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         <title>It&apos;s Good to Be in the MIddle:  A Little Negotiation Gratitude</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>On a personal note, it's great to feel in the middle of things again . . . as <a href="http://members.cox.net/mppowers1/aristotle.html">Billy Collins described it in Aristotle</a>,<img vspace="5" hspace="5" border="5" align="right" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/neer(1).jpg" style="width: 232px; height: 314px;" alt="" /></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>This is the middle.<br />
Things have had time to get complicated,<br />
messy, really. Nothing is simple anymore.<br />
Cities have sprouted up along the rivers<br />
teeming with people at cross-purposes &ndash;<br />
a million schemes, a million wild looks.<br />
Disappointment unsolders his knapsack<br />
here and pitches his ragged tent.<br />
This is the sticky part where the plot congeals,<br />
where the action suddenly reverses<br />
or swerves off in an outrageous direction.<br />
Here the narrator devotes a long paragraph<br />
to why Miriam does not want Edward's child.<br />
Someone hides a letter under a pillow.<br />
Here the aria rises to a pitch,<br />
a song of betrayal, salted with revenge.<br />
And the climbing party is stuck on a ledge<br />
halfway up the mountain.<br />
This is the bridge, the painful modulation.<br />
This is the thick of things.<br />
So much is crowded into the middle &ndash;<br />
the guitars of Spain, piles of ripe avocados,<br />
Russian uniforms, noisy parties,<br />
lakeside kisses, arguments heard through a wall<br />
too much to name, too much to think about</em>.</p>
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         <title>Blawg Review #234</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p><img style="width: 139px; height: 188px;" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/EliseBouldingProtests.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" align="left" /><a href="http://www.beyondintractability.org/audio/elise_boulding/?nid=2413">Sociologist Elise Boulding</a> has said that we live in a &ldquo;200 year present,&rdquo; a &ldquo;social space which reaches into the past and into the future&rdquo; -- a space in which &ldquo;we can move around directly in our own lives and indirectly by touching the lives of the young and old around us.&rdquo;&nbsp;<a href="http://www.polity.co.uk/ccr/">Miall, Ramsbotham and Woodhouse, Contemporary Conflict Resolution</a>.</p>
<p><strong>What does the 200-year present have to do with conflict resolution week?&nbsp;</strong> It reminds us that new forms never really completely replace the old ones.&nbsp; We continue to employ every technique we've ever used to <a href="http://legalpad.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/judge-isnt-racist-hes-just-worried-about-the-children.html">suppress</a>, <a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/2007/09/articles/conflict-resolution/conflict-avoidance-social-obligations-larry-david-and-shame/">avoid</a>, <a href="http://www.consumerclassactionsmasstorts.com/2009/10/articles/standing/fifth-circuit-reverses-dismissal-of-climate-change-class-action-brought-by-private-plaintiffs-who-blame-hurricane-katrina-on-global-warming/">deny</a>, resolve, transform, or transcend conflict, including <a href="http://www.silvermansherlikerblog.com/the-politics-of-binge-drinking">force</a> (<a href="http://www.legaljuice.com/2009/10/outsmarted_by_an_elevator.html">violent</a> and <a href="http://www.digital-rights.net/?p=2770">non-</a>violent such as<a href="http://thetrialwarrior.blogspot.com/2009/10/blaneys-blarney-order-english-court.html"> injunctions subject of a Trial Warrior Blog post this week</a>); <a href="http://wombletradesecrets.blogspot.com/2009/10/ford-motor-design-secrets-allegedly.html">thievery</a> (the <a href="http://wombletradesecrets.blogspot.com/">Trade Secrets Blog</a>); <a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/10/18/blogging-is-alive-and-aggravating.aspx?ref=rss">shaming</a> (<a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/">which Scott Greenfield</a> does to bloggers "looking for fights and dumb as dirt" and which <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/more-civility-from-the-dnc/">Volokh suggests we do to health insurers</a>); <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/showing-cyberbullying-no-mercy-show-me-state">bullying</a> (solutions to which appear at the <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog">Citizen Media Law Project</a>); <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/crimprof_blog/2009/10/when-is-interrogation-torture.html">torture</a> (still with us at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/crimprof_blog/">Crim Prof Blog</a>); cheating (<a href="http://concretelyambiguous.com/inside-information/">Make Yourself Better with Their Secrets at Concretely Ambiguous</a>) <a href="http://www.lawschoolexpert.com/blog/2009/10/13/crafting-your-best-law-school-personal-statement/">ingratiation</a> (<a href="http://www.lawschoolexpert.com/blog/2009/10/13/crafting-your-best-law-school-personal-statement/">at the Law School Expert</a>); persuasive <a href="http://lefarkins.blogspot.com/2009/10/evasive-tactics-in-arguments-you.html">argumentation</a>; appeal to <a href="http://jodielhill.com/2009/10/14/fifth-circuit-upholds-upholds-ban-of-confederate-flag-in-school-dress-code/">third party authority</a>; bargaining; <a href="http://www.therainmakerblog.com/2008/07/articles/law-firm-development/five-successful-law-firm-marketing-strategies-to-attract-firstrate-prospects/">communication</a>; and, <a href="http://houchinlaw.com/?p=477">problem solving</a> (<a href="http://houchinlaw.com/?p=477">The Tao of Advice at the Business of Creativity</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p>Whichever dispute resolution mechanism you use, it should be much improved if you take up&nbsp;<a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/2009/10/what-fun-get-some-balls-because-juggling-can-improve-your-brain.html"> juggling</a> (as reported this week at <a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/">Idealawg</a>).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.enjoymediation.com/">Transformative conflict resolution</a> of the type covered by <a href="http://www.enjoymediation.com/">New York City police officer, Jeff Thompson at Enjoy Mediation</a>, requires <a href="http://www.law21.ca/2009/10/15/the-solution-or-the-problem/">accountability</a> (by lawyers, for instance, to the principle of <a href="http://www.law21.ca/2009/10/15/the-solution-or-the-problem/">justice at Law21</a>); <a href="http://www.jdblissblog.com/2009/10/working-mother-magazine-and-flextime-lawyers-announce-their-2009-list-of-the-50-best-law-firms-for-w.html">recognition</a> (at <a href="http://www.jdblissblog.com/">JD Bliss</a>); <a href="http://www.theconglomerate.org/2009/10/the-power-of-an-apology.html">apology</a>, <a href="http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/once-illinois-federal-judge-lets-em-roll-and-gets-bulldozed">amends</a>, <a href="http://opiniojuris.org/2009/10/12/charli-carpenter-on-the-eu-georgia-russia-war-report/">reconciliation</a> (at <a href="http://opiniojuris.org/"><em>Opinio Juris</em></a>); <a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/2009/10/17/are-differing-post-divorce-parenting-styles-causing-conflict/">power </a><em><a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/2009/10/17/are-differing-post-divorce-parenting-styles-causing-conflict/">with</a> (</em>negotiation and cooperation at the <a href="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/">Ohio Family Law Blog</a>) instead of <a href="http://electionlawblog.org/archives/014573.html">power </a><em><a href="http://electionlawblog.org/archives/014573.html">over</a> </em>(at the <a href="http://electionlawblog.org/">Election Law Blog</a>); and, <em>i</em><em>nterests </em>rather than <em><a href="http://www.gaycoupleslawblog.com/2009/10/articles/marriage/california-out-of-state-gay-marriage-recognition-law-makes-a-mess-of-names/">rights</a></em> (at the <a href="http://www.gaycoupleslawblog.com/">Gay Couples Law Blog</a>).</p>
<p>No brand of law-giver or enforcer has ever entirely left the scene.&nbsp; <a href="http://legalpad.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/10/change-of-venue-granted-in-bart-cops-murder-trial.html">Cops</a>, negotiators, <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/blog/2009/10/international-projects-and-initiatives-part-ii/">mediators</a> (on the <a href="http://businessconflictmanagement.com/blog/2009/10/international-projects-and-initiatives-part-ii/">international scene at the Business Conflict Blog</a>); conciliators, <a href="http://www.karlbayer.com/blog/?p=5822">arbitrators</a>, trial attorneys (<a href="http://lawcomix.blogspot.com/2009/10/tattoo-marked-as-exhibit.html">marking tattoos as exhibits over at LawComix</a>), <a href="http://www.law.com/jsp/law/careercenter/lawArticleCareerCenter.jsp?id=1202434690687&amp;rss=careercenter">corporate lawyers</a>, <a href="http://www.indisputably.org/?p=568">legislators</a>&nbsp; (fomenting a <a href="http://www.indisputably.org/?p=568">Franken Amendment at the ADR Prof Blawg</a>); <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/supreme-court-is-all-business-or-half.html">judges</a> (<a href="http://www.legallyunbound.com/2009/10/are-judicial-elections-still-good-for.html">whether elected or appointed at Legally Unbound</a>), and, <a href="http://www.scotusblog.com/wp/wednesday-round-up-4/">juries</a> (<a href="http://www.scotusblog.com/wp/wednesday-round-up-4/">who might be biased at SCOTUS Blog</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p>And of course the gadflies (<a href="http://www.pointoflaw.com/archives/2009/10/wolf-protection.php">wolf protection lawsuits anyone? at&nbsp; Point of Law</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/nbas-chris-bosh-gets-legal-slam-dunk-then-plays-team-ball/">Win</a>, <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">lose</a>, <a href="http://www.georgiadebtlaw.com/bankruptcy-blog/2009/10/13/king-siblings-reach-settlement/">settle</a>, <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/special-injunctions-101-a-guide/">enjoin</a> (at <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/">Charon QC</a>) or simply give up (<a href="http://www.csoonline.com/article/print/504793">6 Ways We Gave Up Our Privacy at CSO Security and Risk</a>).&nbsp; We regulate <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/16/indiana-high-court-allows-myspace-entry-as-evidence-in-murder-trial/">crime</a> and prescribe punishment (<a href="http://sentencing.typepad.com/sentencing_law_and_policy/2009/10/friday-forum-what-kind-of-sentence-would-you-give-to-roman-polanski.html">Polanski at Sentencing Law and Policy</a> and <a href="http://bennettandbennett.com/blog/2009/10/the-end-of-an-era.html">The End of an Era at Defending People</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://prawfsblawg.blogs.com/prawfsblawg/2009/10/missing-in-action-innovation.html">We wage war</a> (at <a href="http://prawfsblawg.blogs.com/prawfsblawg/">Prawfs Blog</a>) and seek <a href="http://www.delawareemploymentlawblog.com/2009/10/what_can_employers_learn_from_1.html">peace</a> (at the <a href="http://www.delawareemploymentlawblog.com/">Delaware Employment Law Blog</a>) as <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/and-now-inevitable-conservative.html">conflict inevitably erupts over Obama's (embarrassing) peace prize</a> (at <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com">Balkinization</a>).</p>
