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<h2>Thanks to <a href="http://twitter.com/neildenny">@NeilDenny</a>&nbsp;of <a href="http://lawyer1point9.wordpress.com/">Lawyer 1point9&nbsp;</a> for the head's up.</h2>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 14:51:46 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>&quot;Man&quot; Up to Negotiate or Prevent Your Own Disputes at Sleeping Beauty&apos;s Castle</title>
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<p>Conflict is in the house.&nbsp; The evil fairy surrounded the castle with deadly thorns.&nbsp; The &quot;good&quot; fairy put everyone in the castle to sleep.&nbsp; Will you be the valiant Prince in your own dispute story?&nbsp; Or are you the prize?&nbsp; The beautiful one who would prefer to remain unconscious rather than address the great battle between good and evil represented here?&nbsp; Did you hire a lawyer to resolve your dispute for you?&nbsp; Will he make it to the castle in time?&nbsp; Or will he spend the bulk of his energy erecting more obstacles to prevent your adversary from reaching you.&nbsp; By the time both champions reach the castle, will everyone be too bloodied and broke to rise from your bed and put your house back in order?</p>
<p>Choose carefully and read the entire post at the Commercial ADR Blog:&nbsp; <a href="http://bizadr.com/2010/01/21/the-other-adr-risk-management-for-the-cloud/">The Other ADR:&nbsp; Risk Management for the Cloud</a>.</p>]]></description>
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         <title>Should HR Professionals Work Up the Courage to Negotiate Competitively?</title>
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<p>Check out <a href="http://www.careercapitalist.com/about.html">Kris Dunn's</a> recent blog post at the HR Capitalist <a href="http://www.hrcapitalist.com/2009/12/retail-and-religion-now-inhibting-the-negotiation-skills-of-an-hr-pro-near-you.html"><em>Retail and Religion - Now Inhibiting the Negotiation Skills of an HR Pro Near You...</em></a></p>
<p>Though the reasons given for our negotiation hesitancy are insightful and, I believe, spot on, the post moved me to more or less use the HR Capitalist Blog's comment section to write today's post.&nbsp; Here's the intro to <strong><em>Retail and Religion</em></strong>.</p>
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<p><em>Have you ever noticed how bad a lot of Americans are at negotiating?&nbsp; I don't mean the type of negotiation you're doing on eBay right now; I mean real negotiation.&nbsp; The kind where if you're going to win, somebody has to lose.&nbsp; Where every dollar you save or gain comes right out of&nbsp;someone else's pocket.&nbsp; The type of negotiation where you are telling someone directly, either face to face or on the phone, what's acceptable and what's not.</em></p>
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<p>Though my response will not surprise my readers, I'm hoping it will spark a conversation at the HR Capitalist.&nbsp; The intro to my comment here:</p>
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<p><em>Thanks for raising negotiation skills as a matter worthy of discussion among HR professionals. Let me suggest, however, that savvy, money-saving, value-enhancing negotiation strategy and tactics are rarely of the competitive zero-sum variety.</em></p>
<p><em>A few bedrock principles of value-enhancing collaborative problem-solving negotiation include: (a) a dollar is not a dollar, i.e., everyone has a different subjective experience of money and its source; the reason for its payment; the timing of its receipt; and, the degree to which it fairly reflects value are just a few of the variables that can make one dollar feel like $10 or $100,000 feel like a slap in the face; (b) HR professionals and their employers possess items of value which are often of greater worth to employees than the cost of the thing to the employer - this means that employees can be compensated $1.00 in value with something that costs the employer 50 cents or, even better, with something that costs the employer absolutely nothing (expressions of gratitude; the inclusion of employees in the decision-making process when the decision will affect the working environment and so on); and, (c) most people are more interested in how their compensation compares to others who do the same or similar work than they are in the unadorned dollar value of their compensation - this I learned from sitting in compensation committee meetings in law firms where litigation partners would become enraged by a $200,000 year end bonus for the sole reason that another partner received a $500,000 year end bonus. It wasn't about money; it was about fairness.</em></p>
<p><em>So, do we need to screw up our courage, drop our hesitancy, and go bravely forth into competitive, distributive zero-sum bargaining session to prove our negotiation moxie? </em></p>
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<p>For the answer - or at least one possible answer - to this question, <a href="http://www.hrcapitalist.com/2009/12/retail-and-religion-now-inhibting-the-negotiation-skills-of-an-hr-pro-near-you.html#comment-6a00d8345275cf69e2012876890686970c">click here</a>.</p>
<p>For further human resource lessons from the recently released &quot;Up in the Air&quot; see today's post at <a href="http://www.pensionriskmatters.com/">Pension Risk Matters</a> - <a href="http://www.pensionriskmatters.com/2009/12/articles/human-resources/up-in-the-air-stark-reality-about-the-employee-employer-relationship/">&quot;Up in the Air&quot; - Stark Reality about Employee-Employer Relationship</a> and last week's post at <a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com">Schau's Mediation Insights</a>, <a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com/2009/12/does-staying-neutral-require-staying-up.html">Does Staying Neutral Require Staying &quot;Up in the Air.&quot;</a></p>
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         <pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 13:20:58 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Negotiating Enforceable Employment Arbitration Agreements</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Even <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2007/05/articles/conflict-resolution/9th-circuit-no-to-omelveny-dispute-resolution-plan/">so luminary a firm as O'Melveny has been smacked down by the courts (here, the Ninth Circuit) when trying to enforce employee arbitration agreements</a>.&nbsp; California lawyers would therefore be well-advised to read the opinion covered at the California Employment Law Report this week:&nbsp; <a href="http://www.californiaemploymentlawreport.com/2009/10/articles/new-cases/arbitration-agreement-upheld-despite-employees-argument-it-was-not-mutual-and-adhesive/">Arbitration Agreement Upheld Despite Employee's Argument It Was Not Mutual And Adhesive</a></p>
<p>Here's the clause:</p>
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<p><em>I hereby agree to submit to binding arbitration all disputes and claims arising out of the submission of this application. I further agree, in the event that I am hired by the company, that all disputes that cannot be resolved by informal internal resolution which might arise out of my employment with the company, whether during or after that employment, will be submitted to binding arbitration. I agree that such arbitration shall be conducted under the rules of the American Arbitration Association. This application contains the entire agreement between the parties with regard to dispute resolution, and there are no other agreements as to dispute resolution, either oral or written</em>.</p>
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<p>This decision is made more interesting by the recent <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/file/PARADA DECISION(2).pdf">Parada decision</a> (.pdf) (covered <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2009/09/articles/arbitration/the-continuing-perils-of-potentially-uneforceable-arbitration-agreements/">here</a> and <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2009/09/articles/arbitration/further-thoughts-on-arbitration-clause-unconscionability-in-california-contracts/">here</a>) where the drafter's failure to attach the <a href="http://www.jamsadr.com/rules-clauses/">JAMS arbitration rules</a> cited in the agreement was one of the reasons the Court concluded the arbitration clause was substantively unconscionable.&nbsp; I think it's safe to say at this point in the development of California law on these issues that it's not malpractice for an attorney to fail to draft an enforceable arbitration clause.&nbsp; But as the opinions multiply, you can be sure some employer will be looking around for someone to <em>name</em> its legal counsel as the source of his discontent, <em>blame </em>its law firm for having to bear the expense of litigation, and <em>claim</em> damages as a result.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>The best protection for drafters of arbitration clauses</strong> (particularly in California where the Courts remain suspicious of adhesion arbitration contracts) is to be familiar with <em>all the case law</em> on the topic in the last five years; to<em> avoid</em> any provision the Courts have used to tip the &quot;sliding scale&quot; in favor of non-enforcement and <em>include</em> those provisions which favorably incline the courts to enforce the clauses.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Check out the range of opinions among litigators' <em>clients </em>on this still-hot topic in mediation circles over at the <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/">Business Conflict Blog</a> (quickly becoming one of the most indispensable commercial mediation blogs on the web):&nbsp; <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/blog/2009/10/should-mediators-be-expert-in-the-field-of-the-dispute/">Should Mediators Be Expert in the Field of the Dispute</a>?&nbsp; Excerpt below.</p>
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<p><em>Patrick Deane of </em><a target="_self" href="http://www.nestle.com/AllAbout/AllAboutNestle.htm" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.nestle.com/AllAbout/AllAboutNestle.htm');"><em>Nestl&eacute;</em></a><em> is senior counsel to the largest food company in the world, and the disputes he runs into involve distributors, retailers, suppliers&nbsp;and consumers in every part of the globe.&nbsp; His ideal mediator combines logic and intuition; a concern for detail; and the knack of an epatheic listener.&nbsp; He noted that commercial disputes &mdash; even financial ones &mdash; are seldom dry, but&nbsp;instead involve personalities, risk of loss of face, and other human attributes just as much as more personal claims do.&nbsp;&nbsp;The question of subject-matter expertise was of little importance to Deane, compared to these essential qualities in a mediator who must be expert in a process that, at heart, is aimed at cost effectiveness.&nbsp; &ldquo;</em><strong><em>A lack of industry expertise has never caused a failure of the mediation process.</em></strong></p>
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<p>I must admit that when Tim Hughes (<a href="http://twitter.com/vaconstruction">@vaconstruction</a>) -- he of the <a href="http://www.valanduseconstructionlaw.com/">Virginia Real Estate, Land Use and Construction Law blog</a> and an avid ADR watcher -- tipped me off to this post, I read the question as asking whether mediators should be experts in the &quot;field&quot; of <strong><em>conflict</em></strong> - rather than in the industry in which the disputants are involved.</p>
<p><strong>Here's my opinion (as if you didn't already know)</strong>.&nbsp; As <a href="http://www.achievement.org/autodoc/page/pow0bio-1">Colin Powell</a> says, the most important knowledge to have in international negotiations is the other guy's <em>decision cycle. &nbsp;</em>I imagine the great predictor, the political scientist and Hoover Institute Fellow&nbsp; Bruce Bueno de Mesquitas would say something along the same lines (see <a href="http://ted.com">TED lecture</a> below).&nbsp; See also the NYT piece, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/16/magazine/16Bruce-t.html?pagewanted=all">Can Game Theory Predict When Iran Will Get the Bomb</a>?</p>
<p>What <em>is </em>the &quot;other guy's&quot; decision cycle?&nbsp; It is comprised of every interest he must satisfy and every person he is accountable to for the foreseeable (and probable unintended)&nbsp;consequences of that decision.&nbsp; Personal injury attorneys turned mediators are well acquainted with the decision cycles of both Plaintiff and Defense counsel as well as with the interests, needs, and desires of injured Plaintiffs, on the one hand, and insurance adjusters and their supervisors on the other.&nbsp; Employment attorneys turned mediators are also deeply knowledgeable about the decision cycles of counsel on both sides of the table (one usually specializing in employees and the other in employers) as well as with the interests, needs and desires of terminated, demoted, or harassed employees on the one hand and of employers - both large and small - who often feel as if the Plaintiff is little better than a highway robber.&nbsp; Judges turned mediators are better acquainted than anyone else of the decision cycles of juries -- a jury verdict being the alternative to a negotiated resolution.</p>
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<p>(Chart from <a href="http://www.idrc.ca/openebooks/899-6/">Cultivating Piece</a>)</p>
<p><strong>You knew I'd come to my own &quot;specialty&quot; knowledge.</strong>&nbsp; Some of it <em>is </em>industry specific -- insurance and&nbsp; financial institutions, for instance, and the garment, manufacturing, health care, commercial real estate, construction, and technology industries.&nbsp; Though my experience in these fields adds some value to my commercial mediation practice, what I'm most skilled at is knowing the decision cycles of commercial litigators and their business clients.&nbsp; I understand, for instance, the clients' reporting relationships; the metrics against which their performance and that of their corporate superiors are measured; the impact of SEC reporting requirements in &quot;bet the company&quot; litigation; and, the effect settlements in nine or ten figures might have on upcoming plans for mergers or acquisitions.&nbsp; </p>
<p>I can read a financial statement.&nbsp;</p>
<p>At a minimum, I can ask the questions necessary to obtain the knowledge required to ascertain the interests that must be satisfied by both parties to <strong>transform the litigation into an opportunity to make a business deal.&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong>And I know how to make the commercial clients happy with their attorneys' final resolution of the business problem burdened with the justice issue that brought the case into court in the first instance.</p>
<p>I am also schooled in the &quot;field&quot; of conflict resolution.&nbsp; I understand at depth the cognitive biases --&nbsp; universal tendencies in the way we think -- that inhibit rational decision making.&nbsp; I&nbsp;know how conflict escalates and, more importantly, how it can be deescalated.&nbsp; I understand the role emotion plays in decision making (particularly the emotion most common among business litigation clients - anger);&nbsp; the gentle (and not so gentle) art of persuasion and, perhaps most importantly, the optimal negotiation strategies and tactics for the business problem at hand.</p>
<p><strong>And, I know in the knuckles of my spine what keeps commercial litigators awake at night</strong>, worrying about the next strategic, tactical, legal or extra-legal move to make; how to explain to the client that the case has suddenly gone south; and, how to deliver that bad news to the client in a way he or she can hear it <em>and </em>successfully report it to the GC, the CEO, the Board of Directors or e ven the shareholders.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I know this sounds like a lot of boastful self-promotion (it is).&nbsp; Please don't take my word for it.&nbsp; Anyone charged with finding, retaining and hiring a mediator to assist the parties in resolving a piece of hard-fought, sophisticated, complex commercial litigation would do well to check with his or her peers on any mediator's boastful self-appraisals.</p>
