you piss off a jury . . . .

A jury awarded $6 million Thursday to a couple who accused a substitute teacher at a day care center of striking their toddler son, causing marks on the boy's buttocks and legs.

For the full article, click here. 

Bottom, Gene Hackman in Runaway Jury.

It's Official: Money Does Not Make Us Happy

You don't have to rely upon little old me anymore when I say that the negotiation is never solely about the money.  It's official.

wealth increases human happiness [only] when it lifts people out of abject poverty and into the middle class . . . [I]t does little to increase happiness thereafter.

The full online Newsweek article, Why Money Doesn't Buy Happiness is here.

"If money doesn't buy you happiness," asks the Newsweek article, "what does?"

Grandma was right when she told you to value health and friends, not money and stuff. Or as Diener and Seligman put it, once your basic needs are met "differences in well-being are less frequently due to income, and are more frequently due to factors such as social relationships and enjoyment at work." Other researchers add fulfillment, a sense that life has meaning, belonging to civic and other groups, and living in a democracy that respects individual rights and the rule of law. If a nation wants to increase its population's sense of well-being, says Veenhoven, it should make "less investment in economic growth and more in policies that promote good governance, liberties, democracy, trust and public safety."

So, how do we translate this insight into a negotiation strategy or tactic?  

Before heading off to the mediation, settlement conference or business negotiation, talk to your client about what result would make them happiest and follow it up with questions about why the particular sums of money they're seeking will produce that result. 

When I mediate "pure" money cases, I almost always ask the Plaintiffs whether they have any plans for spending the money they'll "earn" from the lawsuit.  If they haven't given the matter any thought, I ask them to.  This has the effect of transforming the ["jackpot"] money back into what it actually is -- a means of achieving a goal, purchasing material objects or insuring against an uncertain future. 

Although money in litigation will almost always represent "justice," i.e., fairness, to some degree, to acquire any real meaning to your clients, they need to think about what they'd do with the money if they had it, not simply how much they want.  

Let Your Clients Give Meaning to the Money

One million dollars or two; a thousand pounds or fiftten thousand yen are meaningless figures on a sheet of paper until people translate those sums into something they want or need.  

You will often find that your clients have quite specific ideas in mind when refusing to compromise a certain dollar demand.  It makes it far easier for me as a mediator to learn what those money ideas are because the defendants -- who almost always feel as if the Plaintiffs are trying to pick their pockets -- begin to see the logic, if not necessarily the fairness, of the Plaintiffs' demands.  

She's driving her kids to school in a Kia, which keeps breaking down.  She wants to buy a new car with the money.  She won't be able to do that unless she gets $X in settlement.

Does the lawsuit have anything whatsoever to do with a new car?  Not to to the Judge or jury.  But you're not trying the case to a judge or jury right now.  You're trying to settle it.  And once both sides understand what it is that the Plaintiff is really after they also begin to understand why they're at impasse.  

More importantly, they begin to think of the settlement negotiation in terms of human needs and desires.  This tends to normalize their negative view of the other.  It explains what has theretofore been inexplicable.  When our opponent is acting inexplicably, we make up reasons for their behavior and those reasons are never good.  (see yesterday's IP ADR post on Fundamental Atttribution Error here and my earlier posts on the benefits of reason giving here and here). 

Once we understand what our opponent is really after or why they've been litigating so contentiously or why they acted the way they did in the first place, empathy and fellow-feeling kicks in and hardened positions begin to soften.  

For examples of ways in which reason-giving and money-explaining helps parties resolve litigation, see the reason-giving posts highlighted above.  And in your next negotiation, try urging your mediator to ask your opponent why she's got her heart set on netting $100,000 from the deal.  See how it works for you.  And let me know the results!

ODR CyberWeek 2007: Taking Peacemaking Public

TIME:  Friday, October 19, 4 PM Eastern (20 GMT)

CALL IN NUMBER:  The Highspeed audio bridge conference room number is 5650382 and is available by phone at **New Access Numbers (10/16/07) 1-605-475-8590 and by Skype at +990008275650382. The audio conference is required for participation.

THE PANEL:  Gini Nelson, Vickie Pynchon, Colm Brannigan and Diane Levin.

THE DISCUSSION:  Conflict resolution specialists Nelson, Pynchon, Brannigan and Levin will join in conversation with three non-conflict specialists who reach the public directly and effectively:

QUESTIONS TO BE CONSIDERED:  Some of questions to be considered: "Why aren't people beating down the doors of peacemakers, whether mediators, facilitators or negotiators? and, "How can the internet engage people online in ways that facilitate and promote peacemaking?"