<p><a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/aclu-back-as-a-whipping-boy.html">And, lest we forget our primary purpose, we bend our efforts toward justice</a> (which, according to <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/aclu-back-as-a-whipping-boy.html">BLT is not necessarily available to card-carrying members of the ACLU</a>).</p>
<p><a href="http://lawcomix.com"><img src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/10_12_09_tattoo_exhibit(1).png" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="400" height="329" align="textTop" /></a></p>
<p><strong>My own personal 200-year present </strong>spans the life of my maternal grandparents who were nine years old in 1909, and that of my step-children&rsquo;s children, who (assuming they <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/judge-in-gay-marriage-case-ability-to-procreate-not-required/">procreate</a> on a reasonable schedule) should be ninety-five'ish in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It%27s_Such_a_Beautiful_Day">2109</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p>My grandfather, born in 1900, witnessed the birth of electricity, saw the <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/2009/10/win_a_texas_lemon_law_case_by_1.html">first automobile roll off an assembly line</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn2"><sup>[2]</sup></a> and stood awestruck in a cornfield as <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/ruth-bader-ginsburg-hospitalized/">one of mankind&rsquo;s first airplanes took flight</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn3"><sup>[3]</sup></a>&nbsp; Although we've progressed from bi-planes to jets and rockets (some of which may <a href="http://www.martindale.com/aviation-aerospace/article_Hinckley-Allen-Snyder-LLP_818600.htm">someday be green</a>) we still fly balloons of the type first launched in 1783 -- both <a href="http://www.goodyearblimp.com/">Goodyear Blimps</a> and the backyard variety, covered this week by <a href="http://legalblogwatch.typepad.com/legal_blog_watch/2009/10/balloon-boy-hits-the-blawgosphere-and-twitter.html">Legal Blog Watch</a> as <a href="http://lawandmore.typepad.com/law_and_more/2009/10/the-balloon-was-it-an-attractive-nuisance.html">Law and More</a></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><a href="http://lawandmore.typepad.com/law_and_more/2009/10/the-balloon-was-it-an-attractive-nuisance.html"><em>asked here</em></a><em> whether the shiny, flying, silver Jiffy Pop-looking craft tethered in the backyard of Richard Heene was an "attractive nuisance" under the law. <br /> </em></p>
<p>Grandpa's first war was, well, the <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/brewer-on-why-america-fights-sunstein.html">First and his second was the Second</a>,<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn4"><sup>[4]</sup></a>&nbsp; as if there'd never been any wars before the <a href="http://www.pbs.org/greatwar/maps/">Great One</a>. By the time I was born, mid-century, we'd fought <a href="http://www.firstworldwar.com/">the war to end all wars</a> twice and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_War_III">knew we'd never survive a third</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p><img src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/180px-Ring-a-ring-a-roses.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="180" height="175" align="right" />My <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/?p=122">imagined grandchildren</a>, <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn6"><sup>[6]</sup></a> born sometime between today and 2014, will not be strangers to any of my grandfather&rsquo;s technologies.&nbsp;Despite the advent of compact fluorescent light bulbs, the early lives of my step-children's children will likely pass under the glow of the same incandescent lights that brightened granddad&rsquo;s one-room school house.&nbsp;They will be transported to school in cars with internal combustion engines, learn the same alphabet from the same cardboard and paper books (<a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/2009/10/does-the-brain-like-e-books.html">as well as from the "e" variety</a>) <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn7"><sup>[7]</sup></a> and <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/2009/10/100-useful-tools-for-special-needs-students-educators.html">play many of the same games</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn8"><sup>[8]</sup></a>&nbsp; he did &ndash; hop scotch, jump rope and ring-around the rosy.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Change will etch itself into the lives of my grandchildren as surely as it did my own, my parents' and my grandparents'.&nbsp; Hybrids will give way to fully electric (and perhaps <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/2009/10/hemp-and-audacity.html">hemp-powered)</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn9"><sup>[9]</sup></a> vehicles (effective or <a href="http://www.injury-and-disability.com/2009/10/ford-recalls-45-million-vehicles-due-to-defective-switch.html">defective</a>) and though electricity will continue to be&nbsp; generated by hydroelectric dams, wind farms and nuclear power plants, some <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">new and unimaginable source of power</a> will surely push back the nights of my grand children's children. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn10"><sup>[10]</sup></a></p>
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<p><strong>Law, politics, society and culture also exist in the 200-year present of </strong><a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com/2009/10/duty-to-clients-or-country.html"><strong>conflict resolution.</strong></a> &nbsp;<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn11"><sup>[11]</sup></a> In my personal 200-year span, the law seems to have changed the most profoundly. Was it the law first and culture later?&nbsp; Or do they weave our future together?</p>
<p>The first U.S. woman lawyer, Myra Bradwell, was admitted to practice a mere ten years before my grandmother was born. Mrs. Bradwell&rsquo;s legal career was the subject of one of the sorriest U.S. Supreme Court decisions ever handed down, in which the Court opined,</p>
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<p><em>The civil law as well as nature itself, has always recognized a wide difference in the respective spheres and destinies of man and woman. Man is, or should be, woman&rsquo;s protector and defender.&nbsp; The <a href="http://www.loweringthebar.net/2009/10/woman-learns-to-swear-in-order-to-make-partner.html">natural and proper timidity and delicacy which belongs to the female sex</a> evidently unfits it for many of the occupations of civil life. The constitution of the family organization, which is founded in the divine ordinance, as well as in the nature of things, indicates the domestic sphere as that which properly belongs to the domain and functions of womanhood. The harmony, not to say the identity, of interests and views which belong, or should belong, to the family institution is <a href="http://ms-jd.org/new-gender-gap">repugnant to the idea for a woman adopting a distinct and independent career from that of her husband</a> &hellip; for these reasons I think that the laws of Illinois now complained of are not obnoxious to the charge of any abridging any of the privileges and immunities of cities of the United States.</em></p>
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<p><a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn12"><sup>[12]</sup></a></p>
<p>Another nineteen years would pass after Bradwell began her practice before she (and my nineteen year old grandmother) were guaranteed <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/judge-says-virginia-violated-rights-of-overseas-voters-.html">the right to vote</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn13"><sup>[13]</sup></a> And another 30 years would pass after <em>my </em>women's movement -- the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second-wave_feminism">Second Wave</a> -- before we'd have our own&nbsp; business magazine -&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.forbes.com/forbeswoman/">ForbesWoman</a> (<a href="http://www.forbes.com/2009/09/18/disputes-compensation-success-forbes-woman-leadership-negotiating.html">my part in it here</a>).&nbsp; And let us not forget that despite the 20th Century's great civil rights achievements, when America catches a cold, black America gets pneumonia.&nbsp; See e.g. <a href="http://www.onbeingablacklawyer.com/?p=1566">Problems All Around for Blacks in Big Law at Being a Black Lawyer</a>.</p>
<p>My grandparents', parents' and step-children's 20th Century was dominated by <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/human-rights-immunity-or-accountability.html">genocide</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn14"><sup>[14]</sup></a> on a scale and a technological precision unimaginable to our earlier forebears.&nbsp; Mid-century brought with it the threat of <a href="http://gabrielsawma.blogspot.com/2009/10/do-sanctions-on-iran-work.html">nuclear annihilation</a> but also liberated millions of people enslaved by <a href="http://www.thecourt.ca/2009/10/14/bil%E2%80%99in-and-yassin-v-green-park-international-ltd-quebec-court-acknowledges-war-crimes-as-potential-basis-for-civil-liability-claim-ultimately-fails-on-forum-non-conveniens/">colonialism</a>.&nbsp; We cured polio in my own lifetime with both "dead" and "live"&nbsp;vaccines (neither of them <a href="http://www.newyorkpersonalinjuryattorneyblog.com/2009/09/counterfeit-drugs-and-their-deadly.html">counterfeit</a>) - a singular moment in scientific history during which <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonas_Salk">no one took ownership of the cure</a> and no one tried to stop others from seeking another, a problem <a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/">Patently O</a> addressed this week in <a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/patent/2009/10/patent-reform-reverse-payments.html">Reverse Payments</a>.</p>