<p><strong>This is what I recall of mediator-hunting, however</strong>.&nbsp; I'd send out a list to my colleagues.&nbsp; I'd invariably get back opinions that were all over the board.&nbsp; He/she is <em>great&nbsp;</em>with clients but usually ends up splitting the baby in half.&nbsp; He/she talks too much and listens too little.&nbsp; He/she marginalized the client and made me look bad.&nbsp; He/she charges $15,000 per day and is one of the go-to mediators for this type of case but I was unimpressed, as was the client.&nbsp; This guy/gal can settle <em>anything.&nbsp; Brilliant.&nbsp; Magical. &nbsp;</em></p>
<p>So what's a beleaguered litigator to do?&nbsp; Ask people you respect both inside and outside your law firm.&nbsp; Ask how the mediator handles the &quot;process dimensions&quot; of the mediation.&nbsp; Does he/she simply carry numbers and rationales back and forth between separate caucus rooms.&nbsp; Can she give bad news to both sides.&nbsp; Can he go beyond positional, zero-sum bargaining and into interest-based negotiated resolutions?&nbsp; Is the client happy with the result <em>and&nbsp;</em>with the process?&nbsp; After you've done this basic research, call the mediator yourself and ask him/her about the way in which she/he might handle the mediation of the particular matter you need to have resolved.&nbsp;&nbsp; You should not only have the best information possible in making your choice, you should get a fair amount of terrific free advice and external brain-storming along the way.</p>
<p>I really just meant to cite the Business Conflict Blog and get back to revising The ABC's of Conflict Resolution - my second draft due on October 30.</p>
<p>So what's my answer to the question whether the mediator should have industry knowledge?&nbsp;<em> </em>That answer lies, as most legal problems do, in the gray zone.&nbsp; Industry knowledge helps.&nbsp; But every commercial litigator knows that we can <em>learn </em>any industry if we have a basic understanding of how commercial enterprises work.&nbsp; That's what I know -- commercial litigation -- and it is the reason I don't mediate personal injury or employment disputes with anyone below the rank of senior executive.&nbsp; I&nbsp;don't know the right questions to ask and I don't know -- at depth -- the parties' or counsel's decision cycles.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I can <em>learn, </em>but if you called me for a personal injury or employment mediator, I wouldn't recommend myself - I'd recommend someone like <a href="http://www.fieldsmediation.com/about.html">Janet Fields</a> or <a href="http://www.adjudicateinc.com/neutral/224">Nikki Tolt</a> at <a href="http://www.adjudicateinc.com/">Judicate West</a> (personal injury) or <a href="http://deborahrothman.com">Deborah Rothman,</a> <a href="http://www.mccauleylaw.com/">Jay McCauley</a> or <a href="http://lisaklerman.com">Lisa Klerman</a> at their own mediation shops (employment).&nbsp;</p>
<p>For commercial mediation, I'd recommend the usual suspects (including, of course, <a href="http://www.adrservices.org/neutrals/victoria-pynchon.php">myself</a>) and <a href="http://www.jeffkichaven.com/">Jeff Kichaven</a>, <a href="http://www.resolutionsllc.com/principals.htm">Eric Green</a>, <a href="http://www.pma-adr.com/index.php/neutrals/view/jay_mccauley/">Jay</a> and <a href="http://www.pma-adr.com/index.php/neutrals/view/deborah_rothman/">Deborah</a>, <a href="http://www.ralphwilliamsmediation.com/">Ralph Williams</a> (at <a href="http://adrservices.org">ADR Services, Inc</a>.), <a href="http://www.jamsadr.com/professionals/xpqProfDet.aspx?xpST=ProfessionalDetail&amp;professional=1236&amp;ajax=no">George Calkins</a> and <a href="http://www.jamsadr.com/kurland/">Jerry Kurland</a> at <a href="http://www.jamsadr.com/">JAMS</a> (complex construction litigation); <a href="http://ipadr.com/les.html">Les Weinstein</a> (IP, particularly as an arbitrator); <a href="http://www.adjudicateinc.com/neutral/105">Mike Young</a> (Judicate West and <a href="http://www.alston.com/michael_young/">Alston + Bird</a>); and, <a href="http://www.wagneradr.com/">John Leo Wagne</a>r (Judicate West).&nbsp;</p>
<p>I know I've left a lot of fine mediators out of this list but these are the ones who immediately spring to mind because I either have personal experience as a client or co-mediator or I have it on the authority of my husband, <a href="http://www.dicksteinshapiro.com/people/detail.aspx?attorney=3e6c8f6d-bba2-41c1-bd4e-0853213006b9">Stephen N. Goldberg</a>, formerly at Heller and now at <a href="http://www.dicksteinshapiro.com/">Dickstein Shapiro</a> (author of the <a href="http://policyholder.blogspot.com/">Catastrophic Insurance Coverage blog</a>). </p>
<p>Enough!&nbsp; Off to the real brains at hand -- Bruce Bueno de Mesquita at TED.</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p><img style="width: 139px; height: 188px;" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/EliseBouldingProtests.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" align="left" /><a href="http://www.beyondintractability.org/audio/elise_boulding/?nid=2413">Sociologist Elise Boulding</a> has said that we live in a &ldquo;200 year present,&rdquo; a &ldquo;social space which reaches into the past and into the future&rdquo; -- a space in which &ldquo;we can move around directly in our own lives and indirectly by touching the lives of the young and old around us.&rdquo;&nbsp;<a href="http://www.polity.co.uk/ccr/">Miall, Ramsbotham and Woodhouse, Contemporary Conflict Resolution</a>.</p>
<p><strong>What does the 200-year present have to do with conflict resolution week?&nbsp;</strong> It reminds us that new forms never really completely replace the old ones.&nbsp; We continue to employ every technique we've ever used to <a href="http://legalpad.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/judge-isnt-racist-hes-just-worried-about-the-children.html">suppress</a>, <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2007/09/articles/conflict-resolution/conflict-avoidance-social-obligations-larry-david-and-shame/">avoid</a>, <a href="http://www.consumerclassactionsmasstorts.com/2009/10/articles/standing/fifth-circuit-reverses-dismissal-of-climate-change-class-action-brought-by-private-plaintiffs-who-blame-hurricane-katrina-on-global-warming/">deny</a>, resolve, transform, or transcend conflict, including <a href="http://www.silvermansherlikerblog.com/the-politics-of-binge-drinking">force</a> (<a href="http://www.legaljuice.com/2009/10/outsmarted_by_an_elevator.html">violent</a> and <a href="http://www.digital-rights.net/?p=2770">non-</a>violent such as<a href="http://thetrialwarrior.blogspot.com/2009/10/blaneys-blarney-order-english-court.html"> injunctions subject of a Trial Warrior Blog post this week</a>); <a href="http://wombletradesecrets.blogspot.com/2009/10/ford-motor-design-secrets-allegedly.html">thievery</a> (the <a href="http://wombletradesecrets.blogspot.com/">Trade Secrets Blog</a>); <a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/10/18/blogging-is-alive-and-aggravating.aspx?ref=rss">shaming</a> (<a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/">which Scott Greenfield</a> does to bloggers "looking for fights and dumb as dirt" and which <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/more-civility-from-the-dnc/">Volokh suggests we do to health insurers</a>); <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/showing-cyberbullying-no-mercy-show-me-state">bullying</a> (solutions to which appear at the <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog">Citizen Media Law Project</a>); <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/crimprof_blog/2009/10/when-is-interrogation-torture.html">torture</a> (still with us at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/crimprof_blog/">Crim Prof Blog</a>); cheating (<a href="http://concretelyambiguous.com/inside-information/">Make Yourself Better with Their Secrets at Concretely Ambiguous</a>) <a href="http://www.lawschoolexpert.com/blog/2009/10/13/crafting-your-best-law-school-personal-statement/">ingratiation</a> (<a href="http://www.lawschoolexpert.com/blog/2009/10/13/crafting-your-best-law-school-personal-statement/">at the Law School Expert</a>); persuasive <a href="http://lefarkins.blogspot.com/2009/10/evasive-tactics-in-arguments-you.html">argumentation</a>; appeal to <a href="http://jodielhill.com/2009/10/14/fifth-circuit-upholds-upholds-ban-of-confederate-flag-in-school-dress-code/">third party authority</a>; bargaining; <a href="http://www.therainmakerblog.com/2008/07/articles/law-firm-development/five-successful-law-firm-marketing-strategies-to-attract-firstrate-prospects/">communication</a>; and, <a href="http://houchinlaw.com/?p=477">problem solving</a> (<a href="http://houchinlaw.com/?p=477">The Tao of Advice at the Business of Creativity</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p>Whichever dispute resolution mechanism you use, it should be much improved if you take up&nbsp;<a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/2009/10/what-fun-get-some-balls-because-juggling-can-improve-your-brain.html"> juggling</a> (as reported this week at <a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/">Idealawg</a>).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.enjoymediation.com/">Transformative conflict resolution</a> of the type covered by <a href="http://www.enjoymediation.com/">New York City police officer, Jeff Thompson at Enjoy Mediation</a>, requires <a href="http://www.law21.ca/2009/10/15/the-solution-or-the-problem/">accountability</a> (by lawyers, for instance, to the principle of <a href="http://www.law21.ca/2009/10/15/the-solution-or-the-problem/">justice at Law21</a>); <a href="http://www.jdblissblog.com/2009/10/working-mother-magazine-and-flextime-lawyers-announce-their-2009-list-of-the-50-best-law-firms-for-w.html">recognition</a> (at <a href="http://www.jdblissblog.com/">JD Bliss</a>); <a href="http://www.theconglomerate.org/2009/10/the-power-of-an-apology.html">apology</a>, <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/once-illinois-federal-judge-lets-em-roll-and-gets-bulldozed">amends</a>, <a href="http://opiniojuris.org/2009/10/12/charli-carpenter-on-the-eu-georgia-russia-war-report/">reconciliation</a> (at <a href="http://opiniojuris.org/"><em>Opinio Juris</em></a>); <a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/2009/10/17/are-differing-post-divorce-parenting-styles-causing-conflict/">power </a><em><a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/2009/10/17/are-differing-post-divorce-parenting-styles-causing-conflict/">with</a> (</em>negotiation and cooperation at the <a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/">Ohio Family Law Blog</a>) instead of <a href="http://electionlawblog.org/archives/014573.html">power </a><em><a href="http://electionlawblog.org/archives/014573.html">over</a> </em>(at the <a href="http://electionlawblog.org/">Election Law Blog</a>); and, <em>i</em><em>nterests </em>rather than <em><a href="http://www.gaycoupleslawblog.com/2009/10/articles/marriage/california-out-of-state-gay-marriage-recognition-law-makes-a-mess-of-names/">rights</a></em> (at the <a href="http://www.gaycoupleslawblog.com/">Gay Couples Law Blog</a>).</p>
<p>No brand of law-giver or enforcer has ever entirely left the scene.&nbsp; <a href="http://legalpad.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/change-of-venue-granted-in-bart-cops-murder-trial.html">Cops</a>, negotiators, <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/blog/2009/10/international-projects-and-initiatives-part-ii/">mediators</a> (on the <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/blog/2009/10/international-projects-and-initiatives-part-ii/">international scene at the Business Conflict Blog</a>); conciliators, <a href="http://www.karlbayer.com/blog/?p=5822">arbitrators</a>, trial attorneys (<a href="http://lawcomix.blogspot.com/2009/10/tattoo-marked-as-exhibit.html">marking tattoos as exhibits over at LawComix</a>), <a href="http://www.law.com/jsp/law/careercenter/lawArticleCareerCenter.jsp?id=1202434690687&amp;rss=careercenter">corporate lawyers</a>, <a href="http://www.indisputably.org/?p=568">legislators</a>&nbsp; (fomenting a <a href="http://www.indisputably.org/?p=568">Franken Amendment at the ADR Prof Blawg</a>); <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/supreme-court-is-all-business-or-half.html">judges</a> (<a href="http://www.legallyunbound.com/2009/10/are-judicial-elections-still-good-for.html">whether elected or appointed at Legally Unbound</a>), and, <a href="http://www.scotusblog.com/wp/wednesday-round-up-4/">juries</a> (<a href="http://www.scotusblog.com/wp/wednesday-round-up-4/">who might be biased at SCOTUS Blog</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p>And of course the gadflies (<a href="http://www.pointoflaw.com/archives/2009/10/wolf-protection.php">wolf protection lawsuits anyone? at&nbsp; Point of Law</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/nbas-chris-bosh-gets-legal-slam-dunk-then-plays-team-ball/">Win</a>, <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">lose</a>, <a href="http://www.georgiadebtlaw.com/bankruptcy-blog/2009/10/13/king-siblings-reach-settlement/">settle</a>, <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/special-injunctions-101-a-guide/">enjoin</a> (at <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/">Charon QC</a>) or simply give up (<a href="http://www.csoonline.com/article/print/504793">6 Ways We Gave Up Our Privacy at CSO Security and Risk</a>).&nbsp; We regulate <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/16/indiana-high-court-allows-myspace-entry-as-evidence-in-murder-trial/">crime</a> and prescribe punishment (<a href="http://sentencing.typepad.com/sentencing_law_and_policy/2009/10/friday-forum-what-kind-of-sentence-would-you-give-to-roman-polanski.html">Polanski at Sentencing Law and Policy</a> and <a href="http://bennettandbennett.com/blog/2009/10/the-end-of-an-era.html">The End of an Era at Defending People</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://prawfsblawg.blogs.com/prawfsblawg/2009/10/missing-in-action-innovation.html">We wage war</a> (at <a href="http://prawfsblawg.blogs.com/prawfsblawg/">Prawfs Blog</a>) and seek <a href="http://www.delawareemploymentlawblog.com/2009/10/what_can_employers_learn_from_1.html">peace</a> (at the <a href="http://www.delawareemploymentlawblog.com/">Delaware Employment Law Blog</a>) as <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/and-now-inevitable-conservative.html">conflict inevitably erupts over Obama's (embarrassing) peace prize</a> (at <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com">Balkinization</a>).</p>
<p><a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/aclu-back-as-a-whipping-boy.html">And, lest we forget our primary purpose, we bend our efforts toward justice</a> (which, according to <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/aclu-back-as-a-whipping-boy.html">BLT is not necessarily available to card-carrying members of the ACLU</a>).</p>
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<p><strong>My own personal 200-year present </strong>spans the life of my maternal grandparents who were nine years old in 1909, and that of my step-children&rsquo;s children, who (assuming they <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/judge-in-gay-marriage-case-ability-to-procreate-not-required/">procreate</a> on a reasonable schedule) should be ninety-five'ish in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It%27s_Such_a_Beautiful_Day">2109</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p>My grandfather, born in 1900, witnessed the birth of electricity, saw the <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/2009/10/win_a_texas_lemon_law_case_by_1.html">first automobile roll off an assembly line</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn2"><sup>[2]</sup></a> and stood awestruck in a cornfield as <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/ruth-bader-ginsburg-hospitalized/">one of mankind&rsquo;s first airplanes took flight</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn3"><sup>[3]</sup></a>&nbsp; Although we've progressed from bi-planes to jets and rockets (some of which may <a href="http://www.martindale.com/aviation-aerospace/article_Hinckley-Allen-Snyder-LLP_818600.htm">someday be green</a>) we still fly balloons of the type first launched in 1783 -- both <a href="http://www.goodyearblimp.com/">Goodyear Blimps</a> and the backyard variety, covered this week by <a href="http://legalblogwatch.typepad.com/legal_blog_watch/2009/10/balloon-boy-hits-the-blawgosphere-and-twitter.html">Legal Blog Watch</a> as <a href="http://lawandmore.typepad.com/law_and_more/2009/10/the-balloon-was-it-an-attractive-nuisance.html">Law and More</a></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><a href="http://lawandmore.typepad.com/law_and_more/2009/10/the-balloon-was-it-an-attractive-nuisance.html"><em>asked here</em></a><em> whether the shiny, flying, silver Jiffy Pop-looking craft tethered in the backyard of Richard Heene was an "attractive nuisance" under the law. <br /> </em></p>