Ten Settlement Conference/Mediation Traps for the Unwary

1. Leaving stakeholders at home

Who's a "Stakeholder"? 

Anyone who can green- or red-light the final agreement.

Why Can't They Simply Be Available By Telephone?

For the same reason you don't want your jury to "call in."  A settlement negotiation is part process, part presentation, part drama, and, part human interaction. 

Those who don't participate will never understand the principled reasons for the settlement achieved by day's end.  I cannot tell you how distressed many (particularly young) attorneys are when the "partner in charge" or client questions their wisdom (or sanity!) for recommending a settlement that no one but those in the room could possibly understand in all of its texture and dimensionality.

Leave stakeholders home at your risk.  Not only might you blow a significant chunk of change on the mediator's fee, you risk losing a day's worth of time for yourself and your client "representative."  Perhaps more importantly, this particular settlement opportunity may never present itself again. 

2. Leaving too soon

"Americans" (and I use the term loosely for anyone, citizen or not, who buys retail) become uncomfortable after two or three bargaining "moves," i.e., offer, counter-offer, counter-counter, "I'm outta here."

Unfortunately, lawyers have readily at hand the legal version of a weapon of mass destruction -- the threat of which is usually phrased as "see you in court, buster."

Until the mediator or settlement judge tells you that she/he is convinced the parties' aren't already secretly in agreement, i.e., willing to accept a settlement within the other's "bottom line," you risk losing the best deal you're likely going to get by leaving the negotiation too early.

3. Failing to take clues from the mediator/settlement conference judge

Just as you will always know more about your bargaining position and the business interests underlying it than the mediator does, the mediator will always know more about your opponent's bargaining position and ability to settle the lawsuit than you do.

Remember, the mediator is honor bound not to disclose information that is highly beneficial to your bargaining position.  Unless you've hired a disreputable or simply unreliable mediator (and you know who they are after you've hired them once) don't ignore the mediator's suggestions that a little patience with the process might result in a big reward for your client.  

4. Failing to strategically use joint and separate caucuses

To everything there is a season . . . . 

Rigidly adhering to any negotiation or settlement conference format reduces your ability to strategically use whispered confidences in the hallway; candid conversations between counsel without their clients; meetings between the mediator and a difficult client without his/her/ attorney; discussions between the mediator and one or more of the attorneys without their clients; and, meetings between the disputants without anyone else's presence.

There are dozens of different permutations and combinations of attorney-client-mediator dyads, triads and the like. 

Think about it.  Each different relationship draws out of us someone slightly different.  We're more or less comfortable, deferential, authoritative, subject to persuasion or persuasive depending upon our "audience."  

During the course of the mediation, the mediator learns about these dynamics and is able to use them toward what should be the mediator's goal -- to serve as many of the parties' interests as possible in an agreed upon settlement by day's end. 

Not only should you listen to the mediator about these dynamics, you should hip the mediator to those you likely understand better than she/he ever will.

The mediator is your team mate.  Don't miss the opportunity to call as many game "plays" during the day as possible.

5. Letting the Judge or Mediator Act the Bully

It's always easier to get what you want by talking about the reasons you desire or need it than by bullying the other side into accepting what you want

A judge or mediator who is bullying you or your client to settle simply hasn't gotten the knack of asking questions and creating opportunities.  He/she is still too used to wielding power.  If it's important enough to spend your day mediating, it's important enough to tell the Judge or mediator that you or your client are feeling bullied and would prefer to explain your interests and positions than to be pressured to accept a deal you're not comfortable with.

If the Judge/mediator is unable to shift from power to collaboration, try to get as much out of the negotiation as possible and find yourself a new mediator for the next settlement conference.  

6. Believing that any competent judge or mediator can help you achieve the best settlement.

Face it, you wouldn't hire a personal injury lawyer to try your complex insurance coverage action.  Nor would you hire a Skadden Arps attorney to handle a motion to increase your spousal or child support.

Mediators are not all-purpose "peace-makers" or negotiators.  As Colin Powell has said, the most important factor in an international diplomatic negotiation is to "be inside the other guy's decision cycle."