<p>Whether god or satan, heaven or hell, war or peace "won"&nbsp;the twentieth century, the world's greatest peace-making body was created during it -- the <a href="http://internationallawobserver.eu/2009/10/15/the-copenhagen-climate-conference-2009-cop-15/">United Nations</a>.&nbsp; And here in the U.S., the &ldquo;living room war,&rdquo; Viet Nam, coupled with the largest generation of adolescents ever to grace American society, ended the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/2009/10/dont-ask-dont-tell-dont-teach-air-force-academy-punishes-instructor-for-discussion-on-sexual-minorities-in-the-military.html">forcible induction of young men into the military</a>.&nbsp;<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn15"><sup>[15]</sup></a></p>
<p><strong>With the recent discovery of our earliest ancestor, </strong><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2009/oct/01/fossil-ardi-human-race"><strong>Ardi</strong></a><strong>, our biological and social lives exist in a 4.4 million year <em>now</em>.</strong>&nbsp;Our physical bodies &ldquo;evolve&rdquo; in the womb along the same lines as did our species and, once born, we carry with us our earliest organs. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn16"><sup>[16]</sup></a> Most critical of these to conflict escalation and avoidance is our &ldquo;fight-flight&rdquo; mechanism &ndash; the amygdala.<a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn17"><sup>[17]</sup></a>&nbsp;And the most pertinent biological agents to promote the collaborative resolution of conflict are our &ldquo;<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/10/science/10mirr.html">mirror neurons</a>&rdquo; which</p>
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<p><em>&nbsp;provide a powerful biological foundation for the evolution of culture . . . absorb[ing] it directly, with each generation teaching the next by social sharing, imitation and observation.</em></p>
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<p><em>&nbsp;</em><a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn18"><sup>[18]</sup></a></p>
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<p>As&nbsp;&ldquo;exquisitely social creatures,&rdquo; our &ldquo;survival depends on understanding the actions, intentions and emotions of others.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>Id.&nbsp;</em>That our misunderstandings and <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/14/hayek-on-the-use-of-superior-expert-knowledge-as-a-justification-of-paternalism/">cognitive biases</a> -- mentioned by <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/14/pitfalls-of-paternalism/">Volokh on Paternalism</a> and Michael Carbone on <a href="http://mediationstrategies.blogspot.com/2009/10/offer-he-cant-refuse.html">reactive devaluation</a> at <a href="http://mediationstrategies.blogspot.com/">Mediation Strategies</a> this week -- threaten our survival as a species is undeniable (cf. <a href="http://lawyerist.com/lawyers-must-evolve-or-face-extinction/">Lawyers Must Survive or Face Extinction at the Lawyerist)</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>How </em>we&rsquo;ve manage to survive despite our tendency to <em>misread </em>one another&rsquo;s actions, intentions and emotions, is often the subject of those who advise us how to choose and move juries -- here -- Anne Reed at <a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/">Deliberations</a> (explaining why "they" don't see things like "we"&nbsp;do <a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/2009/10/when-they-dont-see-what-you-see.html">here</a>); and, the <a href="http://keenetrial.com/blog">Jury Room</a> (explaining why pain hurts more intensely when we believe it's been intentionally inflicted <a href="http://keenetrial.com/blog/2009/10/16/but-they-did-it-on-purpose/">here</a>).&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><em>The Most Effective Conflict Resolution Technology is the Oldest</em></strong></p>
<p>One of our <em>true </em><a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=OG">original gangsters</a>, <a href="http://www.chicagohs.org/history/capone.html">Al Capone</a>, is reported to have said that &ldquo;you can get much further with a kind word and a gun than you can with a kind word alone&rdquo; and one of our greatest Presidents, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theodore_Roosevelt">Theodore Roosevelt</a> said&nbsp;&ldquo;speak softly and carry a big stick.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Capone and Roosevelt didn't know it, but they were talking about the most effective (and most ancient) form of conflict resolution &ndash; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tit_for_tat"><em>tit for tat</em></a>.&nbsp;In 1980, political Scientist Robert Axelrod asked game theory experts to submit computer programs designed to prevail in a game that provided the highest reward to cooperating pairs -- the famous <a href="http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/prisoner-dilemma/">Prisoner's Dilemma</a>. (See also <a href="http://www.litigationandtrial.com/2009/10/articles/litigation/ideas/a-game-theory-model-of-medical-malpractice-settlements-and-insurance-bad-faith/">Max Kennerly's excellent post on Game Theory and Medical Malpractice Settlements at the Philadelphia Litigation and Trial Blog</a>).</p>
<p>The winner of Axelrod's competition was a program named tit for tat.&nbsp; Tit for tat was programmed to <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/2009/10/a-judge-may-endorse-the-sedona-conference-cooperation-report-without-running-afoul-of-ethics-rules-according-to-a-recent-opi.html">cooperate</a> <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn19"><sup>[19]</sup></a>&nbsp; with its first encounter with any other programmed player.&nbsp; It&nbsp; <a href="http://stayviolation.typepad.com/chucknewton/2009/10/savvy-networking-for-lawyers-who-hate-the-thought.html">rewarded cooperation with cooperation</a> (just as networking will <a href="http://stayviolation.typepad.com/chucknewton/2009/10/savvy-networking-for-lawyers-who-hate-the-thought.html">reward the savvy lawyer over at Chuck Newton's Ride the Third Wave</a>) and punished non-cooperation with retaliation. Because Tit for Tat <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">retaliated in the face of non-cooperation</a> (just as a former employee did according to <a href="http://chicagolawblogger.com/former-employee-report-employer-illegal-activity/">Hell Hath No Fury at Chicago Law Blogger</a>) it was never repeatedly victimized. And because Tit for Tat &ldquo;<a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/2009/10/12/roman-polanski-and-the-rule-of-law/">forgave</a>&rdquo; non-cooperators upon their return to cooperative game playing (as some believe <a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/2009/10/12/roman-polanski-and-the-rule-of-law/">Mr. Polanski should be forgiven</a> over at the <a href="http://law.marquette.edu/facultyblog/">Marquette U. Law School Faculty Blog</a>) it never got locked into mutually costly chains of mutual <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/2009/10/wall_streets_defense_tactics_c.html">betrayal</a>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn20"><sup>[20]</sup></a></p>
<p>As Robert Wright, author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Moral-Animal-Science-Evolutionary-Psychology/dp/0679763996">The Moral Animal</a> explained, had Tit for Tat been tossed into the game with 50 steadfast non-cooperators, there would have been a 49-way tie for first place. But none of the players' programs failed to cooperate in at least <em>some </em>circumstances, leaving Tit for Tat the clear victor.&nbsp; According to Wright, humans, like the programs in Axelrod's competition, are evolutionarily &ldquo;designed&rdquo; to cooperate under at least some circumstances. The engine and benefit of cooperation is present in our neurochemistry.&nbsp; When scientists observed the brain activity of volunteers playing the <a href="http://www.licensinghandbook.com/2009/09/04/the-prisoners-dilemma/">Prisoner&rsquo;s Dilemma game</a>, for instance, they found that the participants' &ldquo;reward circuits&rdquo; were activated and their impulsive "me first" circuits inhibited when they cooperated. Cooperation, retaliation, forgiveness and a return to cooperation. Tit for Tat.&nbsp;</p>
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<p><strong>Laws and Lawyers<br /> </strong></p>
<p><img src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/wetten van hammurabi.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="200" height="371" align="right" />First and most importantly, I suppose, are the<a href="http://socialmedialawstudent.com/twitter/how-to-identify-if-you-are-tweeting-with-a-lawyer/"> social media signs that you're "tweeting" like a lawyer over at the Social Media Law Student Blog</a>.&nbsp; Why first or important?&nbsp; <em><a href="http://www.philipcoppens.com/delphi.html">Know thyself</a>. &nbsp;</em>Everything else follows that.</p>
<p>We don't "dis" lawyers here at the Negotiation Blog.&nbsp; We simply remind ourselves that our primary purpose is the promotion of justice, with a stable societal order closely behind.&nbsp; Most people don't understand, for instance, that Shakespeare's famous <strong><span style="font-style: italic;"><em>the first thing we do, </em><em>let's kill all the lawyers</em></span></strong><em> </em>was not an insult.&nbsp; In King Henry IV, Act IV, Scene II, Shakespeare's sentiment was not his own, but that of a <a href="http://www.spectacle.org/797/finkel.html">revolutionary who wished to destroy the social order</a>.</p>
<p>The historic "present"&nbsp;of laws and lawyers is in the thousands, not simply the hundreds, of years. Hammurabi&nbsp;(make of his choice for the memorialization of his laws what you will) was the sixth king of Babylon, remembered for creating -- in his own name (and likeness?) - the first written and systematic legal code.&nbsp;</p>
<p>These laws provided for a mix of physical punishment -&nbsp;60 lashes with an ox hide whip - &lsquo;measure for measure&rsquo; awards (still with us in the form of <a href="http://standdown.typepad.com/weblog/2009/10/confronting-lethal-injection-in-maryland.html">lethal injection as covered by The StandDown Texas Project</a>) &ndash; eye for eye, bone fracture for bone fracture &ndash; and monetary compensation &ndash; 20 shekels for tooth injuries &ndash; (preserved by <a href="http://workers-compensation.blogspot.com/2009/10/nebraska-adopts-workers-compensation.html">workplace injury awards such as those discussed at the Workers Compensation Blog</a>) depended not only upon the type of injury, but the social classes involved in the loss, i.e., &lsquo;measure for measure&rsquo; sanctions were specified for losses among the upper classes while monetary awards were required for losses caused to and by commoners (reminding us that <a href="http://balkin.blogspot.com/2009/10/paying-attention-to-how-people-in.html">disrespect still too often turns on social status or "outsider" classification as discussed at Balkinization</a> this week).&nbsp; <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn23"><sup>[23]</sup></a>&nbsp;</p>