<p>Grandpa's first war was, well, the <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/brewer-on-why-america-fights-sunstein.html">First and his second was the Second</a>,<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn4"><sup>[4]</sup></a>&nbsp; as if there'd never been any wars before the <a href="http://www.pbs.org/greatwar/maps/">Great One</a>. By the time I was born, mid-century, we'd fought <a href="http://www.firstworldwar.com/">the war to end all wars</a> twice and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_War_III">knew we'd never survive a third</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p><img src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/180px-Ring-a-ring-a-roses.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="180" height="175" align="right" />My <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/?p=122">imagined grandchildren</a>, <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn6"><sup>[6]</sup></a> born sometime between today and 2014, will not be strangers to any of my grandfather&rsquo;s technologies.&nbsp;Despite the advent of compact fluorescent light bulbs, the early lives of my step-children's children will likely pass under the glow of the same incandescent lights that brightened granddad&rsquo;s one-room school house.&nbsp;They will be transported to school in cars with internal combustion engines, learn the same alphabet from the same cardboard and paper books (<a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/2009/10/does-the-brain-like-e-books.html">as well as from the "e" variety</a>) <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn7"><sup>[7]</sup></a> and <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/2009/10/100-useful-tools-for-special-needs-students-educators.html">play many of the same games</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn8"><sup>[8]</sup></a>&nbsp; he did &ndash; hop scotch, jump rope and ring-around the rosy.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Change will etch itself into the lives of my grandchildren as surely as it did my own, my parents' and my grandparents'.&nbsp; Hybrids will give way to fully electric (and perhaps <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/2009/10/hemp-and-audacity.html">hemp-powered)</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn9"><sup>[9]</sup></a> vehicles (effective or <a href="http://www.injury-and-disability.com/2009/10/ford-recalls-45-million-vehicles-due-to-defective-switch.html">defective</a>) and though electricity will continue to be&nbsp; generated by hydroelectric dams, wind farms and nuclear power plants, some <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">new and unimaginable source of power</a> will surely push back the nights of my grand children's children. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn10"><sup>[10]</sup></a></p>
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<p><strong>Law, politics, society and culture also exist in the 200-year present of </strong><a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com/2009/10/duty-to-clients-or-country.html"><strong>conflict resolution.</strong></a> &nbsp;<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn11"><sup>[11]</sup></a> In my personal 200-year span, the law seems to have changed the most profoundly. Was it the law first and culture later?&nbsp; Or do they weave our future together?</p>
<p>The first U.S. woman lawyer, Myra Bradwell, was admitted to practice a mere ten years before my grandmother was born. Mrs. Bradwell&rsquo;s legal career was the subject of one of the sorriest U.S. Supreme Court decisions ever handed down, in which the Court opined,</p>
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<p><em>The civil law as well as nature itself, has always recognized a wide difference in the respective spheres and destinies of man and woman. Man is, or should be, woman&rsquo;s protector and defender.&nbsp; The <a href="http://www.loweringthebar.net/2009/10/woman-learns-to-swear-in-order-to-make-partner.html">natural and proper timidity and delicacy which belongs to the female sex</a> evidently unfits it for many of the occupations of civil life. The constitution of the family organization, which is founded in the divine ordinance, as well as in the nature of things, indicates the domestic sphere as that which properly belongs to the domain and functions of womanhood. The harmony, not to say the identity, of interests and views which belong, or should belong, to the family institution is <a href="http://ms-jd.org/new-gender-gap">repugnant to the idea for a woman adopting a distinct and independent career from that of her husband</a> &hellip; for these reasons I think that the laws of Illinois now complained of are not obnoxious to the charge of any abridging any of the privileges and immunities of cities of the United States.</em></p>
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<p><a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn12"><sup>[12]</sup></a></p>
<p>Another nineteen years would pass after Bradwell began her practice before she (and my nineteen year old grandmother) were guaranteed <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/judge-says-virginia-violated-rights-of-overseas-voters-.html">the right to vote</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn13"><sup>[13]</sup></a> And another 30 years would pass after <em>my </em>women's movement -- the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second-wave_feminism">Second Wave</a> -- before we'd have our own&nbsp; business magazine -&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.forbes.com/forbeswoman/">ForbesWoman</a> (<a href="http://www.forbes.com/2009/09/18/disputes-compensation-success-forbes-woman-leadership-negotiating.html">my part in it here</a>).&nbsp; And let us not forget that despite the 20th Century's great civil rights achievements, when America catches a cold, black America gets pneumonia.&nbsp; See e.g. <a href="http://www.onbeingablacklawyer.com/?p=1566">Problems All Around for Blacks in Big Law at Being a Black Lawyer</a>.</p>
<p>My grandparents', parents' and step-children's 20th Century was dominated by <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/human-rights-immunity-or-accountability.html">genocide</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn14"><sup>[14]</sup></a> on a scale and a technological precision unimaginable to our earlier forebears.&nbsp; Mid-century brought with it the threat of <a href="http://gabrielsawma.blogspot.com/2009/10/do-sanctions-on-iran-work.html">nuclear annihilation</a> but also liberated millions of people enslaved by <a href="http://www.thecourt.ca/2009/10/14/bil%E2%80%99in-and-yassin-v-green-park-international-ltd-quebec-court-acknowledges-war-crimes-as-potential-basis-for-civil-liability-claim-ultimately-fails-on-forum-non-conveniens/">colonialism</a>.&nbsp; We cured polio in my own lifetime with both "dead" and "live"&nbsp;vaccines (neither of them <a href="http://www.newyorkpersonalinjuryattorneyblog.com/2009/09/counterfeit-drugs-and-their-deadly.html">counterfeit</a>) - a singular moment in scientific history during which <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonas_Salk">no one took ownership of the cure</a> and no one tried to stop others from seeking another, a problem <a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/">Patently O</a> addressed this week in <a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/patent/2009/10/patent-reform-reverse-payments.html">Reverse Payments</a>.</p>
<p>Whether god or satan, heaven or hell, war or peace "won"&nbsp;the twentieth century, the world's greatest peace-making body was created during it -- the <a href="http://internationallawobserver.eu/2009/10/15/the-copenhagen-climate-conference-2009-cop-15/">United Nations</a>.&nbsp; And here in the U.S., the &ldquo;living room war,&rdquo; Viet Nam, coupled with the largest generation of adolescents ever to grace American society, ended the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/2009/10/dont-ask-dont-tell-dont-teach-air-force-academy-punishes-instructor-for-discussion-on-sexual-minorities-in-the-military.html">forcible induction of young men into the military</a>.&nbsp;<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn15"><sup>[15]</sup></a></p>
<p><strong>With the recent discovery of our earliest ancestor, </strong><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2009/oct/01/fossil-ardi-human-race"><strong>Ardi</strong></a><strong>, our biological and social lives exist in a 4.4 million year <em>now</em>.</strong>&nbsp;Our physical bodies &ldquo;evolve&rdquo; in the womb along the same lines as did our species and, once born, we carry with us our earliest organs. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn16"><sup>[16]</sup></a> Most critical of these to conflict escalation and avoidance is our &ldquo;fight-flight&rdquo; mechanism &ndash; the amygdala.<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn17"><sup>[17]</sup></a>&nbsp;And the most pertinent biological agents to promote the collaborative resolution of conflict are our &ldquo;<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/10/science/10mirr.html">mirror neurons</a>&rdquo; which</p>
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<p><em>&nbsp;provide a powerful biological foundation for the evolution of culture . . . absorb[ing] it directly, with each generation teaching the next by social sharing, imitation and observation.</em></p>
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<p><em>&nbsp;</em><a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn18"><sup>[18]</sup></a></p>
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<p>As&nbsp;&ldquo;exquisitely social creatures,&rdquo; our &ldquo;survival depends on understanding the actions, intentions and emotions of others.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>Id.&nbsp;</em>That our misunderstandings and <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/14/hayek-on-the-use-of-superior-expert-knowledge-as-a-justification-of-paternalism/">cognitive biases</a> -- mentioned by <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/14/pitfalls-of-paternalism/">Volokh on Paternalism</a> and Michael Carbone on <a href="http://mediationstrategies.blogspot.com/2009/10/offer-he-cant-refuse.html">reactive devaluation</a> at <a href="http://mediationstrategies.blogspot.com/">Mediation Strategies</a> this week -- threaten our survival as a species is undeniable (cf. <a href="http://lawyerist.com/lawyers-must-evolve-or-face-extinction/">Lawyers Must Survive or Face Extinction at the Lawyerist)</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>How </em>we&rsquo;ve manage to survive despite our tendency to <em>misread </em>one another&rsquo;s actions, intentions and emotions, is often the subject of those who advise us how to choose and move juries -- here -- Anne Reed at <a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/">Deliberations</a> (explaining why "they" don't see things like "we"&nbsp;do <a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/2009/10/when-they-dont-see-what-you-see.html">here</a>); and, the <a href="http://keenetrial.com/blog">Jury Room</a> (explaining why pain hurts more intensely when we believe it's been intentionally inflicted <a href="http://keenetrial.com/blog/2009/10/16/but-they-did-it-on-purpose/">here</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><em>The Most Effective Conflict Resolution Technology is the Oldest</em></strong></p>
<p>One of our <em>true </em><a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=OG">original gangsters</a>, <a href="http://www.chicagohs.org/history/capone.html">Al Capone</a>, is reported to have said that &ldquo;you can get much further with a kind word and a gun than you can with a kind word alone&rdquo; and one of our greatest Presidents, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theodore_Roosevelt">Theodore Roosevelt</a> said&nbsp;&ldquo;speak softly and carry a big stick.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Capone and Roosevelt didn't know it, but they were talking about the most effective (and most ancient) form of conflict resolution &ndash; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tit_for_tat"><em>tit for tat</em></a>.&nbsp;In 1980, political Scientist Robert Axelrod asked game theory experts to submit computer programs designed to prevail in a game that provided the highest reward to cooperating pairs -- the famous <a href="http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/prisoner-dilemma/">Prisoner's Dilemma</a>. (See also <a href="http://www.litigationandtrial.com/2009/10/articles/litigation/ideas/a-game-theory-model-of-medical-malpractice-settlements-and-insurance-bad-faith/">Max Kennerly's excellent post on Game Theory and Medical Malpractice Settlements at the Philadelphia Litigation and Trial Blog</a>).</p>
<p>The winner of Axelrod's competition was a program named tit for tat.&nbsp; Tit for tat was programmed to <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/2009/10/a-judge-may-endorse-the-sedona-conference-cooperation-report-without-running-afoul-of-ethics-rules-according-to-a-recent-opi.html">cooperate</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn19"><sup>[19]</sup></a>&nbsp; with its first encounter with any other programmed player.&nbsp; It&nbsp; <a href="http://stayviolation.typepad.com/chucknewton/2009/10/savvy-networking-for-lawyers-who-hate-the-thought.html">rewarded cooperation with cooperation</a> (just as networking will <a href="http://stayviolation.typepad.com/chucknewton/2009/10/savvy-networking-for-lawyers-who-hate-the-thought.html">reward the savvy lawyer over at Chuck Newton's Ride the Third Wave</a>) and punished non-cooperation with retaliation. Because Tit for Tat <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">retaliated in the face of non-cooperation</a> (just as a former employee did according to <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">Hell Hath No Fury at Chicago Law Blogger</a>) it was never repeatedly victimized. And because Tit for Tat &ldquo;<a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/2009/10/12/roman-polanski-and-the-rule-of-law/">forgave</a>&rdquo; non-cooperators upon their return to cooperative game playing (as some believe <a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/2009/10/12/roman-polanski-and-the-rule-of-law/">Mr. Polanski should be forgiven</a> over at the <a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/">Marquette U. Law School Faculty Blog</a>) it never got locked into mutually costly chains of mutual <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/2009/10/wall_streets_defense_tactics_c.html">betrayal</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn20"><sup>[20]</sup></a></p>
<p>As Robert Wright, author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Moral-Animal-Science-Evolutionary-Psychology/dp/0679763996">The Moral Animal</a> explained, had Tit for Tat been tossed into the game with 50 steadfast non-cooperators, there would have been a 49-way tie for first place. But none of the players' programs failed to cooperate in at least <em>some </em>circumstances, leaving Tit for Tat the clear victor.&nbsp; According to Wright, humans, like the programs in Axelrod's competition, are evolutionarily &ldquo;designed&rdquo; to cooperate under at least some circumstances. The engine and benefit of cooperation is present in our neurochemistry.&nbsp; When scientists observed the brain activity of volunteers playing the <a href="http://www.licensinghandbook.com/2009/09/04/the-prisoners-dilemma/">Prisoner&rsquo;s Dilemma game</a>, for instance, they found that the participants' &ldquo;reward circuits&rdquo; were activated and their impulsive "me first" circuits inhibited when they cooperated. Cooperation, retaliation, forgiveness and a return to cooperation. Tit for Tat.&nbsp;</p>
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<p><strong>Laws and Lawyers<br /> </strong></p>
<p><img src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/wetten van hammurabi.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="200" height="371" align="right" />First and most importantly, I suppose, are the<a href="http://socialmedialawstudent.com/twitter/how-to-identify-if-you-are-tweeting-with-a-lawyer/"> social media signs that you're "tweeting" like a lawyer over at the Social Media Law Student Blog</a>.&nbsp; Why first or important?&nbsp; <em><a href="http://www.philipcoppens.com/delphi.html">Know thyself</a>. &nbsp;</em>Everything else follows that.</p>