What does that mean?  In a personal injury case, it means understanding the claims adjusters' levels of authority and pressures to bring back to the office a settlement that is in line with similar cases -- better than those of his or her colleagues if at all possible.  In a commercial case, it often means satisfying not only General Counsel, but the CEO or CFO or even the shareholders.  

It's not so much the law the mediator needs to know, as it is the culture  in which the law is being applied.  

Listen.  I've been retained for the sole reason that I'm a woman.  I'm not wild about this because I bring 25+ years of high-level commercial corporate legal experience to a mediation and am much much more valuable as a commercial mediator than I am as any random woman with a little skill in law or mediation.  But it's ok because I am a woman and there are times when that's important to the settlement of the matter.  There are some things that you just need a woman for.  And some you need a man or an African-American or a Korean or an expert on the construction of toilet seats for.  You should be thinking about all of these variables.

Most of all, you should choose a mediator or settlement judge who you believe is most "inside the other guy's decision cycle."  Would Colin Powell steer you wrong?  Well . . . . about something other than the War in Iraq?   

7. Sidelining Your Client on the Day of Mediation

If you've been practicing for more than, say, five years, you know that your client never tells you everything that is important to its case.  If you had the luxury of trying cases to a jury early in your career like I did, you learn this most quickly at trial.  Usually when you receive a copy of a subpoena of someone you've never heard of.

"Harold," I said as a first year associate second-chairing the third trial day, "who is Jean McCarthy at the Sutter Mill Nursing Home?" 

Harold, the Plaintiff, who was retired because of his injuries, hadn't worked at all for the last five years and had already given moving testimony to the jury about how difficult his life had been.

"Uh," Harold responded, "she's my . . . .  uh . . . boss."

"What??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????"

"Well, I've been doing odd jobs for the Nursing Home for the last several years."

Don't miss the opportunity to let the mediator have a little chat with your client and learn both the good and the bad of your case -- some of which you may well not yet (or ever) be privy to. 

8. Failing to use the Mediator to Help You Bring Reality to Your Client.

This differs from Trap No. 7 but has some of the same causes.  When your client explains his/her case to you, he/she presents it in the very best light.  Your side of the case rarely gets better over time.  Your client, however, has not had the same opportunity to see the "dark side" of the case as you have during discovery.  Your clients often feel as if you're betraying them if you point out the differences between your view of the case on Day 1 and your view of the case on Day 632.  Let the mediator help you out with that. 

9. Failing to Maximize the Mediator's Strategic Skills

The mediator is your partner.  And you are his/hers.  Take the time to learn and maximize your unique skill-sets and knowledge to the highest advantage.

10. Negotiating in the Nano- and strato- spheres.

Spending a significant amount of time negotiating numbers that are far out of the range of potential agreement is not only a waste of everyone's valuable time, it strains the parties' patience and often results in impasse even when the parties' "zones of potential agreement" overlap.

One of the parties has to have the courage to step up to the line of potential impasse at some point in the mediation.  The person who does so first will always gain the bargaining advantage as a result.

Live Blogging from London with Attorney Mediator Justin Patten

Yes, we did talk mediation marketing and who should make the first offer over a wonderful lunch today at the London Law Society, but we also covered childcare, American politics (oh, do let's change the subject) and the dreadful exchange rate (oh, do let's change the subject).

Thank you to commercial attorney and mediator Justin Patten of Human Law for escorting us about and giving good advice about visiting the Royal Hall of Justice, which we did, peaking in on what appeared to be a criminal appellate argument (3 red-robed Justices & prisoner in the "dock") and one final argument in a civil case (one red-robed judge).  

Unfortunately, I failed to catch Jeremy Phillips of IP Kat or Andrew Mills of Freeth Cartwright and the IMPACT blog on camera after a day-long seminar on Intellectual Property Litigation and Dispute Resolution, about which more later.

Off to see Spamalot. 

Don't Miss Kristina Haymes Free Rainmaker Seminar This Thursday!!

What: Teleseminar: “So You Want To Be a RAINMAKER?”

When: Thursday, October 11, 2007, 12 noon EST (9 a.m. PST)

Who: Kristina Haymes and Rainmaking consultant and author, Ford Harding.

Why: The fate of your mediation/ADR or law practice depends upon your ability to make it rain clients. It will be a lot of fun. Ford is going to discuss a rainmaking story of how an attorney went from zero to big book of business and how you can become a rainmaker too.

Sign up here: http://mediationmarketingtips.com/rainmaker.html

Hope to “see” you on the call.