<p>For the wrongful killing of another, for instance, the victim&rsquo;s kin were paid according to the social status of the deceased party. Thus the &lsquo;man price&rsquo; for killing a peasant was 200 shillings and that for a nobleman 1200 shillings.&nbsp;Payments were not, however, tailored to the loss, but fixed according to types of affront, a distinction we continue to make when we punish intentional torts more severely than negligent ones.&nbsp; <sup>[24]</sup>&gt;</p>
<p>Criminal law and civil, it all comes down to a process that is "due" (a topic covered in a <a href="http://www.johntfloyd.com/blog/2009/10/14/who-are-the-real-home-grown-terrorists/">blistering post about tea-partiers and other "protectors"&nbsp;of the Constitution at the Criminal Jurisdiction Law Blog</a>) and a set of guidelines against which we can exercise some small degree of control over our own commercial and personal futures (like those subject of <a href="http://www.theconstructioncontractreview.com/2009/10/delays-not-party-time-excellent-for-subcontractor.html">Delays Not "Party Time, Excellent" for Subcontractor at the Construction Contract Review</a>).</p>
<p>Lawyers, litigators and trial lawyers are too often demonized by the ADR community as if you could get someone to sit down to negotiate without first pointing the gun of litigation at their heads; I salute you (and myself, for that matter!) for bringing us all to the bargaining table.&nbsp; See <a href="http://stevemehta.wordpress.com/2009/10/16/time-to-make-peace-factors-in-when-peace-makes-sense/">Steve Mehta's recent post at Mediation Matters, Factors When Peace Makes Sense</a> for a note that touches upon the symbiotic relationship between litigation and mediation, litigators and mediators.</p>
<p>I shouldn't cite single legal blogs twice, but I cannot resist this quote of Scott Greenfield's on another pundit's view of the future lawyers have in store for them, i.e.,&nbsp; <em><br /> </em></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>shucking oysters for a living if we don't accept a future of lawyers being piece workers in factories, sending our work off to Bangalore in pdf files and complementing people on their choice of forms at Legal Zoom.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://blog.simplejustice.us/2009/10/15/legal-rebels-the-sky-is-falling.aspx">Legal Rebels:&nbsp; the Sky is Falling at Simple Justice</a>.&nbsp; <a href="http://charonqc.wordpress.com/2009/10/15/aba-journal-24-hours-of-legal-rebels-education-costs-money-but-then-so-does-ignorance/">Charon QC also weighs in on the ABA Legal Rebels project here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Arbitration</strong></p>
<p>Which came first?&nbsp;Public civil trials or private arbitrations?&nbsp;You&rsquo;ll be surprised, I&rsquo;ll wager, to hear that arbitration was one of the earliest forms of dispute resolution, practiced by the <em>juris consults</em> of the Roman Empire.&nbsp;Roman arbitration predates the <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/medical-negligence/alternative-dispute-resolution-and-medical-negligence/">adversarial system</a> of common law by more than<em> a thousand years</em>. <a name="_ftnref" href="#_ftn25"><sup>[25]</sup></a></p>
<p>Ah, the glory of Rome! The <em>juris consulti</em> were (like too many mediators) amateurs who dabbled in dispute resolution, raising the question whether they (and we) should be certified or regulated as <a href="http://mediationchannel.com/2009/10/18/public-licensing-and-regulation-of-mediators-the-arguments-for-and-against/">Diane Levin asks at The Mediation Channel this week</a>.&nbsp; The Roman hobbyists gave legal opinions (<em>responsa</em>) to all comers (a practice known as <em>publice respondere</em>).&nbsp;They also served the needs of Roman judges and governors would routinely consult with advisory panels of jurisconsults before rendering decisions.&nbsp;Thus, the Romans &ndash; god bless them! - were the first to have a class of people who spent their days thinking about legal problems (an activity some readers will recall <a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com/articles/our-readers-write/">Ralph Nader calling "mental gymnastics in an iron cage</a>").</p>
<p><strong><img style="width: 182px; height: 284px;" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/LAW018.jpg" border="5" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" align="right" />18th Century Dispute Resolution Technology:&nbsp; The (<a href="http://lawiscool.com/2009/10/15/uwo-arrest-justified-arrest-or-abuse-of-power/">Inevitably Polarizing</a>) Adversarial System</strong></p>
<p><span class="style1">It was <a href="http://www.bfi.org/">Buckminster Fuller</a> who famously opined that the "significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them."&nbsp; If you keep this aphorism in mind for the remainder of this post, you'll likely have some extraordinarily innovative comments to make in the comment section below.</span></p>
<p>As the <a href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php/Adversarial_system">Law Guru wiki</a> reminds us, we can trace the adversarial system to the "medieval mode of <a class="new" title="Trial by combat" href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php?title=Trial_by_combat&amp;action=edit">trial by combat</a>, in which some litigants were allowed a champion to represent them."&nbsp; We owe our present day adversarialism, however, to the common law's use of the <a class="new" title="Jury" href="http://wiki.lawguru.com/index.php?title=Jury&amp;action=edit">jury</a> - the power of argumentation replacing the power of the sword.</p>
<p>The Act abolishing the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Chamber">infamous Star Chamber</a> in 1641 also granted every "freeman" the right to trial by "lawful judgment of his peers" or by the "law of the land" before the Crown could "take[] or imprison[]" him or "disseis[e] [him] of his freehold or liberties, or free customs."&nbsp; Nor could he any longer be "outlawed or exciled or otherwise destroyed."&nbsp; Nor could the King "pass upon him or condemn him."&nbsp;</p>
<p><a class="mw-redirect" title="English colonies" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_colonies">English colonies</a> like our own adopted the jury trial system and we, of course, enshrined that system in the <a title="Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fifth_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Fifth</a>, <a title="Sixth Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sixth_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Sixth</a>, and <a title="Seventh Amendment to the United States Constitution" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seventh_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution">Seventh Amendments</a>. &nbsp;Whether this 17th century dispute resolution technology can be fine-tuned to keep abreast of 21st century dispute creation technology (particularly in the quickly moving area of intellectual property) remains one of the pressing questions of legal and ADR policy and practice, particularly in a week in which a Superior Court verbally punished the lawyers before it for filing <a href="http://laconiclawblog.com/index.php/2009/10/12/the-most-oppressive-motion-ever-presented-to-a-superior-court/">The Most Oppressive Motion Ever Presented</a> (see the <a href="http://laconiclawblog.com/">Laconic Law Blog</a>).&nbsp; The motion?&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em>Defendants['] . . . motion for summary judgment/summary adjudication, seeking adjudication of 44 issues, most of which were not proper subjects of adjudication.&nbsp; Defendants&rsquo; separate statement was 196 pages long, setting forth hundreds of facts, many of them not material&mdash;as defendants&rsquo; own papers conceded.&nbsp; And the moving papers concluded with a request for judicial notice of 174 pages.&nbsp; All told, defendants&rsquo; moving papers were 1056 pages.</em></p>
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<p><em>Id. </em>(and <em>ouch!</em>)&nbsp; On a less <a href="http://www.dickensfellowship.org/Dickensian.htm">Dickensian</a> note (think <a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/bleakhouse/index.html">Bleak House</a>) take a look at the <a href="http://ipassetmaximizerblog.com/">IP Maximizer's</a> post on <a href="http://ipassetmaximizerblog.com/?p=835">IP litigation not being smart source of revenue for inventors</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Mediator, author and activist, <a href="http://www.kennethcloke.com/">Ken Cloke</a>, suggests that interest-based resolutions to conflict must replace power and rights based resolutions if we expect to create a future in which justice prevails.&nbsp; As Ken wrote in <a href="http://www.pr.com/press-release/100687">Conflict Revolution</a>:</p>
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<p><em>Approaching evil and injustice from an interest-based perspective means listening to the deeper truths that gave rise to them, extending compassion even to those who were responsible for evils or injustices, and seeking not merely to replace one evil or injustice with another, but to reduce their attractiveness by designing outcomes, processes, and relationships that encourage adversaries to work collaboratively to satisfy their interests. </em></p>
<p><em>Evil and injustice can therefore be considered byproducts of reliance on power or rights, and failures or refusals to learn and evolve. </em></p>
<p><em>All political systems generate chronic conflicts that reveal their internal weaknesses, external pressures, and demands for evolutionary change. Power- and rights-based systems are adversarial and unstable, and therefore avoid, deny, resist, and defend themselves against change. As a result, they suppress conflicts or treat them as purely interpersonal, leaving insiders less informed and able to adapt, and outsiders feeling they were treated unjustly and contemplating evil in response. </em></p>
<p><em> As pressures to change increase, these systems must either adapt, or turn reactionary and take a punitive, retaliatory attitude toward those seeking to promote change, delaying their own evolution. Only interest-based systems are fully able to seek out their weaknesses, proactively evolve, transform conflicts into sources of learning, and celebrate those who brought them to their attention. </em></p>
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<p>These are the words I leave with the readers of Blawg Review #234 because they are the ones that informed my personal and professional transformation from a legal career based on rights and remedies to one based upon interests and consensus.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Whatever my own personal 200-year present was, is and will be, it is pointed in the direction of peace with justice, with an enormous and probably unwarranted optimism best expressed by the <a href="http://www.law.ucdavis.edu/about/history-of-king-hall.html">man after whom my law school was named</a>:&nbsp; <a href="http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/1964/king-bio.html">Martin Luther King, Jr.</a>&nbsp; - <em>the arc of history is long, but it bends toward justice</em>.</p>