<p>We don't "dis" lawyers here at the Negotiation Blog.&nbsp; We simply remind ourselves that our primary purpose is the promotion of justice, with a stable societal order closely behind.&nbsp; Most people don't understand, for instance, that Shakespeare's famous <strong><span style="font-style: italic;"><em>the first thing we do, </em><em>let's kill all the lawyers</em></span></strong><em> </em>was not an insult.&nbsp; In King Henry IV, Act IV, Scene II, Shakespeare's sentiment was not his own, but that of a <a href="http://www.spectacle.org/797/finkel.html">revolutionary who wished to destroy the social order</a>.</p>
<p>The historic "present"&nbsp;of laws and lawyers is in the thousands, not simply the hundreds, of years. Hammurabi&nbsp;(make of his choice for the memorialization of his laws what you will) was the sixth king of Babylon, remembered for creating -- in his own name (and likeness?) - the first written and systematic legal code.&nbsp;</p>
<p>These laws provided for a mix of physical punishment -&nbsp;60 lashes with an ox hide whip - &lsquo;measure for measure&rsquo; awards (still with us in the form of <a href="http://standdown.typepad.com/weblog/2009/10/confronting-lethal-injection-in-maryland.html">lethal injection as covered by The StandDown Texas Project</a>) &ndash; eye for eye, bone fracture for bone fracture &ndash; and monetary compensation &ndash; 20 shekels for tooth injuries &ndash; (preserved by <a href="http://workers-compensation.blogspot.com/2009/10/nebraska-adopts-workers-compensation.html">workplace injury awards such as those discussed at the Workers Compensation Blog</a>) depended not only upon the type of injury, but the social classes involved in the loss, i.e., &lsquo;measure for measure&rsquo; sanctions were specified for losses among the upper classes while monetary awards were required for losses caused to and by commoners (reminding us that <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/paying-attention-to-how-people-in.html">disrespect still too often turns on social status or "outsider" classification as discussed at Balkinization</a> this week).&nbsp; <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn23"><sup>[23]</sup></a>&nbsp;</p>
<p>For the wrongful killing of another, for instance, the victim&rsquo;s kin were paid according to the social status of the deceased party. Thus the &lsquo;man price&rsquo; for killing a peasant was 200 shillings and that for a nobleman 1200 shillings.&nbsp;Payments were not, however, tailored to the loss, but fixed according to types of affront, a distinction we continue to make when we punish intentional torts more severely than negligent ones.&nbsp; <sup>[24]</sup>&gt;</p>
<p>Criminal law and civil, it all comes down to a process that is "due" (a topic covered in a <a href="http://www.johntfloyd.com/blog/2009/10/14/who-are-the-real-home-grown-terrorists/">blistering post about tea-partiers and other "protectors"&nbsp;of the Constitution at the Criminal Jurisdiction Law Blog</a>) and a set of guidelines against which we can exercise some small degree of control over our own commercial and personal futures (like those subject of <a href="http://www.theconstructioncontractreview.com/2009/10/delays-not-party-time-excellent-for-subcontractor.html">Delays Not "Party Time, Excellent" for Subcontractor at the Construction Contract Review</a>).</p>
<p>Lawyers, litigators and trial lawyers are too often demonized by the ADR community as if you could get someone to sit down to negotiate without first pointing the gun of litigation at their heads; I salute you (and myself, for that matter!) for bringing us all to the bargaining table.&nbsp; See <a href="http://stevemehta.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/time-to-make-peace-factors-in-when-peace-makes-sense/">Steve Mehta's recent post at Mediation Matters, Factors When Peace Makes Sense</a> for a note that touches upon the symbiotic relationship between litigation and mediation, litigators and mediators.</p>
<p>I shouldn't cite single legal blogs twice, but I cannot resist this quote of Scott Greenfield's on another pundit's view of the future lawyers have in store for them, i.e.,&nbsp; <em><br /> </em></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>shucking oysters for a living if we don't accept a future of lawyers being piece workers in factories, sending our work off to Bangalore in pdf files and complementing people on their choice of forms at Legal Zoom.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/10/15/legal-rebels-the-sky-is-falling.aspx">Legal Rebels:&nbsp; the Sky is Falling at Simple Justice</a>.&nbsp; <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/2009/10/15/aba-journal-24-hours-of-legal-rebels-education-costs-money-but-then-so-does-ignorance/">Charon QC also weighs in on the ABA Legal Rebels project here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Arbitration</strong></p>
<p>Which came first?&nbsp;Public civil trials or private arbitrations?&nbsp;You&rsquo;ll be surprised, I&rsquo;ll wager, to hear that arbitration was one of the earliest forms of dispute resolution, practiced by the <em>juris consults</em> of the Roman Empire.&nbsp;Roman arbitration predates the <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/medical-negligence/alternative-dispute-resolution-and-medical-negligence/">adversarial system</a> of common law by more than<em> a thousand years</em>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn25"><sup>[25]</sup></a></p>
<p>Ah, the glory of Rome! The <em>juris consulti</em> were (like too many mediators) amateurs who dabbled in dispute resolution, raising the question whether they (and we) should be certified or regulated as <a href="http://mediationchannel.com/2009/10/18/public-licensing-and-regulation-of-mediators-the-arguments-for-and-against/">Diane Levin asks at The Mediation Channel this week</a>.&nbsp; The Roman hobbyists gave legal opinions (<em>responsa</em>) to all comers (a practice known as <em>publice respondere</em>).&nbsp;They also served the needs of Roman judges and governors would routinely consult with advisory panels of jurisconsults before rendering decisions.&nbsp;Thus, the Romans &ndash; god bless them! - were the first to have a class of people who spent their days thinking about legal problems (an activity some readers will recall <a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com/articles/our-readers-write/">Ralph Nader calling "mental gymnastics in an iron cage</a>").</p>
<p><strong><img style="width: 182px; height: 284px;" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/LAW018.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" align="right" />18th Century Dispute Resolution Technology:&nbsp; The (<a href="http://lawiscool.com/2009/10/15/uwo-arrest-justified-arrest-or-abuse-of-power/">Inevitably Polarizing</a>) Adversarial System</strong></p>
<p><span class="style1">It was <a href="http://www.bfi.org/">Buckminster Fuller</a> who famously opined that the "significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them."&nbsp; If you keep this aphorism in mind for the remainder of this post, you'll likely have some extraordinarily innovative comments to make in the comment section below.</span></p>
<p>As the <a href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php/Adversarial_system">Law Guru wiki</a> reminds us, we can trace the adversarial system to the "medieval mode of <a class="new" title="Trial by combat" href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php?title=Trial_by_combat&amp;action=edit">trial by combat</a>, in which some litigants were allowed a champion to represent them."&nbsp; We owe our present day adversarialism, however, to the common law's use of the <a class="new" title="Jury" href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php?title=Jury&amp;action=edit">jury</a> - the power of argumentation replacing the power of the sword.</p>
<p>The Act abolishing the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Chamber">infamous Star Chamber</a> in 1641 also granted every "freeman" the right to trial by "lawful judgment of his peers" or by the "law of the land" before the Crown could "take[] or imprison[]" him or "disseis[e] [him] of his freehold or liberties, or free customs."&nbsp; Nor could he any longer be "outlawed or exciled or otherwise destroyed."&nbsp; Nor could the King "pass upon him or condemn him."&nbsp;</p>
<p><a class="mw-redirect" title="English colonies" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_colonies">English colonies</a> like our own adopted the jury trial system and we, of course, enshrined that system in the <a title="Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fifth_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Fifth</a>, <a title="Sixth Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sixth_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Sixth</a>, and <a title="Seventh Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seventh_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Seventh Amendments</a>. &nbsp;Whether this 17th century dispute resolution technology can be fine-tuned to keep abreast of 21st century dispute creation technology (particularly in the quickly moving area of intellectual property) remains one of the pressing questions of legal and ADR policy and practice, particularly in a week in which a Superior Court verbally punished the lawyers before it for filing <a href="http://laconiclawblog.com/index.php/2009/10/12/the-most-oppressive-motion-ever-presented-to-a-superior-court/">The Most Oppressive Motion Ever Presented</a> (see the <a href="http://laconiclawblog.com/">Laconic Law Blog</a>).&nbsp; The motion?&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em>Defendants['] . . . motion for summary judgment/summary adjudication, seeking adjudication of 44 issues, most of which were not proper subjects of adjudication.&nbsp; Defendants&rsquo; separate statement was 196 pages long, setting forth hundreds of facts, many of them not material&mdash;as defendants&rsquo; own papers conceded.&nbsp; And the moving papers concluded with a request for judicial notice of 174 pages.&nbsp; All told, defendants&rsquo; moving papers were 1056 pages.</em></p>
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<p><em>Id. </em>(and <em>ouch!</em>)&nbsp; On a less <a href="http://www.dickensfellowship.org/Dickensian.htm">Dickensian</a> note (think <a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/bleakhouse/index.html">Bleak House</a>) take a look at the <a href="http://ipassetmaximizerblog.com/">IP Maximizer's</a> post on <a href="http://ipassetmaximizerblog.com/?p=835">IP litigation not being smart source of revenue for inventors</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Mediator, author and activist, <a href="http://www.kennethcloke.com/">Ken Cloke</a>, suggests that interest-based resolutions to conflict must replace power and rights based resolutions if we expect to create a future in which justice prevails.&nbsp; As Ken wrote in <a href="http://www.pr.com/press-release/100687">Conflict Revolution</a>:</p>
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<p><em>Approaching evil and injustice from an interest-based perspective means listening to the deeper truths that gave rise to them, extending compassion even to those who were responsible for evils or injustices, and seeking not merely to replace one evil or injustice with another, but to reduce their attractiveness by designing outcomes, processes, and relationships that encourage adversaries to work collaboratively to satisfy their interests. </em></p>
<p><em>Evil and injustice can therefore be considered byproducts of reliance on power or rights, and failures or refusals to learn and evolve. </em></p>
<p><em>All political systems generate chronic conflicts that reveal their internal weaknesses, external pressures, and demands for evolutionary change. Power- and rights-based systems are adversarial and unstable, and therefore avoid, deny, resist, and defend themselves against change. As a result, they suppress conflicts or treat them as purely interpersonal, leaving insiders less informed and able to adapt, and outsiders feeling they were treated unjustly and contemplating evil in response. </em></p>
<p><em> As pressures to change increase, these systems must either adapt, or turn reactionary and take a punitive, retaliatory attitude toward those seeking to promote change, delaying their own evolution. Only interest-based systems are fully able to seek out their weaknesses, proactively evolve, transform conflicts into sources of learning, and celebrate those who brought them to their attention. </em></p>
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<p>These are the words I leave with the readers of Blawg Review #234 because they are the ones that informed my personal and professional transformation from a legal career based on rights and remedies to one based upon interests and consensus.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Whatever my own personal 200-year present was, is and will be, it is pointed in the direction of peace with justice, with an enormous and probably unwarranted optimism best expressed by the <a href="http://www.law.ucdavis.edu/about/history-of-king-hall.html">man after whom my law school was named</a>:&nbsp; <a href="http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/1964/king-bio.html">Martin Luther King, Jr.</a>&nbsp; - <em>the arc of history is long, but it bends toward justice</em>.</p>
<p><a href="http://blawgreview.blogspot.com">Blawg Review</a> has information about next week's host, and instructions how to get your blawg posts reviewed in upcoming issues. Next week's host, <a href="http://www.counseltocounsel.com/2009/10/seeking-blog-posts-re-impact-of-great.html">Counsel to Counsel</a>, will devote its round-up of the week's best legal posts to the Great Recession.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn1" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[1]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See the <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/">WSJ Law Blog&rsquo;s</a> post on the evolving law on gay marriage this week &ndash; <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/judge-in-gay-marriage-case-ability-to-procreate-not-required/">Procreat[ion] Not Required</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn2" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[2]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Alas, there will always be lemons over at the <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/">Texas Lemon Law Blog</a> (save those <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/2009/10/win_a_texas_lemon_law_case_by_1.html">repair invoices</a>!)</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn3" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[3]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/ruth-bader-ginsburg-hospitalized/">Ruth Bader Ginsberg Hospitalized</a> at the <a href="http://volokh.com/">Volokh Conspiracy</a>, reporting on Ginsberg&rsquo;s fall from the seat of an airplane before take-off.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn4" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[4]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See the <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/">Law History Blog</a> on <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/brewer-on-why-america-fights-sunstein.html">Brewer&rsquo;s Why America Fights</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn5" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[5]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.broadcastlawblog.com/2009/10/articles/fm-radio/fcc-opens-filing-window-for-new-noncommercial-educational-fm-stations-imposes-freeze-on-minor-changes/">Radio Stations are Still with Us at the Broadcast Law Blog (covering Non-Commercial FM Station Availability</a>).