Committed to your success,

Kristina Haymes

p.s. spread the word this is our last free teleseminar of 2007

Settlement Techniques that Give You the Winning Edge

 

 

Deal Yourself a Winning Hand

November 13

Los Angeles

 

 (photo:  Four Aces by Ian Grainger)

Novice and seasoned litigators will learn to maximize the value of their litigation positions by learning winning settlement techniques from a panel of seasoned ADR experts.

Experienced mediators and Judges teach the latest settlement techniques, such as distributive (splitting the settlement “pie”) and integrative or interest-based (expanding the settlement “pie”) bargaining.

Topics also include the dynamics of conflict resolution, settlement best practices, negotiating techniques, settling complex and patent litigation cases, and international disputes. Don’t miss this chance to hear from those who truly know -- how you can best maximize your client’s settlement opportunities and outcomes.

Speakers:  Los Angeles Superior Court Judges Alexander Williams, III (full-time settlement Judge) and Victoria Chaney (Assistant Supervising Judge of the Complex Court); former Federal Magistrate John Leo Wagner (also at Judicate West), AAA Arbitrator, Mediator and Registered Patent Attorney Les J. Weinstein, and Straus Institute Professors and Judicate West Neutrals Jay McCauley and Victoria Pynchon.

For more of what you'll learn, click here.

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Fees Individual: $349 per person
Group: $324 per person for 2 or more from the same company pre-registering at the same time.
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Students: $199 (current students only)

Advice to Young Lawyers: Be a Lean Mean Writing Machine

(photo:  On the Road manuscript by Thomas Hawk)

If you're hanging out a shingle after graduation (see Carolyn Elefant's brilliantly useful MyShingle here) just getting the clerk to accept your pleadings is probably your greatest concern.

But if you've entered the ranks of the AmLaw100, you're about to make or break your career on your writing skills.  

Maximize your "distinct value proposition" this weekend by reading Ross Guberman's Legal Times article 14 Tips to Become a Lighter Tighter Writer, posted on Law.com today. 

The good news/bad news according to Guberman is you have a job/now you're able to lose it. 

Why? 

At most law firms, associates think writing is their greatest strength, while the partners think writing is the associates' greatest weakness.

Chalk this up to a generation gap if you like, but the partner you're writing for has the power to put you on the type of case you want to be litigating with the people you like working with.  

And this has what to do with negotiation?

You negotiate every day of your working life for plum assignments, week-ends off (maybe next year), bonuses, salary, and access to power. 

We cannot mention often enough negotiation's bottom line -- your bargaining partner's Better Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement ("BATNA").  What does your preferred bargaining partner (the firm shareholder with the right practice and the most firm power?) want and need? 

A great writer on his/her team. 

When it comes time to for you seek favors, concessions and bonuses, your "target" partner's BATNA is using or cultivating an associate who is better than you.  If you're the best writer in the first year associate ranks, the concessions you seek should always be a better alternative to losing you.  

And no, the Kerouac'ian stream of consciousness, wonderful as it is, will not work here.

Go get 'em tiger!

More Statistics on the Differences between Arbitration and Litigation Procedures, Cost, Duration and Outcome

(photo:  Amanda Graham's Outlier)

I have Christina Doucet at the National Arbitration Forum to thank for summarizing some of the most recent statistical literature available on differences between procedure, cost, duration, outcome and party satisfaction of litigated and arbitrated consumer and employee disputes.

Time and Cost Differences Between Arbitration and Litigation

  • Employment claims take 650 to 720 days to be resolved in court, according to the National Center for State Courts. 
  • The median time to resolve an employee dispute by arbitration is 104 days 
  • the median cost of resolving employment disputes by arbitration is $870.

Sources: Consumer and Employment Arbitration in California: A Review of Website Data Posted Pursuant to Section 1281.96 of the Code of Civil Procedure California Dispute Resolution Institute, August 2004 http://www.mediate.com/cdri/cdri_print_Aug_6.pdf   and Examining the Work of State Courts, (1999-2000) National Center for State Courts http://www.ncsconline.org/D_Research/csp/1999-2000_Files/1999-2000_Tort-Contract_Section.pdf

Outcome Differences Between Arbitration and Litigation:  Arbitration & litigation final awards are essentially the same as court judgments

  • median monetary awards for successful claimants are greater in arbitration than in court—$100,000 in arbitration compared with $95,554 in court.