<p><a href="http://blawgreview.blogspot.com">Blawg Review</a> has information about next week's host, and instructions how to get your blawg posts reviewed in upcoming issues. Next week's host, <a href="http://www.counseltocounsel.com/2009/10/seeking-blog-posts-re-impact-of-great.html">Counsel to Counsel</a>, will devote its round-up of the week's best legal posts to the Great Recession.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn1" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[1]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See the <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/">WSJ Law Blog&rsquo;s</a> post on the evolving law on gay marriage this week &ndash; <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/10/14/judge-in-gay-marriage-case-ability-to-procreate-not-required/">Procreat[ion] Not Required</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn2" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[2]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Alas, there will always be lemons over at the <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/">Texas Lemon Law Blog</a> (save those <a href="http://www.texaslemonlawblog.com/2009/10/win_a_texas_lemon_law_case_by_1.html">repair invoices</a>!)</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn3" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[3]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://volokh.com/2009/10/15/ruth-bader-ginsburg-hospitalized/">Ruth Bader Ginsberg Hospitalized</a> at the <a href="http://volokh.com/">Volokh Conspiracy</a>, reporting on Ginsberg&rsquo;s fall from the seat of an airplane before take-off.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn4" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[4]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See the <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/">Law History Blog</a> on <a href="http://legalhistoryblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/brewer-on-why-america-fights-sunstein.html">Brewer&rsquo;s Why America Fights</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn5" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[5]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.broadcastlawblog.com/2009/10/articles/fm-radio/fcc-opens-filing-window-for-new-noncommercial-educational-fm-stations-imposes-freeze-on-minor-changes/">Radio Stations are Still with Us at the Broadcast Law Blog (covering Non-Commercial FM Station Availability</a>).&nbsp;</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn6" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[6]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Grandchildren who will not, I hope, have to deal with my <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/?p=122">Alzheimers</a>, the perils of which are described at the <a href="http://www.slutskyelderlaw.com/blog/">Slutsky Elder Law and Estate Planning Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn7" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[7]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Though, of course, <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/2009/10/downloadable-ebooks-change-the-face-of-brick-mortar-libraries.html">e-books</a> will be read side-by-side with hard copy as paper and cardboard eventually goes the way of Colonial era hornbooks. See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/2009/10/downloadable-ebooks-change-the-face-of-brick-mortar-libraries.html">Downloadable e-Books Change the Face of Brick and Mortar Libraries</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/law_librarian_blog/">Law Librarian Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn8" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[8]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Those games will, of course, exist side by side the video variety, many of which are recommended as <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/2009/10/100-useful-tools-for-special-needs-students-educators.html">Tools for Special Needs Students and Educators</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/adjunctprofs/">Adjunct Law Prof Blog</a> this week.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn9" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[9]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/2009/10/hemp-and-audacity.html">Hemp and Audacity</a> at the <a href="http://www.agandfoodlaw.com/">U.S. Ag and Food Law Policy Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn10" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[10]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">Retail Green Wrap-Up Day One</a> at the <a href="http://www.greenenergyanddevelopmentlaw.com/">Green Energy and Development Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn11" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[11]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Unfortunately, one of my <a href="http://www.adrservices.org/neutrals/jan-schau.php">colleagues at ADR Services, Inc., blogger Jan Schau</a>, will be celebrating Conflict Resolution week with the <a href="http://schausmediationinsights.blogspot.com/2009/10/duty-to-clients-or-country.html">service of a subpoena to testify in federal court about a mediation over which she presided</a>.&nbsp;On a more cheerful note, go to <a href="http://regardingsolutions.blogspot.com/2009/10/happy-conflict-resolution-day.html">Re:Solutions for a Happy Conflict Resolution Day</a> and <a href="http://dialogicmediation.com/2009/10/15/conflict-resolution-day-2009/">Dialogic Mediation Services Blog for a nice Conflict Resolution Day image</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn12" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[12]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Alas there&rsquo;s <a href="http://ms-jd.org/new-gender-gap">still a gender gap</a> as described this week at <a href="http://ms-jd.org/">Ms. JD</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn13" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[13]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Voting rights are still a matter of concern today, of course.&nbsp;See <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/2009/10/judge-says-virginia-violated-rights-of-overseas-voters-.html">Judge Says Virginia Violated Rights of Overseas Voters</a> at the <a href="http://legaltimes.typepad.com/blt/">Blog of Legal Times</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn14" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[14]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/">Rachel Anderson&rsquo;s Law Blog</a> on the <a href="http://rachelandersonsblog.blogspot.com/2009/10/human-rights-immunity-or-accountability.html">scope of immunity for foreign officials</a> that Anderson believes may have important implications for Plaintiffs seeking recompense for genocide.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn15" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[15]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; One generation wants out and the other wants in.&nbsp;See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/2009/10/dont-ask-dont-tell-dont-teach-air-force-academy-punishes-instructor-for-discussion-on-sexual-minorities-in-the-military.html">Don&rsquo;t Ask, Don&rsquo;t Tell, Don&rsquo;t Teach</a> at <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/lgbtlaw/">Sexual Orientation and the Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn16" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[16]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Earlier scientific theory posited that <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/node/14673">each human embryo</a> (see <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/node/14673">Embryo Mix-Up</a> at the <a href="http://www.proudparenting.com/">Proud Parenting Blog</a>) passes through a progression of abbreviated stages <a href="http://biomed.brown.edu/Courses/BIO48/30.S&amp;S.HTML">that resemble the main evolutionary stages of its ancestors</a>, i.e., that the fertilized egg starts as a single cell (just like our first living evolutionary ancestor); as the egg repeatedly divides it develops into an embryo with a segmented arrangement (the &ldquo;worm&rdquo; stage); these segments develop into vertebrae, muscles and something that sort of looks like gills (the &ldquo;fish&rdquo; stage); limb&nbsp;buds develop with paddle-like hands and feet, and there appears to be a &ldquo;tail&rdquo; (the &ldquo;amphibian&rdquo; stage); and, by the eighth week of development, most organs are nearly complete, the limbs develop fingers and toes, and the &ldquo;tail&rdquo; disappears (the human stage).&nbsp;It turns out that this one-to-one correlation was too simplistic, but it remains safe to say that our biological development still passes through several stages that &ldquo;recapitulate&rdquo; the evolution of our species.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn17" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[17]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The amygdala is a region of the brain that permits the formation and storage of memories associated with emotional events. It permits us to &ldquo;read&rdquo; the emotional responses of our fellows and is thought to facilitated our ability to form relationships and live and work in groups.&nbsp;It is also the source of our &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; response to danger.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn18" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[18]</sup></a> In <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/10/science/10mirr.html">Cells that Read Minds</a>, New York Times Science writer <a href="http://query.nytimes.com/search/query?ppds=bylL&amp;v1=SANDRA%20BLAKESLEE&amp;fdq=19960101&amp;td=sysdate&amp;sort=newest&amp;ac=SANDRA%20BLAKESLEE&amp;inline=nyt-per">Sandra Blakeslee </a>explained:</p>
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<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>Studies show that some mirror neurons fire when a person reaches for a glass or watches someone else reach for a glass; others fire when the person puts the glass down and still others fire when the person reaches for a toothbrush and so on. They respond when someone kicks a ball, sees a ball being kicked, hears a ball being kicked and says or hears the word "kick." </em></p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;">&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;When you see me perform an action - such as picking up a baseball - you automatically simulate the action in your own brain,&rdquo; said Dr. Marco Iacoboni, a neuroscientist at the University of California, Los Angeles, who studies mirror neurons. &rdquo;Circuits in your brain, which we do not yet entirely understand, inhibit you from moving while you simulate,&rdquo; he said. &rdquo;But you understand my action because you have in your brain a template for that action based on your own movements. &ldquo;</em></p>