&nbsp;</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn6" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[6]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Grandchildren who will not, I hope, have to deal with my <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/?p=122">Alzheimers</a>, the perils of which are described at the <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/">Slutsky Elder Law and Estate Planning Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn7" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[7]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Though, of course, <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/2009/10/downloadable-ebooks-change-the-face-of-brick-mortar-libraries.html">e-books</a> will be read side-by-side with hard copy as paper and cardboard eventually goes the way of Colonial era hornbooks. See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/2009/10/downloadable-ebooks-change-the-face-of-brick-mortar-libraries.html">Downloadable e-Books Change the Face of Brick and Mortar Libraries</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/">Law Librarian Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn8" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[8]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Those games will, of course, exist side by side the video variety, many of which are recommended as <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/2009/10/100-useful-tools-for-special-needs-students-educators.html">Tools for Special Needs Students and Educators</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/">Adjunct Law Prof Blog</a> this week.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn9" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[9]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/2009/10/hemp-and-audacity.html">Hemp and Audacity</a> at the <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/">U.S. Ag and Food Law Policy Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn10" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[10]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">Retail Green Wrap-Up Day One</a> at the <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">Green Energy and Development Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn11" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[11]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Unfortunately, one of my <a href="http://www.adrservices.org/neutrals/jan-schau.php">colleagues at ADR Services, Inc., blogger Jan Schau</a>, will be celebrating Conflict Resolution week with the <a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com/2009/10/duty-to-clients-or-country.html">service of a subpoena to testify in federal court about a mediation over which she presided</a>.&nbsp;On a more cheerful note, go to <a href="http://regardingsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/10/happy-conflict-resolution-day.html">Re:Solutions for a Happy Conflict Resolution Day</a> and <a href="http://dialogicmediation.com/2009/10/15/conflict-resolution-day-2009/">Dialogic Mediation Services Blog for a nice Conflict Resolution Day image</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn12" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[12]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Alas there&rsquo;s <a href="http://ms-jd.org/new-gender-gap">still a gender gap</a> as described this week at <a href="http://ms-jd.org/">Ms. JD</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn13" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[13]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Voting rights are still a matter of concern today, of course.&nbsp;See <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/judge-says-virginia-violated-rights-of-overseas-voters-.html">Judge Says Virginia Violated Rights of Overseas Voters</a> at the <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/">Blog of Legal Times</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn14" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[14]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/">Rachel Anderson&rsquo;s Law Blog</a> on the <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/human-rights-immunity-or-accountability.html">scope of immunity for foreign officials</a> that Anderson believes may have important implications for Plaintiffs seeking recompense for genocide.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn15" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[15]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; One generation wants out and the other wants in.&nbsp;See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/2009/10/dont-ask-dont-tell-dont-teach-air-force-academy-punishes-instructor-for-discussion-on-sexual-minorities-in-the-military.html">Don&rsquo;t Ask, Don&rsquo;t Tell, Don&rsquo;t Teach</a> at <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/">Sexual Orientation and the Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn16" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[16]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Earlier scientific theory posited that <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/node/14673">each human embryo</a> (see <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/node/14673">Embryo Mix-Up</a> at the <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/">Proud Parenting Blog</a>) passes through a progression of abbreviated stages <a href="http://biomed.brown.edu/Courses/BIO48/30.S&amp;S.HTML">that resemble the main evolutionary stages of its ancestors</a>, i.e., that the fertilized egg starts as a single cell (just like our first living evolutionary ancestor); as the egg repeatedly divides it develops into an embryo with a segmented arrangement (the &ldquo;worm&rdquo; stage); these segments develop into vertebrae, muscles and something that sort of looks like gills (the &ldquo;fish&rdquo; stage); limb&nbsp;buds develop with paddle-like hands and feet, and there appears to be a &ldquo;tail&rdquo; (the &ldquo;amphibian&rdquo; stage); and, by the eighth week of development, most organs are nearly complete, the limbs develop fingers and toes, and the &ldquo;tail&rdquo; disappears (the human stage).&nbsp;It turns out that this one-to-one correlation was too simplistic, but it remains safe to say that our biological development still passes through several stages that &ldquo;recapitulate&rdquo; the evolution of our species.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn17" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[17]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The amygdala is a region of the brain that permits the formation and storage of memories associated with emotional events. It permits us to &ldquo;read&rdquo; the emotional responses of our fellows and is thought to facilitated our ability to form relationships and live and work in groups.&nbsp;It is also the source of our &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; response to danger.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn18" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[18]</sup></a> In <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/10/science/10mirr.html">Cells that Read Minds</a>, New York Times Science writer <a href="http://query.nytimes.com/search/query?ppds=bylL&amp;v1=SANDRA%20BLAKESLEE&amp;fdq=19960101&amp;td=sysdate&amp;sort=newest&amp;ac=SANDRA%20BLAKESLEE&amp;inline=nyt-per">Sandra Blakeslee </a>explained:</p>
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<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>Studies show that some mirror neurons fire when a person reaches for a glass or watches someone else reach for a glass; others fire when the person puts the glass down and still others fire when the person reaches for a toothbrush and so on. They respond when someone kicks a ball, sees a ball being kicked, hears a ball being kicked and says or hears the word "kick." </em></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;">&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;When you see me perform an action - such as picking up a baseball - you automatically simulate the action in your own brain,&rdquo; said Dr. Marco Iacoboni, a neuroscientist at the University of California, Los Angeles, who studies mirror neurons. &rdquo;Circuits in your brain, which we do not yet entirely understand, inhibit you from moving while you simulate,&rdquo; he said. &rdquo;But you understand my action because you have in your brain a template for that action based on your own movements. &ldquo;</em></p>
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<p><a name="_ftn19" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[19]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/2009/10/a-judge-may-endorse-the-sedona-conference-cooperation-report-without-running-afoul-of-ethics-rules-according-to-a-recent-opi.html">Judge May Endorse Discovery Proclamation</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/">Legal Profession Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn20" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[20]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Check out the post on the <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/2009/10/wall_streets_defense_tactics_c.html">Betrayal of Corporate Clients</a> at the <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/">Investment Fraud Lawyer Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn21" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[21]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.productliabilitylawblog.com/2009/09/24_million_auto_products_liabi.html">Wrongful death compensation</a> over at the <a href="http://www.productliabilitylawblog.com/">Product Liability Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn22" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[22]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Looking toward the future, the <a href="http://kolber.typepad.com/ethics_law_blog/">Neuroethics and the Law Blog</a> predicts that in the &ldquo;experiential future, we will have better technologies to measure physical pain, pain relief, and emotional distress. These technologies should not only change tort law and related compensation schemes but should also change our assessments of criminal blameworthiness and punishment severity&rdquo; <a href="http://kolber.typepad.com/ethics_law_blog/2009/10/the-experiential-future-of-the-law.html">here</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn23" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[23]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This week Beck and Herrmann at the <a href="http://druganddevicelaw.blogspot.com/">Drug and Device Law Blog</a> note that &ldquo;shame works wonders&rdquo; in their post on the <a href="http://druganddevicelaw.blogspot.com/2009/10/sorting-through-free-speech-challenges.html">Free Speech Challenges to the FDA</a>.</p>
<p><sup>[24]</sup>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Intentionally left blank.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn25" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[25]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ADR professionals are often heard critics of the adversarial system, as can be seen over at the <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/">Australian Dispute Resolvers Blog</a> where author Chris <em>Whitelaw</em> (really??) <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/medical-negligence/alternative-dispute-resolution-and-medical-negligence/">quotes the Journal of Law and Medicine as follows</a>:</p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>The adversarial system of medical negligence fails to satisfy the main aims of tort law, those being equitable compensation of plaintiffs, correction of mistakes and deterrence of negligence. Instead doctors experience litigation as a punishment and, in order to avoid exposure to the system, have resorted not to corrective or educational measures but to defensive medicine, a practice which the evidence indicates both decreases patient autonomy and increases iatrogenic injury. </em></p>
<p>&nbsp;(<em>Iatrogenic</em>, by the way, is a fancy term for &ldquo;we have know idea whatsoever what the source of this ailment<em> is</em>).&nbsp;Chris is looking for comments so run on over there if you&rsquo;ve been thinking about medical malpractice litigation during the marathon American health care debates.</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>This article (<a href="http://www.law.com/jsp/ihc/PubArticleIHC.jsp?id=1202431099540&amp;Relationships_Are_Key_in_Job_Searches=&amp;src=EMC-Email&amp;et=editorial&amp;bu=Corporate%20Counsel&amp;pt=Corporate%20Counsel%20Daily%20Alerts&amp;cn=CC20090601&amp;kw=Relationships%20Are%20Key%20in%20Job%20Searches">Relationships are Key in Job Searches</a>) flogging this book (<a href="http://whackedagain.com/default.aspx">Whacked Again! Secrets to Getting Back in the Executive Saddle</a>)&nbsp;landed in my email box from law.com this morning.</p>
<p>I have to say that I agree with <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-01-12/the-gig-economy/">magazine mogul Tina Brown that we're in a &quot;gig economy&quot;</a> not a <em>job </em>economy.&nbsp; What does that mean?&nbsp; It means doing an inventory of your dreams right next to a realistic assessment of your skills, along with a time line for getting your own business up and running, with or without investors, remembering that in a &quot;gig economy&quot; barter is a perfectly acceptable alternative to cash and in the age of the internet (<a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2009/01/articles/business-development/negotiating-the-recession-networking-wisdom-in-mentoring-circles/">Networking Wisdom in Mentoring Circles</a>) hundreds of marketing tools that can reach millions of people globally and thousands of people locally, are right beneath your fingers on the keyboard connected to the computer that brings you the most exciting set of opportunities since we decided to send men to the moon -- social networking (now <em>there's </em>a proper run-on sentence, the reward for which is buying myself a new copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Elements-Style-Fourth-William-Strunk/dp/020530902X">Elements of Style</a> which every job-seeker and new entrepreneur should do post-haste since written communication is the key to successful online business development).&nbsp;</p>
<p><img width="500" vspace="5" hspace="5" height="669" border="5" align="texttop" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/200372_441487611.jpg" alt="" />That said, for those who <strong>NEED A JOB RIGHT NOW</strong> to pay off their law school loans (remembering that dischargable or not, we no longer have debtors' prisons), here's today's <a href="http://law.com">Law.com</a> advice:</p>
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<p><em>The book gives a 12-step plan for landing a new job: 1. finding passion and creating vision; 2. creating a brand; 3. creating a value proposition; 4. creating stories; 5. developing a marketing plan; 6. getting a message out; 7. creating a marketing document; 8. meeting the friend's friend; 9. power r&eacute;sum&eacute;; 10. preparing for an interview; 11. negotiating terms; 12. landing the job; and the next step. </em></p>
<p><em>The book emphasizes the importance of keeping up contacts after landing in a new job -- knowing that another may search may be ahead. But it suggests maintaining contacts by looking for ways to help other people with a &quot;pay-it-forward&quot; approach. &quot;We all need help at some point,&quot; the book says. &quot;The concept is that you are thankful for those who helped you in the past.&quot; </em></p>
<p><em>Villwock told the group that in his experience, the most successful CEOs and other professionals are those who are most passionate about their work. &quot;When they stop having fun, that's when they stop and go on to the next job,&quot; he said. </em></p>
<p><em>He also advised the group that attitude and personal skills are as important as professional credentials. From observing executives, he said, &quot;half their success has nothing to do with performance on the job. It has everything to do with ability to sell themselves and build trusted relationships.&quot; </em></p>
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<p>If you substitute <em>business plan</em> for <em>power r&eacute;sum&eacute;</em> and <em>starting the business</em> for <em>landing the job</em>, you've got a perfectly great recipe for engaging the gig economy eagerly awaiting your contribution.&nbsp; Listen up!&nbsp; You didn't get the highest PSAT and SAT scores, graduate cum, magna or summa, ace the LSAT, study your $#@% off, learn lawyering skills, conquer your fear and pass the bar exam to be hat in hand looking to be someone's apprentice galley slave.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Think about it and join the rest of the gig economy.&nbsp;</p>