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More on Perceived Biases Among Employment Arbitrators

Yesterday, I promised to provide a little "pro" arbitration wisdom in response to my speaking partner's "con" since that's our ALFA Seminar topic here in beautiful Half Moon Bay.

And yet it's 4 a.m. before I realize I can't sleep because I've been mediating too long to seriously launch one side of any debate.  Everything and everyone has become so much more three-dimensional, multi-layered, and textured as a result of three full-time years of ADR practice.

So let me share the first of my non-scripted thoughts on the matter.   

I'm Unwilling to Prejudge the Court's, the Arbitrator's or the Jury's Biases.  

If you read yesterday's post, you'll recall that several of the anti-arbitration arguments were based upon the presumption that the arbitrator will more likely than not be biased in favor of the plaintiff because:  

  1. Arbitrators have a vested interest in their case load persisting, whereas the courts are interested in purging their dockets, thus making early termination in court more likely than in arbitration.
  2. Arbitrators' [presumed] self-interest in maintaining and expanding their own ADR practices encourages a "split the baby" mentality and reluctance to terminate the case short of a full hearing.
  3. The "repeat" player bias will favor the Plaintiffs' bar who the arbitrator will see far more often than counsel for any particular employer.

Having spent  25+ years with attorneys, judges, mediators and arbitrators, I simply can't assume bias.  A few bad apples aside, the men and women of the legal profession are among the most ethically-minded of any professional or business people I have known -- by many, many, many degrees of magnitude. 

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Radiohead's "Set Your Own Price" Marketing Strategy

Negotiation is marketing is sales is negotiation is marketing . . . 

So what's Radiohead got to do with it?  According to the Church of the Customer, greater access to consumer information and, of course, generating demand. 

See excerpt below and link to full article here.

Of more benefit to them now is building a database of buyers, bypassing the information black hole of so many retail channels. That's the value exchange.

And in a few months, Radiohead will partner with a label, which will manufacture a CD of the album. If the album is great (always a non-quantitative variable when it comes to art), it will have already created demand for the totem version of the album.

If scarcity isn't your primary method for generating demand, then getting your product or service into as many hands, mouths and minds possible is. The ideas, products or services that spread the most usually win.

Today and more so tomorrow, that means letting go of the control you're accustomed to.

 

Fortune 500 GC Says Litigate, Don't Arbitrate, Employment Disputes

(photo:  Employees Only by Michelle Thompson

While most of the arbitration news of the week is about the unfair advantage given to corporate "repeat players" in the arbitration of disputes, Senior Legal counsel for DHL counsels employers to abandon arbitration's ship and swim back into litigation's pacific waters.  

Though I'm the "pro" arbitration speaker with DHL in-house counsel Joshua Frank at this week's ALFA Labor & Employment Practice Group Seminar in Half Moon Bay, I don't have strong feelings one way or the other (preferring, as you can imagine, the negotiated, to the adjudicated, resolution).

Mr. Frank's reasons for suggesting that the Courts are a better forum for employers and arbitration better for employees?

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Buying a New Washing Machine at Sears? Try Haggling!

One of the first lessons we learn in mediation school is that Americans become impatient after the third negotiation move.  Why?  Because we buy retail.  We're just not a bargaining culture.  Most Americans negotiate the price of a new (or used) car and real estate.  Period.  And you won't find many who will tell you how much fun that was.  In fact, we dislike bargaining so much that some of us are willing to pay a professional "haggler" to do it for us!

So do we have to go to foreign lands to sharpen our haggling skills?  Not according to a news item in today's Reuters -- Looking to pay a lower price?  Just try asking . . .  Turns out, when Americans negotiate for a discount, they generally get it.


NEW YORK (Reuters) - Looking for a lower price on that DVD player at Sears or that refrigerator at Lowe's Cos Inc? Ask for one and you just might get it.

More than 90 percent of shoppers who tried to negotiate a discount on furniture, electronics and appliances, floor and demonstration models, and medical bills got one on at least one purchase in the past three years, according to a new survey conducted by the Consumer Reports National Research Center.

"It's a wake-up call to consumers to realize that the price isn't always the price," said Consumer Reports Senior Editor Tod Marks in an interview.

The survey, which included 2,167 U.S. households, found that of those who negotiated for lower prices on furniture, 94 percent were successful in scoring a lower price at least once in the past three years.

For the remainder of the article, click here.

Tips for the negotiation-averse tomorrow.  In the meantime, enjoy the famous Monty Python Life of Brian Haggling Scene here!