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<p><a name="_ftn19" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[19]</sup></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; See <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/2009/10/a-judge-may-endorse-the-sedona-conference-cooperation-report-without-running-afoul-of-ethics-rules-according-to-a-recent-opi.html">Judge May Endorse Discovery Proclamation</a> at the <a href="http://lawprofessors.typepad.com/legal_profession/">Legal Profession Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn20" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[20]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Check out the post on the <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/2009/10/wall_streets_defense_tactics_c.html">Betrayal of Corporate Clients</a> at the <a href="http://www.investmentfraudlawyerblog.com/">Investment Fraud Lawyer Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn21" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[21]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.productliabilitylawblog.com/2009/09/24_million_auto_products_liabi.html">Wrongful death compensation</a> over at the <a href="http://www.productliabilitylawblog.com/">Product Liability Law Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn22" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[22]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Looking toward the future, the <a href="http://kolber.typepad.com/ethics_law_blog/">Neuroethics and the Law Blog</a> predicts that in the &ldquo;experiential future, we will have better technologies to measure physical pain, pain relief, and emotional distress. These technologies should not only change tort law and related compensation schemes but should also change our assessments of criminal blameworthiness and punishment severity&rdquo; <a href="http://kolber.typepad.com/ethics_law_blog/2009/10/the-experiential-future-of-the-law.html">here</a>.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn23" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[23]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This week Beck and Herrmann at the <a href="http://druganddevicelaw.blogspot.com/">Drug and Device Law Blog</a> note that &ldquo;shame works wonders&rdquo; in their post on the <a href="http://druganddevicelaw.blogspot.com/2009/10/sorting-through-free-speech-challenges.html">Free Speech Challenges to the FDA</a>.</p>
<p><sup>[24]</sup>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Intentionally left blank.</p>
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<p><a name="_ftn25" href="#_ftnref"><sup>[25]</sup></a> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ADR professionals are often heard critics of the adversarial system, as can be seen over at the <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/">Australian Dispute Resolvers Blog</a> where author Chris <em>Whitelaw</em> (really??) <a href="http://www.chriswhitelaw.com.au/blog/medical-negligence/alternative-dispute-resolution-and-medical-negligence/">quotes the Journal of Law and Medicine as follows</a>:</p>
<p style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>The adversarial system of medical negligence fails to satisfy the main aims of tort law, those being equitable compensation of plaintiffs, correction of mistakes and deterrence of negligence. Instead doctors experience litigation as a punishment and, in order to avoid exposure to the system, have resorted not to corrective or educational measures but to defensive medicine, a practice which the evidence indicates both decreases patient autonomy and increases iatrogenic injury. </em></p>
<p>&nbsp;(<em>Iatrogenic</em>, by the way, is a fancy term for &ldquo;we have know idea whatsoever what the source of this ailment<em> is</em>).&nbsp;Chris is looking for comments so run on over there if you&rsquo;ve been thinking about medical malpractice litigation during the marathon American health care debates.</p>
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We hear a lot of talk these days about rhetoric and whether people are able to follow through on it, deliver &quot;the goods&quot;, stay true to the rule.&nbsp; We live in a cynical age and diminish rhetoric as if it were all just a slick sales presentation and we its potentially gullible consumers.</div>
<p><strong>My generation and perhaps every generation that followed was weaned on a distrust of words.&nbsp; </strong>But a nation of laws is premised on words, some of which have taken us more than 200 years to put into action&nbsp; -- that nation &quot;conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.&quot;</p>
<p><strong>Negotiators use words too</strong>, when they aren't flailing their arms, packing their briefcases in a show of temper or scowling in disapproval at their bargaining partners' intractability.&nbsp; In fact, <em>using our words </em>is the great achievement of civilization to date:&nbsp; forming and professing beliefs, organizing support or opposition, voting, and, in the justice business -- making opening statements, eliciting testimony, submitting documentary evidence, making closing arguments, seeking jury instructions and, at long last, receiving the written verdict of the justice system's intestinal tract -- the decision of 12 men and women good and true.</p>
<p><strong>I believed in words from the first,</strong> sitting on my grandmother's capacious lap, following her finger under each printed rune, hearing Genesis from the King James version and attending to Longfellow's tear-jerking narrative poem <a href="http://theotherpages.org/poems/books/longfellow/evangeline00.html">Evangeline</a> from the safety of her presence, the sound of her voice, the lamplight that encircled us, the arms that held me firm.&nbsp;&nbsp; From my beginning, words meant love, which is likely the reason I am a writer, a poet, the editor of a literary journal, a literature major and later a law student and lawyer, for whom words had become not simply the way to express human connection, but a means of exercising power and resolving conflict if not precisely ever looking for or ascertaining the &quot;truth,&quot; trembling naked in its hiding place.&nbsp; We still need poetry for that -- the truth.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I lost poetry in law school and later in practice - the pleasure of words for their own sake and in the service of love - the love spoken in word-breath to a child on her grandmother's lap. In law school and later, they'd become implements of analysis and then weapons to bring my adversaries to their knees.&nbsp; It rarely worked like that -- <em>victory -- </em>righteous and <em>right</em>, but still I&nbsp;soldiered on.</p>
<p>I found the poetry inside of me again, my grandmother's heritage, in <a href="http://www2.uclaextension.edu/writers/">UCLA's creative writing extension program</a> where I first studied under one of the most lyrical memoirists of our time - <a href="http://www.barclayagency.com/cooper.html">Bernard Cooper</a>.&nbsp; He reassured me that my words were still good after two decades of legal practice.&nbsp; I could justly take pride in my sentences and paragraphs and the courage it takes to express one's own idiosyncratic&nbsp; imagination.&nbsp; But Bernard warned me that &quot;anyone can write a great paragraph.&nbsp; Putting those paragraphs together like Frankenstein working on the monster of his novel or memoir, that's a quite different discipline, with the emphasis on <em>work,&nbsp;</em>not talent.&quot;</p>
<p>So I wrote a little, published here and there and finally decided to simply publish the literature of others <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/">here</a>.&nbsp; I did not, finally <em>possess </em>the lonely discipline of the long-distance writer.&nbsp; But it is enough to have added a few words to the river of poetry <a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/265">Mary Oliver</a> says we are swimming in the minute we open a collection and begin to read the broken lines within.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Below are the words that open Evangeline.&nbsp; The closing lines of&nbsp; this long, sentimental poem, brought tears to my grandmother's eyes - shocking! for one who had never seen her cry before and never would again, even as she lay thin and wasting in a nursing home, bone cancer taking her away from me far too soon.&nbsp; But she left me this (and lives on in me because of its expression).&nbsp;</p>
<dl><blockquote><dt><a style=""><em><font size="+1">T</font>HIS is the forest primeval. The murmuring pines and the hemlocks,  </em></a></dt><dt><a style=""><em>Bearded with moss, and in garments green, indistinct in the twilight</em></a></dt><dt><a style=""><em>Stand like Druids of eld, with voices sad and prophetic</em></a></dt><dt><a style=""><em>Stand like harpers hoar, with beards that rest on their bosoms.  </em></a></dt><dt><br />
</dt></blockquote><dt><strong>AS </strong><a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/264"><strong>Donald Hall</strong></a><strong>, that famous contemporary poet, reminds us, when we read poetry aloud, we are physically expressing the pleasure of being human.</strong></dt><dt><br />
Poems, Hall tells us, (.<a href="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/file/The Unsayable Said Hall.pdf">pdf</a>)<br />
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</dt><dt style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>are pleasure first, bodily pleasure, a deliciousness of the senses. Mostly, poems end by saying something (even the unsayable) but they start as the body's joy, like making love. Sometimes a poem remains a small pleasing sensation:</em><br />
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</em>Bah, bah, black sheep,<br />
Have you any wool?<br />
Yes, sir. Yes, sir.<br />
Three bags full.<br />
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Maybe these words once referred to taxation, but we hear them now without being<br />
tempted to paraphrase. Instead,we chew on them, taste them, and dance to them.<br />
This banquet or ballet starts in the crib, before arithmetic or thought. Everyone<br />
was once an infant who took mouth pleasure in gurgle and shriek, accompanied<br />
by muscle joy as our small limbs clenched and unclenched. </em><br />
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</dt><dt style="margin-left: 40px;"><em>Poetry starts from the crib; a thousand years later, John Donne makes lovers into compasses, T. S. Eliot contemplates the still point of the turning world, and Elizabeth Bishop remembers sitting as a child in the dentist's waiting room; but if these poets did not retain the mouth pleasure of a baby's autistic utterance&mdash;pleasure in vowels on the tongue, pleasure in changes of volume and pause: Bah, bah, black sheep&mdash;we would not hear their meditations and urgencies.</em><br />