<p>We're looking forward to your unique and valuable contributions to the new economy right now!<em><br />
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Check out <a href="http://www.stevemehta.com/pub_profiles.asp">Steve Mehta's</a> recent post at <a href="http://stevemehta.wordpress.com/">Mediation Matters</a> -- <a href="http://stevemehta.wordpress.com/2009/05/21/negotiations-today-could-haunt-you-tomorrow-study-finds-long-term-implications/">Negotiations Today Could Haunt You Tomorrow</a>, once again confirming that <em>the human interaction </em>during the negotiation is more important to long term satisfaction with the deal than the raw economic benefit achieved.&nbsp; As Mehta explains, a recent study reported Curhan, J., Elfenbein, H., Kilduff, G. <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/file/right_foot.pdf"><em>Getting Off on the Right Foot: Subjective Value Versus Economic Value in Predicting Longitudial Job Outcomes From Job Offer Negotiations</em> in the Journal of Applied Pyschology, 2009, V. 94, No. 2, 524-534</a><em> </em>(.pdf)</p>
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<p><em>found that the satisfaction with the experience the employees had during their job offer negotiations significantly predicted compensation satisfaction, job satisfaction, and turnover intention one year later.&nbsp; By contrast, the actual economic value &ndash; meaning the value of the compensation package &mdash; achieved in the negotiation had no association with job attitudes or intentions to leave.</em></p>
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<p>Just as the quality of the pre-employment relationship colors the <em>entire </em>workplace experience, so will a <a href="http://www.settlenow.org/WindingRoad.html">negative termination color the employee's retrospective view of the employment experience, thereby increasing the incidence of litigation</a>.</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>If you're worried about your law job becoming -- as they say in Britain - &quot;redundant&quot; or if you've already been laid off due to the recession, join <a href="http://lawyerconnection.ning.com/">Lawyer Connection </a>which was born today as the result of a twitter conversation I&nbsp;had with <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/pub/gwynne-monahan/1/934/269">Gwynne Monahan</a> (who you can follow <a href="http://twitter.com/econwriter">@econwriter</a>).</p>
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<p>Here's an exploration of what a mutual aid group is from the viewpoint of a social worker -- which speaks to me because I lived through my first husband's <a href="http://socialwork.adelphi.edu/msw/">MSW in Social Work studies</a> before he lived through my <a href="http://www.law.ucdavis.edu/">Law School experience</a> (an eventual relationship-killer).&nbsp;</p>
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<p>From <a href="http://andrewcicchetti.wordpress.com/about-andrew-cicchetti-2/">Andrew Cicchetti's</a> <a href="http://mutualaidbasedgroupwork.blogspot.com/">Mutual Aid Based Group Work blog</a>:</p>
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<p><em>Mutual aid as group work technology can be understood as an exchange of help wherein the group member is both the provider as well as the recipient of help in service of achieving common group and individual goals (Borkman, 1999; Gitterman, 2006; Lieberman, 1983; Northen &amp; Kurland, 2001; Schwartz, 1961; Shulman, 2006, Steinberg, 2004; Toseland &amp; Siporin, 1986). The rationale for cultivating mutual aid in the group encounter is premised on mutual aid's resonance with </em><a href="http://64.233.169.104/search?q=cache:CJk9xRiS8UEJ:www.aforts.com/colloques_ouvrages/colloques/actes/interventions/glassman_urania.DOC+humanistic+values+in+group+work&amp;hl=en&amp;ct=clnk&amp;cd=2&amp;gl=us"><em>humanistic values</em></a><em> (Glassman, 2002) and the following propositions: <strong>1) members have strengths, opinions, perspectives, information, and experiences that can be drawn upon to help others in the group</strong>; 2) <strong>helping others helps the helper,</strong> a concept known as the helper-therapy principle (Reissman, 1965) which has been empirically validated (Roberts et al, 1999); and 3) <strong>some types of help, such as confrontation, are better received when emanating from a peer rather than the worker</strong> (Shulman, 2006). Mutual aid transactions that occur amongst and between members <strong>stimulate cognitive and behavioral processes</strong> and yield therapeutic, supportive and empowering benefits for the members (Breton, 1990;Northen &amp; Kurland, 2001; Shulman, 1986, 2006).</em></p>
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<p>Obviously, we're not pursuing the therapeutic benefits of a mutual aid society as social worker Cicchetti is.&nbsp; Having been a member of such a group (a community-based women's credit union in the early 1970's for instance) I can say that the experience is not only economically, but also personally, enriching.</p>
<p>Let's not wait for the economy to improve.&nbsp; Let's start improving it TODAY.&nbsp; We <em>are&nbsp;</em>the change we want to see in the world.&nbsp;</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Info/Justin-Patten-Profile.aspx"><img width="180" vspace="5" hspace="5" height="155" border="5" align="left" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/panel_justin.jpg" alt="" /></a>British mediator and blogger <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Info/Justin-Patten-Profile.aspx">Justin Patten</a> (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Blog/">Human Law</a>) has a terrific piece in his <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/default.aspx">ezine</a> today entitled <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional &ndash; how to negotiate without falling out.</a>&nbsp; Justin responds with sympathy to a recent survey calling his fellow Brits &quot;the angriest nation in Europe,&quot; noting that the</p>
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<p><em>wave of redundancies sweeping across the nation is forcing a number of employers, employees and their advisors such as lawyers and trade unions into conflict situation. As customers become slower and slower at paying added pressure is created for their suppliers and relationships become strained.</em></p>
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<p>Because the &quot;approach taken by those involved and their attitude in dealing with the conflict will have a significant impact on the outcome and the costs involved in finding a solution,&quot; Justin provides the following easy to implement solutions:</p>
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<p><strong>1 Avoid macho posturing</strong> &ndash; In an attempt to hide the weakness of their position some people are all bluff and bluster in conflict situations. . . . . (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">more</a>)</p>
<p><strong>2 De-personalise problems </strong>&ndash; My experience of disputes is that often things can happen due to personal issues between the individuals. It can be difficult to take the personalities out of a matter but believe me there are clear benefits. . . . (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">more</a>)&nbsp; </p>
<p><strong>3 Focus on your own emotions</strong> &ndash; In many work environments there are unwritten rules that emotions are not to be expressed. Is this really wise?&nbsp; . . . (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">more</a>) </p>
<p><strong>4 Listen &ndash;</strong> Effective communication starts with the speaker taking responsibility for understanding the language, perspective and experiences of the listener. . . . (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">more</a>)</p>
<p><strong>5 Analyse the Conflic</strong>t &ndash; Research on problem solving indicates that the effectiveness of solutions increases significantly once the real problem is identified. . . . (<a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Ezine-Archive/May-2009.html">more</a>)</p>
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<p>Justin Patten handles conflict for a living and whilst as a litigation solicitor he is familiar with the combat zone of the court room he much prefers to work with clients to achieve mediated solutions through negotiation and agreement. Contact Justin on 0844 800 3249 or <a href="javascript:location.href='mailto:'+String.fromCharCode(106,117,115,116,105,110,64,104,117,109,97,110,45,108,97,119,46,99,111,46,117,107)+'?'">email Justin here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Further reading:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Resource-Articles/Negotiating-for-Results-White-Paper.aspx">Negotiating for Excellent Results</a></p>
<p>Human Law Mediation has just published a new <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Resource-Articles/Negotiating-for-Results-White-Paper.aspx">White Paper &ndash; Negotiating for Excellent Results</a> &ndash; which contains advice and tips on how to negotiate with power and persuasion in conflict situations. You can <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Resource-Articles/Negotiating-for-Results-White-Paper.aspx">download a PDF version of the White Paper here</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/pdf_request.aspx">Keeping Away from Court Room Battles and Employment Tribunals</a></p>
<p>A White Paper with advice on How to save money, maintain business relationships and avoid negative publicity by embracing the power of mediation to resolve business and employee disputes. <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/pdf_request.aspx">Download the PDF here.</a></p>
<p>You can subscribe to Justin's invaluable <a href="http://www.human-law.co.uk/Mailing-List/Default.aspx">eZine here</a>.</p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p><a title="Permanent Link: Interviews with ADR giants: Mediate.com opens video archive for month of April" rel="bookmark" href="http://mediationchannel.com/2009/04/02/interviews-with-adr-giants-mediatecom-opens-video-archive-for-month-of-april/"><strong>Interviews with ADR giants: Mediate.com opens video archive for month of April</strong></a><strong> <small> 						</small><br />
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<p><small>Posted by: <a title="Posts by Diane Levin " href="http://mediationchannel.com/author/Diane/">Diane Levin</a> in <a rel="category tag" title="View all posts in Cool Things on the Web" href="http://mediationchannel.com/category/cool-tools-on-the-web/">Cool Things on the Web</a>,  <a rel="category tag" title="View all posts in Mediation" href="http://mediationchannel.com/category/mediation/">Mediation</a>,  <a rel="category tag" title="View all posts in Mediation in Practice" href="http://mediationchannel.com/category/mediation-in-practice/">Mediation in Practice</a>					</small></p>
<p><img width="235" height="226" alt="Mediation videos available free during April" src="http://mediationchannel.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/video.jpg" title="Mediation videos available free during April" style="margin: 10px; float: right;" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1645" /><a href="http://www.mediate.com/"><strong>Mediate.com</strong></a><strong>, the world&rsquo;s premier source for news, information, and articles about mediation, </strong><a href="http://www.mediate.com/articles/videocenter.cfm"><strong>has opened its video archive</strong></a><strong> to the public during the month of April.</strong></p>
<p><strong>For description of the type of videos available, run right over to Diane Levin's blog by clicking on the title up top.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Thanks Diane for getting the word out about this.</strong></p>
<p><strong>For a taste of some of the offerings, <a href="http://www.mediate.com/mediaplayer/mediaplayer.cfm?snid=2000094">watch this short video of Ken Cloke talking to Robert Benjamin </a>about the evolution of conflict&nbsp; over the lifetime of an individual as well as over the lifetime of a civilization.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Cloke is my mentor and his insights are just as useful to the settlement of commercial litigation than are some of the competitive negotiation skills I've learned along the way.&nbsp; Check out all of Ken's videos.</strong></p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p><img vspace="5" hspace="5" border="5" align="right" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/layoff.jpg" style="width: 298px; height: 207px;" alt="" />From today's Wall Street Journal, <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123405390102460443.html?mod=rss_Money">Don't Buckle in Layoff</a> -- timely advice for one of life's worst case scenarios - being made &quot;redundant.&quot;&nbsp;</p>
<p>First piece of layoff wisdom:<em><br />
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<p><em><strong>Negotiate Your Severance</strong><br />
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<p><em>While not required to do so by law, many employers offer severance packages to laid-off employees. The package's size is usually based on the employee's length of service -- some are entitled to two weeks of pay, while more seasoned employees may receive as much as a year's worth.</em></p>
<p><em> If you've been working at your company for only a year or two, there are ways to wring a little more pay from your employer. First, ask that any unused vacation days get tacked on to your final paycheck. (You can also try to do this with sick days, but it's often a long shot.) If you have a stellar record with the company, it's also worth asking for more severance pay or an extension of your health coverage.</em></p>
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<p><a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123405390102460443.html?mod=rss_Money">For the rest of the WSJ's timely tips, click here</a><em>.</em></p>
<p><strong>And while we're on the topic of severance pay, here are a few tips about signing releases offered in connection with severance packages for those over forty.</strong></p>
<blockquote> <em><strong><a href="http://www.courant.com/features/hc-workwise0126.artjan26,0,356555.story">Know Your Rights If You're Offered Severance</a></strong></em><em><strong> </strong>by </em><a href="http://www.workwise.net/"><em>WorkWise columnist<strong> </strong>Dr. Mildred L. Culp</em></a> <dl class="byline"><span class="story-dateline"><dd><br />
</dd></span><em>Two main forces &mdash; a declining economy and the graying of the workforce &mdash; are causing people to ramp up discussions about age discrimination in layoffs and severance. Under the <a href="http://www.eeoc.gov/policy/adea.html">Age Discrimination in Employment Act</a> (ADEA), employers must follow certain guidelines when they're offering severance, says <a href="http://www.garsonlaw.com/web/module/emp/empid/8/interior_professional.asp">Andrew Milne, senior counsel with the Bethesda, Md., firm of Garson Claxton L.L.C</a>. He warns employees to:<br />
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    <li>Watch for undue pressure to sign release of claims when handed a severance package. &quot;You must be given at least 21 days to think about the package,&quot; Milne states, &quot;when you're terminated but not part of a group.&quot;</li>
    <li><em> You must be given the option to revoke the waiver within seven days after you sign it. &quot;This must be set out, in writing, in the release of claims,&quot; Milne notes.</em></li>
    <li><em>You also have rights if severance accompanies a group layoff or early retirement program, he indicates. The ADEA stipulates a period of 45 days or more to make your decision, along with the seven-day revocation provision.&nbsp; </em></li>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>The British call layoffs &quot;<a href="http://dictionary.bnet.com/definition/redundancy.html">redundancies.</a>&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I prefer the American term - layoff -&nbsp; because it focuses on the <em>employer's need</em> in times of economic stress (&quot;I can no longer afford to pay you and so must <em>lay you off</em>) to the British locution which focuses on the <em>employee's presumed inefficiency </em>(&quot;because your work is being performed (better?) by others, you have become redundant.&quot;)</p>
<p>Why the attention to semantics?&nbsp; Because in times of massive law firm layoffs (see <a href="http://lawshucks.com/layoff-tracker/#ytd-chart">Law Shucks Lay-off Tracker here</a>) you don't want today's efficiency become tomorrow's crushing legal liability.&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://lawcomix.com"><img width="400" vspace="5" hspace="5" height="328" border="5" align="texttop" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/08_25_08_layoffs.png" alt="" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://lawcomix.com">Lawyer Layoff Paranoia by the brilliant Charles Fincher at LawComix.com</a>.</p>
<p><strong>So how do you avoid the looming threat of litigation by laid off employees?&nbsp;</strong> According to researchers, you <em>terminate graciously, honestly, with expressed respect and compassion, and, if possible, with offers to help the laid off employee find work and replace critical benefits such as health insurance.&nbsp; </em></p>
<p><strong>Why <em>do</em> terminated employees bring suit?</strong>&nbsp; It's not, as I'm always saying, just about the money.<em>&nbsp; </em></p>
<p>Researchers have found, for instance, that:</p>
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    <li>Feelings of unfair, insensitive treatment at the time of termination had nearly twice the effect of the next most potent factor in bringing suit.</li>
    <li>Blame was not strongly related to the claiming process&nbsp;</li>
    <li>There is some, but slight, support for the proposition that certain groups -- women and minorities - are especially likely to sue</li>
    <li>Perceptions of poor on-the-job treatment motivate lawsuits as much or more than an individual's belief in his or her ability to prevail in litigation</li>
    <li>the shorter the notice of termination, the greater the likelihood of suit</li>
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<p>Finally, and most importantly for law firm management, the best predictor of a former employee's willingness to file claims for wrongful termination was <strong><em>highly educated respondents</em></strong>.</p>
<p><strong>Researchers have also catalogued the most common on-the-job experiences that lead to litigation, including most prominently,</strong></p>
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    <li>negative experiences with supervisors;</li>
    <li>the belief that <em>processes</em> used by the supervisor are unfair.</li>
    <li>violations of procedural justice (the perceived fairness of the procedures by which outcomes are determined)</li>
    <li>perceived violations of equity and distributive justice&nbsp; (the perceived fairness of outcomes)</li>
    <li>perceived violations of interactional justice&nbsp; (the perceived fairness of the nuances of interpersonal treatment)</li>
    <li>survivors' attitudes toward their organization are strongly associated with their beliefs about the fairness of the manner in which their companies laid off other workers<br />
    &nbsp;</li>
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<p>&quot;Blaming and claiming&quot; activity (lodging grievances; seeking relief from the EEOC; retaining legal counsel to file suit) is <em>strongly correlated </em>with the manner in which employees are terminated.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p><strong>Because Termination Causes Employees to Reevaluate Fairness in Working Conditions.</strong>&nbsp; And you do not want to give employees the opportunity to reevaluate those conditions in light of their last employment experience - termination - unless that experience is positive.</p>
<p>The researchers have found that:</p>
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    <li>people react strongly to nuances of treatment and style at the time of termination</li>
    <li>the quality of dismissal affects people&rsquo;s decision to bring suit as much as termination itself.</li>
    <li>a fair, honest, and dignified termination should substantially reduce the temptation to retaliate through litigation.</li>
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<p>The experts therefore recommend that employers:</p>
<ul>
    <li>&nbsp;treat their laid-off or fired employees with compassion and respect at the time of termination</li>
    <li>give several weeks advance warning to all laid-off or fired employees</li>
    <li>provide terminated employees with help in finding new employment</li>
    <li>give terminated employees honest accounts for the cause of their termination</li>
    <li>provide transitional alumni status to terminated employees when possible</li>
    <li>provide symbols of positive regard to terminated employees such as letters of reference, departure gifts or parties</li>
    <li>offer counseling services to terminated employees to ease the psychological shock of employment termination</li>
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<p>According to a recent ABA Journal article entitled <a href="http://www.abajournal.com/news/one_lawyer_layoff_saves_an_average_of_250k/">One Lawyer Layoff Saves an Average of $250,000 also notes that:</a></p>
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    <li>some of the savings from layoffs is initially eaten up by severance payments</li>
    <li>at least one firm chairman indicated that the firm pays about $7 million in severance for every $10 million saved in compensation</li>
    <li>another firm chairman estimated that it takes about nine months before any savings are realized by lawyer layoffs.</li>
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<p>If law firms don't want these savings to start bleeding red ink, they'd do well to study &quot;naming, claiming and blaming&quot;&nbsp;behaviors of terminated employees and to implement processes and procedures to reduce the potential for litigation flowing from these cost-saving measures.</p>
<p>For further reading, see <a href="http://www.settlenow.org/Employment_Power_Point">my own Power Point Presentation from which most of the above statistics were taken here</a> and the article from which most of that information was derived:&nbsp; <a href="http://www.settlenow.org/WindingRoad.html">The Winding Road from Employee to Complainant here</a>.</p>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Wal-Mart Settles Suit Over Pay for $54 Million </strong></p>
<p>MINNEAPOLIS (AP) &mdash; <a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/news/business/companies/wal_mart_stores_inc/index.html?inline=nyt-org" title="More information about Wal-Mart Stores Inc">Wal-Mart Stores</a>, the discount retail giant, will pay up to $54.25 million to settle a class-action lawsuit that accused the company of cutting workers&rsquo; break time and allowing employees to work off the clock in Minnesota.</p>
<p>The class includes about 100,000 current and former hourly workers who were employed at Wal-Mart Stores and Sam&rsquo;s Clubs in Minnesota from Sept. 11, 1998, through Nov. 14, 2008.</p>
<p>Wal-Mart has also agreed to maintain electronic systems, surveys and notices to stay compliant with wage and hour policies and Minnesota laws.</p>
<p>In July, a Dakota County judge ruled against Wal-Mart in the lawsuit, saying the retailer, based in Bentonville, Ark., violated Minnesota state labor laws two million times by cutting worker break time and &ldquo;willfully&rdquo; allowing employees to work off the clock. Court proceedings had been scheduled for next month to determine punitive damages.</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Want a horror story for Halloween?</p>
<p>Remember that Heller Ehrman collapse?&nbsp; Seems that you don't get <a href="http://www.dol.gov/ebsa/faqs/faq_consumer_cobra.HTML">COBRA benefits</a> if the health plan your former employer maintained is kaput because it has gone out of business.</p>
<p>Now think, pending surgery, no health insurance, pre-existing condition.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Why do I lead a post about resolving work-place conflict with bankruptcy and tragedy?&nbsp; Because no 100-year old AmLaw100 firm fails so spectacularly without having made some conflict resolution mistakes.</p>
<p>Can you eliminate conflict in the law firm?&nbsp; Hellllloooooooooooooooo???????????&nbsp; We're lawyers who <a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/2008/10/lawyer-jokes.html">Anne Reed at Deliberations this morning</a> reminds us have been characterized as . . . well . . . sharks with</p>
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<p>skin that is tough and rough -- covered with thousands of tiny hard teeth call denticles that abrade any passerby made of softer stuff. Lawyers are also thick-skinned. Easily identified by their humorlessness and abrasive personalities, they are the bane of many social gatherings.</p>
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<p>Ouch!</p>
<p><img width="400" vspace="5" hspace="5" height="300" border="5" align="texttop" alt="" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/mistake.jpg" /></p>
<p>What to do?&nbsp; Apologize when your &quot;denticles&quot; abrade passersby, but more importantly, ask yourself the most important<a href="http://bobsutton.typepad.com/"> Bob Sutton</a>-inspired organizational wellness question noted over at <a href="http://thenonbillablehour.typepad.com/nonbillable_hour/2008/06/you-always-have.html">The Non-Billable Hour</a> this morning:</p>
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<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2006/07/the_best_diagno.html"><strong>What Happens When People Make a Mistake?</strong></a></p>
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         <title>Helping Employees Help You Help Them</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Earlier this week I was asked the following question by a concerned General Counsel:&nbsp; <strong>how can we help our employees grapple with on-the-job justice issues without leading them to believe that our proposed solutions are untrustworthy.&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>The problem, as eloquently described by a lengthy email posing the question, is one that all employers face, large and small.&nbsp; For this GC to have thought that mediators might make a difference is particularly heartening on a day when <a href="http://humanlaw.typepad.com/humanlaw/2008/10/smaller-compani.html">mediator Justin Patten was reporting that mediators are the furthest thing in a UK company's mind when dealing with conflict.&nbsp;</a>&nbsp;</p>
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<p>(above, the work of the brilliant <a href="http://www.gapingvoid.com/Moveable_Type/archives/000009.html">Hugh McLeod</a>)</p>
<p>To understand the depth of the problem posed, I'm providing you with the full email sent to me:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Victoria:<br />
<br />
I just read your <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2008/09/articles/mediation/negotiating-justice-are-mediators-corrupting-the-legal-system/">blog post of September 15, 2008 regarding Peter Murray's article</a> (which I have not read yet).  I was having a discussion today with my Director of Human Resources, and raise a related issue.<br />
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Our company spends an inordinate amount of time explaining disability, workers comp and federal employment law to employees who misunderstand what their rights are, or do not give us the right information to help them get the help they need.</p>
<p>Of course,<strong> we are the big bad employer, so any information we give them is suspect</strong>.  I have considered hiring a social worker as a case manager/advocate for these people, but that position would just be interpreted as <strong>another tool of the evil employer </strong>out to keep them out of work/make them go back to work in violation of their best interests, so it would be a waste.</p>
<p>We would LOVE if there was an independent agency that would assign a case worker, not to work as an attorney for the employees, but as an advocate to help them understand their rights and access the system correctly.  I would gladly pay to fund this service.<br />
<br />
Then I realized,<strong> if the employer, or a group of employers, funded this employee advocacy agency, employees would think the advocates were biased toward the employers and were just in a sham relationship to deprive them of their rights to serve the interest of the employer.</strong><br />
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Now, I do not believe this would be the case.  I trust in the professionalism and ethics of mediators, but I do believe that uneducated and single users would form that opinion.  Professor Murray's opinion reinforces that conclusion, even though at first glance, he would seem to be &quot;educated.&quot; <br />
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But, is bigger government the answer.  My experience with the EEOC is that they want employers to do MORE than is required by law.  We have had success with mediators after complaints are filed, but my goal is to get the employees what they need when they need it, not have a mediator help us fix it after time has run out.<br />
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What are your thoughts on this?</p>
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<p><strong>The Problem as Cognitive Bias</strong></p>
<p>I've highlighted the sections of the GC's email that raise the problem of <a href="http://209.85.173.104/search?q=cache:bAmJ0-B-luUJ:www.law.stanford.edu/program/centers/scicn/papers/reactive_devaluation.pdf+%22reactive+devaluation%22&amp;hl=en&amp;ct=clnk&amp;cd=1&amp;gl=us&amp;client=firefox-a">reactive devaluation</a> -- our tendency to devalue and resist anything our &quot;opponent&quot; offers to us.&nbsp; Most attorneys were <em>taught </em>reactive devaluation as first year associates -- &quot;if opposing counsel wants it, you don't.&quot;&nbsp;</p>
<p>As the linked article -- <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/file/Reactive Devaluation.pdf">Reactive Devaluation in Negotiation and Conflict Resolution</a> -- notes:</p>
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<p>One can be led to conclude that any proposal offered by the &ldquo;other side&rdquo;&mdash;<br />
especially if that other side has long been perceived as an enemy&mdash;must be<br />
to our side&rsquo;s disadvantage, or else it would not have been offered. Such an<br />
inferential process, however, assumes a perfect opposition of interests, or in<br />
other words, a true &quot;zero-Sum&quot; game, when such is rarely the case in real-<br />
world negotiations between parties whose needs, goals, and opportunities<br />
are inevitably complex and varied.</p>
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<p><strong>Combatting Reactive Devaluation in the Workforce</strong></p>
<p>Cognitive biases such as reactive devaluation are not random artifacts of an irrelevant evolutionary past.&nbsp; They are built-in protections against deception by our friends as well as by our adversaries.&nbsp; There is only one lasting protection against this bias -- to engage in clear communication with your work force on a daily basis concerning the mutual and complementary interests of employer and employee; to express your belief in your interdependence in word and deed, i.e., by engaging in dialogue and <em>activities </em>demonstrating&nbsp; benevolent intent; and to willingly listen to one another's complaints, understanding that one man's benevolence is another's bondage.&nbsp;</p>
<p>As recent legal news touching too close to home (the <a href="http://www.bmacewen.com/blog/archives/2008/09/heller_ehrman_1890-2008.html">Heller dissolution</a>) bears out, the workplace will not work if the middle or the bottom collapse.&nbsp; If human resources are your greatest capital asset, attend to the <a href="http://www.bmacewen.com/blog/archives/2008/09/heller_ehrman_1890-2008.html">wisdom of Adam Smith Esq. on Heller's recent failure</a>:</p>
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<p>&quot;Our assets go down in the elevator every night.&quot;</p>
<p>Take that bromide seriously.</p>
<p>You must give people a persuasive reason to come back &quot;home&quot; every Monday morning.they go down the elevator every night and must have a good reason to come &quot;home&quot; the next day.&nbsp;</p>
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<p><strong>Asking Diagnostic Questions and Using Transformative Mediation Methods</strong></p>
<p>I repeatedly tell my clients what I've learned from the academics who teach negotiation strategy and tactics at elite business schools throughout the country -- <a href="http://www.niacr.org/pages/blog/articles/2006/9-17-06.htm">93% of all negotiators fail to ask their bargaining partners diagnostic questions</a> the answers to which would dramatically improve the benefits of the bargain to everyone.&nbsp;</p>