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The body&nbsp; is poetry's door; the sounds of words&mdash;throbbing in legs and arms; rich in the mouth&mdash;let us into the house.<br />
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</dt><dt>When we speak to one another - when we listen - when we <em>attend </em>to the words and their feeling - we are moved in the direction of another, toward the collective good.&nbsp; It just works like that.&nbsp; We are infants first, disappointed and suspicious adults only later.&nbsp; I do not advocate letting down our guard in the presence of those who seek to deceive us.&nbsp; I recommend only being open to those we <em>know </em>are speaking the truth of our species, the truth we can <em>feel </em>when another human being puts aside the words of discord and blame, stops making &quot;demands&quot; and speaks in the voice of another creature on the planet making meaning:&nbsp; a voice that will always urge us toward unity, liberty, generosity, accountability, forgiveness and reconciliation.<br />
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</dt><dt>Those are the words that set men and women free.</dt><br />
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<p>Sometimes, all that stands between us and giving up (<a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/gallery/2009/06/04/GA2009060402506.html">R.I.P. David Carradine</a>) is the knowledge that we are not in this alone and &quot;cannot be forever blessed.&quot;&nbsp; <a href="http://www.paulsimon.com/">Paul Simon's</a> ** American Tune from 1975, another time when the American Economy was flagging.</p>
<p>There's something about this song that always brings tears to my eyes at the same time as it makes me feel connected to something greater than myself.</p>
<p>Words &amp; music by Paul Simon<br />
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Many's the time I've been mistaken<br />
And many times confused<br />
Yes, and I've often felt forsaken<br />
And certainly misused<br />
Oh, but I'm all right, I'm all right<br />
I'm just weary to my bones<br />
Still, you don't expect to be<br />
Bright and bon vivant<br />
So far away from home, so far away from home<br />
<br />
And I don't know a soul who's not been battered<br />
I don't have a friend who feels at ease<br />
I don't know a dream that's not been shattered<br />
or driven to its knees<br />
but it's all right, it's all right<br />
for we lived so well so long<br />
Still, when I think of the<br />
road we're traveling on<br />
I wonder what's gone wrong<br />
I can't help it, I wonder what's gone wrong<br />
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And I dreamed I was dying<br />
I dreamed that my soul rose unexpectedly<br />
And looking back down at me<br />
Smiled reassuringly<br />
And I dreamed I was flying<br />
And high up above my eyes could clearly see<br />
The Statue of Liberty<br />
Sailing away to sea<br />
And I dreamed I was crying<br />
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We come on the ship they call the Mayflower<br />
We come on the ship that sailed the moon<br />
We come in the age's most uncertain hours<br />
and sing an American tune<br />
Oh, and it's alright, it's all right, it's all right<br />
You can't be forever blessed<br />
Still, tomorrow's going to be another working day<br />
And I'm trying to get some rest<br />
That's all I'm trying to get some rest</p>
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<p>**&nbsp; Paul Simon's been the sound track of my life.&nbsp; In 1965, when I graduated from Middle School (then called &quot;Junior High&quot;) my graduation speech was built around Simon's &quot;I Am a Rock&quot; (which Simon describes here as his &quot;most neurotic song.&quot;)&nbsp; Naturally.&nbsp; I&nbsp;was 13 years old!</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thisamericanlife.org/"><img width="100" vspace="5" hspace="5" height="100" border="5" align="left" alt="" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/uploads/image/380_sm.jpg" /></a>(image from and link to last week's <a href="http://podcast.thisamericanlife.org/podcast/380.mp3">This American Life episode, No Map</a>)</p>
<p>What do these two stories -- the first hilarious; the second infuriating -- have to do with negotiation?</p>
<p>First, listen to the introduction and first story in last week's brilliant episode of <a href="http://www.thisamericanlife.org/">This American Life</a>, <a href="http://podcast.thisamericanlife.org/podcast/380.mp3">No Map</a> (<a href="http://podcast.thisamericanlife.org/podcast/380.mp3">podcast here</a>).</p>
<p>The full chimp story (chimpanzee in red sweat-shirt, jeans and shoes causes the police to &quot;un-arrest&quot; his owner) is an hilarious example of a lose-lose negotiation impasse.&nbsp; Lesson:&nbsp; as the 12-step people caution:&nbsp; &quot;you can't save your face and your ass at the same time.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>The other, more sober tale, reveals the competing interests keeping American banks from pursuing the win-win solution that would permit &quot;upside down&quot; homeowners to remain in their houses and continue paying at least part of their debt.&nbsp; Why?&nbsp; Among other reasons, renegotiating loans secured by deeds of trust would require banks to carry a toxic assets on their balance sheets <em>today </em>rather than next year.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Other impediments include the more practical road-blocks that impede efficient management of all organizations -- a lack of preparedness -- in this case, an inability to get mortgage renegotiation service centers up and running fast enough to keep up with the crisis.&nbsp; We're hoping that the President's economic advisors already know this, or are still finding the time to download This American Life to their iPods or Blackberries.</p>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Must read:&nbsp; <a href="http://embracingconflict.blogspot.com/2008/12/deliverance-and-duelling-banjoes.html">Embracing Conflict's analysis of Dueling Banjoes in Deliverance</a> written by&nbsp; <a href="http://twitter.com/NeilDenny">Niel Denny</a>, a <a href="http://www.collabfamilylaw.org.uk/">Collaborative family solicitor</a> working in the South West of England who is a member of my twitter network here: <a href="http://twitter.com/NeilDenny">@nieldenny</a>.</p>
<p>Excerpt and video below but a reading of the entire post is a must for anyone looking for reasons to believe that we can reach one another across political, cultural, religious, social and economic divides.</p>
<blockquote><blockquote><em>The music develops by a process of answer and call. One of them plays a riff, or a short section of music, which is then followed by the other. They react to one another responding to and developing upon the riff they have just heard. By doing so they produce this amazing music in a memorable scene that is part of cinema folklore.<br />
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It represents a rare moment of optimism in what is an otherwise unbearably dark, oppressive film.<br />
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In the process of exchanging these riffs the protagonists are effectively collaborating. They are communicating. We can see their riffs as an analogy for talking. The riffs work where the spoken word does not. Drew and the Banjo boy clearly develop and enjoy a relationship while they are playing.</em></blockquote></blockquote>  <object height="344" width="425">
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>There's been some <a href="http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Salacious_B._Crumb">salacious </a>commentary (such as&nbsp;<a href="http://www.whataboutclients.com/archives/2008/08/victoria_pyncho_1.html"><em>WAC's </em><strong>Like a Vixen</strong></a>)&nbsp;about <a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com/2008/08/articles/business-strategy-and-tactics/blawg-review-171/">Blawg Review # 171</a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;I just want to say to anyone who missed the sexual revolution -- on either side of the generation gap -- we're sorry to have started it all.&nbsp; We just never really left high school.</p>
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<p>We've also heard some complaints that the most recent <a href="http://blawgreview.blogspot.com">Blawg Review</a>&nbsp;is just too darn <em>long.&nbsp;&nbsp;</em>In honor of our <a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com">sister blog</a> and those attorneys who are still billing 2400 hours/year, we give you the IP Executive Summary of the Virgin <a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com/2008/08/articles/business-strategy-and-tactics/blawg-review-171/">Blawg Review #171</a> below.&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.straightdope.com/classics/a4_208.html"><strong>Isaac Newton</strong></a><strong>.</strong>&nbsp; The Straight Dope thinks the virginity of this octogenerian scientist and mathematician is&nbsp;<a href="http://www.straightdope.com/classics/a4_208.html">less surprising that the fact that&nbsp;the&nbsp;math gene somehow keeps perpetuating itself.</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;We consecrate Newton's virginity to this week's best IP and IT posts.&nbsp; William (&quot;I am virgi<em>nal</em>&quot;)&nbsp;Patry&nbsp;is asking questions <a href="http://williampatry.blogspot.com/2008/07/us-government-insists-on-right-to.html"><strong>about the government's engagement in&nbsp;copyright infringement&nbsp;</strong></a>&nbsp;but it is &nbsp;<a href="http://williampatry.blogspot.com/2008/08/end-of-blog.html"><strong>Patry's final blog post</strong></a> that we celebrate as a true virginal moment.&nbsp; Pause here.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em>My late mother, aleha ha-shalom, told me repeatedly that I had a religious obligation to learn every day, and I have honored her memory by doing exactly that. Learning also involves changing how you think about things; it doesn't only mean reinforcing the existing views you already have. In this respect, Second Circuit Judge Pierre Leval once said that the best way to know you have a mind is to change it, and I have tried to live by that wisdom too. There are positions I have taken in the past I no longer hold, and some that I continue to hold. I have tried to be honest with myself: if you are not genuinely honest with yourself, you can't learn, and if you worry about what others think of you, you will be living their version of your life and not yours. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">Other IP bloggers have, of course, reflected on Patry's Final Blog Words <a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/patent/2008/08/end-of-an-era-e.html"><strong>here</strong></a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="http://www.robhyndman.com/2008/08/02/patry-no-longer-on-copyright/"><strong>here</strong></a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">Back in the worldly word,&nbsp;<a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/"><strong>Patently O</strong></a> -- which promiscuously shares itself with millions of readers every year -- turns its pen over to<strong> </strong><a href="http://www.patentlyo.com/patent/2008/07/reading-quanta.html"><strong>David McGowan who discusses why we should not interpret the recent Quanta decision too broadly</strong></a><strong>.&nbsp;</strong>&nbsp;Lou Michels suggests we be the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWW1S1cu5jA">masters of our own domains</a>, using the&nbsp;the recent San Francisco IT fiasco&nbsp;as a cautionary tale --<strong> </strong><a href="http://suitsintheworkplace.com/blogs/archive/2008/07/25/990.aspx"><strong>don't let a single person have control of all the keys to <em>your</em> kingdom</strong></a><strong>.</strong></p>