<p>What's a diagnostic question?&nbsp; One that would reveal our bargaining partners' needs, desires, priorities, preferences and motivations.&nbsp; I'm no employment expert, but I have participated in the management of law firm personnel as a partner and have <em>been managed </em>by others throughout my professional life.&nbsp; As a full-time mediator for more than four years, I have also asked hundreds if not thousands of diagnostic questions to help litigation adversaries understand one another's motivations, to reframe those motivations as non-threatening, or, at a minimum, the result of ordinary human fallibility, and to explore the parties' mutual and complementary interests. I also remind my parties and myself as often as possible that you cannot drill a hole in the other guy's side of the boat without making your own side sink to the bottom of the lake as well. </p>
<p>As the transformative mediators who have been most successful in workplace disputes tell us, our job is to assist the parties in moving from <a href="http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/transform/tmall.htm">fear and powerlessness to accountability and mutual recognition of the interests of the other</a>.</p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;">Empowerment, according to [the fathers of the transformative paradigm] Bush and Folger, means enabling the parties to define their own issues and to seek solutions on their own. Recognition means enabling the parties to see and understand the other person's point of view--to understand how they define the problem and why they seek the solution that they do.</p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;">(Seeing and understanding, it should be noted, do not constitute agreement with those views.)</p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;">Often, empowerment and recognition pave the way for a mutually agreeable settlement, but that is only a secondary effect. The primary goal of transformative medition is to foster the parties' empowerment and recognition, thereby enabling them to approach their current problem, as well as later problems, with a stronger, yet more open view. This approach, according to Bush and Folger, avoids the problem of mediator directiveness which so often occurs in problem-solving mediation, putting responsibility for all outcomes squarely on the disputants.</p>
<p><strong>Rights and Remedies vs. Interests </strong></p>
<p>It's not surprising that employees just don't seem to &quot;get&quot; the legal rights and remedies company HR departments keep trying to explain to them.&nbsp; <em>They don't make any sense absent legal training. &nbsp;</em></p>
<p>People who are not lawyers simply don't understand why there is a legal remedy for one type of injustice but none for another that feels just as unfair.&nbsp; Let's take our patchwork of Constitutional protections for employees.&nbsp; As an life-long ACLU member, I'd be the last to denigrate them.&nbsp; But we have to understand that we've created a &quot;fair&quot; workplace for only some of our citizens, not all of them.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Women, people over 40, under-represented minorities and the like, can take the square peg of their unfair work treatment and cram it into the round hole of a viable cause of action.&nbsp; If an employee does not want to cry &quot;gender discrimination&quot; even though she's being treated badly on the job, or if he has no bundle of legal rights to assert, there is no remedy for a termination that feels (yes, <em>feels</em>) wrongful.&nbsp; Remember, it took us lawyers quite some time for the legal worldview to &quot;click&quot; and we were immersed in it, drilled in it and eager to learn it.&nbsp; Employees just want someone to listen to their problem and <em>to help them resolve i</em>t.&nbsp; They don't want to know the wage-hour laws, the need to exhaust administrative remedies with the EEOC and the like. &nbsp;</p>
<p>Employees <em>and </em>employers have people problems with justice issues, not legal problems with &quot;irrelevant&quot; emotional responses that get in the way of resolution.&nbsp; </p>
<p><strong>Expressed emotion is the <em>key, </em>not the lock.</strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It is we -- the lawyers -- who <em>legalize and monetize </em>injustice, shutting our clients down when they try to explain what the problem <em>really </em>is because it's <em>irrelevant to the legal solution. </em></p>
<p>If you're old enough to remember the lingering moment in United States history when our educational institutions went from white, on the one hand, to multi-hued, on the other, you'll know intimately how you deal with reactive devaluation.&nbsp; <em>You get to know one another.&nbsp; </em>Do this and<em> </em>Kaneesha is not &quot;black&quot; or &quot;African American&quot; but a well-known acquaintance or dear friend.&nbsp; The same is true for employers and employees.&nbsp; Create activities in which (alleged) oppressor and (purported) oppressed come together to engage in mutually productive (<a href="http://www.habitat.org/">Habitat for Humanity</a> springs to mind) and mutually enjoyable (basketball?&nbsp; girls nights out?) activities.&nbsp; At the holiday party, don't relegate the &quot;underlings&quot; to their own table.&nbsp; Walk your talk.&nbsp; Destroy the hierarchy everywhere except where it's actually necessary to get work done.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I can't describe the benefits of interest-based resolutions over rights-based solutions any better than does my mentor and friend, Ken Cloke, in his brilliant new book -- <a href="http://www.thecompletelawyer.com/volume4/issue3/article.php?ppaid=8140">Conflict Revolution</a>.</p>
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<p>[r]ights-based processes . . . generate winners and losers, undermine relationships, and result in collateral damage, . . . Since rights rely on rules, change is                 discouraged, though not prevented, and conflicts are settled rather than prevented or resolved.</p>
<p>This is not easy work.  As a mediator, I know how elusive Cloke&rsquo;s &ldquo;outcomes&rdquo; can be</p>
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<p style="margin-left: 40px;">--&nbsp;  outcomes [in which] both sides win and no one loses, when former adversaries en- <br />
gage in meaningful dialogue and reach satisfying agreements, and when power is exercised with and for each other by jointly solving common problems.</p>
<p>I have, I am afraid, given my GC a <em>problem </em>rather than a solution.&nbsp; More accurately, I've suggested an altered way of looking at the problem without a great deal of detail about crafting a solution.&nbsp; Not only could people better versed in employee relations write books on this topic, they have.&nbsp; Therefore, I'm asking my good ADR blogging buddies to please chime in here for you.</p>
<p><a href="http://mediationchannel.com/">Diane Levin</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://www.mediatorblahblah.blogspot.com">Geoff Sharp</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://www.workplacefairness.ca/about.htm">Blaine Donais</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://ombuds-blog.blogspot.com/">Ombuds Blog</a>? <a href="http://www.settlementperspectives.com/">John DeGroote</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://www.civilnegotiation.com/">Nancy Hudgins</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/">Stephanie West Allen</a>?&nbsp;<a href="http://engagingconflicts.com/"> Gini Nelson</a>?&nbsp; <a href="http://lenski.com/">Tammy Lenski</a>?</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>I note today that <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/admin/trackback/86755">yesterday's post</a> was . . . . well . . . a little <em>snippy.&nbsp;&nbsp;</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.ajs.org/ajs/publications/ajs_judicature.asp"><img height="256" alt="" hspace="5" width="192" align="right" vspace="5" border="5" src="/uploads/image/Judicature.jpg" /></a>Now that I've managed to get my hands on a copy of <a href="http://www.ajs.org/ajs/publications/ajs_judicature.asp">Professor Murray's&nbsp;article on the privitization of justice</a> (which I'll post as soon as someone gives me permission to do so) I&nbsp;have a few more observations&nbsp;that are more&nbsp;nuanced than my&nbsp;first reaction.</p>
<p>First, I note that much of Professor Murray's article focuses on arbitration agreements that&nbsp;are forced down the throats of consumers -- an&nbsp;injustice that is so far removed from&nbsp;one that might arise in&nbsp;a mediated settlement conference that I'd like to address it separately on another day.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Second, I&nbsp;am not without criticism of&nbsp;court-annexed mediation practices -- those criticisms populate this blog in great number.&nbsp;&nbsp;Nor am I&nbsp;naive or inexperienced enough to pretend that mediators do not&nbsp;effect party decisions even when&nbsp;they are represented by attorneys who are presumably mediation- and mediator-savvy.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Nevertheless, re-reading&nbsp;Professor Murray's criticisms&nbsp;of mediation this morning, I&nbsp;am once again stuck by the&nbsp;number of&nbsp;untested assumptions upon which he bases his pretty radical suggestion that&nbsp;mediated settlement agreements be vetted by judicial officers.&nbsp;The major and minor premises of Professor Murray's accusation that mediation corrupts justice include the following:</p>
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    <li>there is only one set of &quot;powerful repeat players&quot;&nbsp;-- insurance companies -- who choose and use the services of mediators;</li>
    <li>the other set of repeat players -- plaintiffs' personal injury and employment counsel -- are more or less&nbsp;universally poorly&nbsp;equipped to&nbsp;either influence the mediator or to protect their clients from&nbsp;mediator bias;</li>
    <li>the easily influenced plaintiffs' bar, if not protected from mediator bias,&nbsp;will counsel their clients to voluntarily enter into sub-optimal settlement agreements that favor the interests of&nbsp;insurance carriers over those of their own clients';</li>
    <li>there <em>is </em>such a thing as an &quot;objectively bad settlement&quot; that&nbsp;a judicial officer would be&nbsp; equipped to detect and remedy;&nbsp;</li>
    <li><em>money </em>paid to a &quot;neutral&quot; is the only pernicious influence on dispute&nbsp;outcome, as opposed to, say, racial, nationality, gender, and/or any other socio-economic differences between a judicial officer and a litigant&nbsp;or between the jury and a litigant; and,</li>
    <li>judicial officers are not subject to the influence of the&nbsp;repeat attorney-players who appear before them and&nbsp;socialize with them at Bar Association and other events.</li>
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<p>Of all of the assumptions requiring testing before we&nbsp;impose&nbsp;a supervisory&nbsp;judiciary upon mediators,&nbsp;the premise that an&nbsp;objective, measureably&nbsp;&quot;reasonable&quot; settlement of any dispute <em>exists </em>is the one that most requires addressing.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Because I&nbsp;could write a book on this topic, let me just highlight some of the factors that would make third-party vetting of mediated settlement agreements difficult to impossible.&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
    <li><em>money </em>is not the only reason people file suit&nbsp;nor the only basis for their decision to settle it;</li>
    <li>whether the litigation at issue is a $2500&nbsp;slip and fall&nbsp;action between a local grocery store and its customer; or a billion dollar insurance coverage dispute&nbsp;between an insurance&nbsp;carrier and an oil company, the people and commercial players involved are at least as -- if not more --&nbsp;concerned with&nbsp;injustices that the law does <em>not </em>address&nbsp;as they are with those that it can&nbsp;address;</li>
    <li>though&nbsp;mediated settlement agreements are <em>partially </em>based upon the&nbsp;cost of further litigation and trial,&nbsp;on the one hand, and the&nbsp;probability of victory <em>times </em>the&nbsp;potential jury verdict on the other hand, they are <em>also </em>based on party needs, desires and fears that have nothing whatsoever to do with legal causes of action such as:
    <ul>
        <li>a corporation's fear that&nbsp;it will not be able to overcome jury bias against commercial enterprises, particularly if that enterprise is&nbsp;engaged in providing&nbsp;liability and/or property damage insurance to its customers;</li>
        <li>the fear of individuals that they will not be able to overcome jury bias against any marker of their&nbsp;marginalization from the dominant culture such as color, gender, nationality,&nbsp;sexuality or&nbsp;religion;</li>
        <li>the desire that one's opponent&nbsp;acknowledge&nbsp;responsibility for the role he/she/it&nbsp;played&nbsp;in the events giving rise to the dispute&nbsp;<em>and </em>for the&nbsp;actions taken to resolve it, many of which further inflame the parties' experience&nbsp;of&nbsp;injustice;&nbsp;</li>
        <li>party desires for&nbsp;revenge; and,</li>
        <li>party tendencies to &quot;read&quot; and &quot;spin&quot; the dispute in a way that is favorable to him/her/it in all particulars --&nbsp;misperceptions that are often corrected in the course of joint sessions between the parties who actually experienced the injury-causing event.</li>
    </ul>
    </li>
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<p>Examples of ways in which parties are able to resolve conflict&nbsp;in the context of&nbsp;their highly individual interests rather than&nbsp;the&nbsp;little buckets of rights and remedies into which we pour the facts of their dispute?</p>
<ul>
    <li>a physician gives his consent to settle a&nbsp;malpractice action&nbsp;when he realizes that the Plaintiff is not attempting to &quot;hold him up&quot;&nbsp;but genuinely experienced the breast examination he gave her as an assault;</li>
    <li>the creditor&nbsp;agrees to settle for pennies on the dollar when convinced by evidence proffered during a confidential mediation session that the debtor would be bankrupted by any payment in excess of the offer&nbsp;(evidence not discoverable in litigation&nbsp;because it is not &quot;relevant&quot; to the causes of action alleged);</li>
    <li>garment manufacturers&nbsp;settle acrimonious&nbsp;copyright infringement litigation after their counsel allow them to have&nbsp;a <em>confidential&nbsp;mediation conversation </em>which cannot be used in court against them during which they learn that they&nbsp;have more in common -- and more ways to advantage one another economically -- than they have to fight about;</li>
    <li>a&nbsp;<em>claims adjuster&nbsp;</em>is brought to tears -- and seeks greater settlement authority -- by a father's frank confession in a <em>confidential mediation conversation </em>of the guilt he carries for the&nbsp;loss of his child in an automobile accident caused by the&nbsp; high speed blow-out of an allegedly defective tire; and,</li>
    <li>family members not only settle their lawsuit but reconcile after&nbsp;years of self-imposed exile&nbsp;when they realize the&nbsp;&quot;family&quot; asset they've been fighting over&nbsp;is worth less to them than their love for one another.&nbsp;</li>
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<p>What I'd like Professor Murray and everyone who reads his article to understand is that&nbsp;we all share this justice problem.&nbsp; The&nbsp;adjudication system is not working well for the people it was designed to serve.&nbsp; The&nbsp;ADR options we've put in place to smooth out the rough edges of 18th century adversarial theory and practice&nbsp;are themselves insufficient to efficiently and fairly resolve&nbsp;21st century conflicts.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>That's why I'm calling for a <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/admin/trackback/85723">LegalTED Conference</a>.&nbsp; And if Professor Murray will forgive the&nbsp;snippiness of yesterday's post, I'd like him to be one of the members of &nbsp;the Steering Committee.</p>]]></description>
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