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<p dir="ltr">We've heard tell that reading your&nbsp;iPhone has replaced the cigarette for post-coital bliss, in which case you'll be glad to hear&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://www.bretttrout.com/">Brett Trout</a></strong> at <a href="http://blawgit.com/"><strong>BlawgIT</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;</strong>suggest&nbsp;that you might soon be watching<strong>&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://blawgit.com/?p=666"><strong>television from that device.</strong></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;Protection, protection, protection.&nbsp;&nbsp;In a software license, boilerplate integration and non-reliance terms might not <a href="http://www.masslawblog.com/?p=225 "><strong>insulate a firm from claims based upon&nbsp;its salesfolks &quot;over&quot;promises</strong></a>.&nbsp; Elsewhere, at least one&nbsp;IP Blogger wonders whether&nbsp;<a href="http://www.plagiarismtoday.com/2008/07/29/is-blog-content-licensing-dead/ "><strong>blog content licensing&nbsp;might be dying for lack of buyers</strong></a>? (people <em>pay </em>for Blog content while I give it away for free?????)</p>
<p><strong>The IP Dispute of the Week, of course</strong>, is&nbsp;<a href="http://www.hasbro.com/default.cfm?page=ps_results&amp;product_id=9497">Hasbro</a>'s suit against&nbsp;Rajat and Jayant Agarwalla&nbsp;for their Facebook hit <a href="http://www.scrabulous.com/">Scrabulous</a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;Scrabble itself was&nbsp;invented&nbsp;during the Depression by Alfred Mosher Butts, an out-of-work architect.&nbsp; How did he do it?&nbsp;&nbsp;As the New York Times explained in its review of&nbsp;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url?%5Fencoding=UTF8&amp;search-type=ss&amp;index=books&amp;field-author=Stefan%20Fatsis">Steve Fastis</a> book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Word-Freak-Heartbreak-Competitive-ScrabblePlayers/dp/0142002267">Word Freak</a>&nbsp;(<a href="http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=990DE0DF153EF935A1575BC0A9679C8B63&amp;scp=2&amp;sq=fatsis+word+freak&amp;st=nyt">Zo. Qi. Doh. Hoo. Qursh</a>)<strong>&nbsp;</strong>Scrabble's inventor assumed that the game would work best if the game letters&nbsp; &quot;appear[ed] in the same frequency as in the language itself.&quot;&nbsp; So he</p>
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<p><em>counted letters in The New York Times, The New York Herald Tribune and The Saturday Evening Post to calculate letter frequencies for various word lengths. Playing the game with his wife, Nina, and experimenting as he went along, Butts carefully worked out the size of the playing grid (225 squares, or 15 by 15), the number of tiles (100), point values for the letters, the placement of double- and triple-score squares, the distribution of vowels and consonants, and so on. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">In response to the Hasbro lawsuit<strong>&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://hpf-law.com/attorneys/ronald-coleman.php"><strong>Ron Coleman</strong></a><strong> </strong>at<strong> </strong><a href="http://www.likelihoodofconfusion.com/"><strong>Likelihood of Confusion</strong></a> asks &quot;<a href="http://www.likelihoodofconfusion.com/?p=1585"><strong>How Many Points is Infringement</strong></a><strong>?&quot;</strong> -- one of those rare legal questions that actually has <em>an answer </em>rather than 20 more questions.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p dir="ltr">If Player 1 opens with&nbsp;&quot;fringe&quot; (double word) for&nbsp;24 points;&nbsp;Player 2&nbsp;follows by slapping an&nbsp;&quot;i&quot;&nbsp;on the triple word score followed by an&nbsp;&quot;n&quot; for&nbsp;&quot;infringe&quot; and 33 points; and,&nbsp;Player 1 responds with&nbsp;&quot;ment&quot; for 19 points,&nbsp;the combined&nbsp;score for&nbsp;&quot;infringement&quot; is&nbsp;75 points.&nbsp;Our readers can do the math and moves on &quot;trademark&quot; and copyright.&quot;&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">On the matter of greater moment --<strong>&nbsp; </strong><a href="http://futureoftheinternet.org/will-the-ax-fall-on-scrabulous"><strong>Will the ax fall on Scrabulous</strong></a><strong> --&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://futureoftheinternet.org/about"><strong>Jonathan Zittrain</strong></a><strong> </strong>at<strong> </strong><a href="http://futureoftheinternet.org/"><strong>The Future of the Internet</strong></a> answers his own question&nbsp;in the affirmative based on the name alone, opining that&nbsp;by calling it &quot;rainbows and buttercups&rdquo; instead of &ldquo;<a href="http://www.scrabulous.com/">Scrabulous</a>&rdquo; there&rsquo;d be little claim of brand confusion but&nbsp;noting the &quot;residual claim that the Scrabulous game board infringes the copyright held in the Scrabble game board.&quot;&nbsp; More on Scrabulous and its replacement with Word Scraper at the <a href="http://www.davis.ca/en/blog/Video-Game-Law/2008/08/01/Scrabulous-removed-but-returns-under-a-new-name"><strong>Video Game Law Blog here</strong></a>.&nbsp;(<a href="http://www.ipadrblog.com/2008/08/articles/innovation/fabulous-scrabulous-word-scraper-and-the-wages-of-litigation/">Mr. Thrifty's and my first game of Word Scraper here</a>!)&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">Has anyone recently said&nbsp;God bless the best IP aggregator in the universe --&nbsp;the <a href="http://duncanbucknell.com/blog/386/IP-Think-Tank-Global-Week-in-Review---1-August-2008"><strong>IP Think Tank's Global Week in Review</strong></a>?&nbsp; This week IPTT points to the&nbsp;following posts on the&nbsp;Hasbro Scrabble debacle --&nbsp;(<a href="http://spicyipindia.blogspot.com/2008/07/spicyip-tidbit-scrabble-squabble-now-in.html"><strong>Spicy IP</strong></a>), (<strong><a href="http://www.techdirt.com/articles/20080730/1936041842.shtml">Techdirt</a></strong>), (<strong><a href="http://www.schwimmerlegal.com/2008/07/facebook_takes.html">The Trademark Blog</a></strong>), (<strong><a href="http://www.out-law.com/default.aspx?page=9308">Out-Law</a></strong>), (<strong><a href="http://ip.law360.com/registrations/user_registration?article_id=64242">Law360</a></strong>).&nbsp;&nbsp;While we're talking IP aggregation, check out&nbsp;<a href="http://www.patentbaristas.com/"><strong>Patent Baristas</strong></a>' regular&nbsp;<a href="http://www.patentbaristas.com/archives/category/friday-round-up/"><strong>Friday IP Round-up</strong></a>.&nbsp; All around aggregators include&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/about.html">Anne Reed's</a></strong> (<a href="http://jurylaw.typepad.com/deliberations/"><strong>Deliberations</strong></a>) <a href="http://www.google.com/reader/public/atom/user/05736622240041767230/state/com.google/broadcast"><strong>reading list</strong></a>&nbsp;and Kevin O'Keefe's&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://www.lexmonitor.com/">LexMonitor</a></strong>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Both <a href="http://www.geoffsharp.co.nz/"><strong>Geoff Sharp</strong></a> and I picked up&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://mediatorblahblah.blogspot.com/2008/08/8-impediments-to-mediation-of-patent.html">8 impediments to settling&nbsp;patent cases on appeal</a></strong>&nbsp;(a desire for &quot;justice&quot; is not an impediment but a <em>means </em>to settlement).&nbsp; While we're taking an ADR angle,&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://virtuallyblind.com/2008/08/02/bob-brackman-second-life-lawsuit-avoided/">Virtually Blind's</a></strong> post <a href="http://virtuallyblind.com/2008/08/02/bob-brackman-second-life-lawsuit-avoided/"><strong>Second Life&nbsp;Lawsuit Avoided</strong></a>; <a href="http://lawiscool.com/"><strong>Law is Cool's</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://lawiscool.com/2008/08/02/love-actionable/"><strong>Love, Actionable</strong></a>; and,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="http://books.slashdot.org/"><strong>Slashdot's </strong></a>recommend reading of the week (<a href="http://books.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=08/07/28/1330215&amp;from=rss"><strong>The Pragmatic CSO</strong></a>) are all well worth a look.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">Slashdot also reminds us&nbsp;that IP prevention is worth a pound of IP litigation&nbsp;with the post<strong> </strong><a href="http://news.slashdot.org/article.pl?no_d2=1&amp;sid=08/07/28/1322222"><strong>WB Took Pains to &quot;Delay&quot;&nbsp;Pirating of the Dark Knight</strong></a> as follows:&nbsp;</p>
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<p dir="ltr">&quot;a new studio tactic [is] not to prevent piracy, but to delay it . . .&nbsp;Warner Bros. executives said [they]&nbsp;prevent[ed] camcorded copies of the reported $180-million [Dark Knight] film from reaching Internet file-sharing sites for about 38 hours. Although that doesn't sound like much progress, it was enough time to keep bootleg DVDs off the streets as the film racked up a record-breaking $158.4 million on opening weekend. .&nbsp; .&nbsp;The success of an anti-piracy campaign is measured in the number of hours it buys before the digital dam breaks.'&quot;</p>
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<p dir="ltr">If you're sufficiently virginal&nbsp;to believe in magic, check out the&nbsp;<a href="http://lpcprof.typepad.com/law_and_magic_blog/2008/07/defamation-lawsuit-dismissed-as-protected-opinion.html"><strong>Law and Magic Law Blog's</strong></a>&nbsp;announcement of the&nbsp;dismissal of a defamation lawsuit against<strong>&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://lpcprof.typepad.com/law_and_magic_blog/2008/07/defamation-lawsuit-dismissed-as-protected-opinion.html"><strong>Magic Mag</strong></a>&nbsp;as&nbsp;protected opinion while <a href="http://www.ernietheattorney.net/ernie_the_attorney/">Ernie the Attorney</a> has at least one more make to&nbsp;make your iPhone magic&nbsp;<a href="http://www.ernietheattorney.net/ernie_the_attorney/2008/08/use-the-iphone.html"><strong>here</strong></a>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, the <a href="http://www.legaltalknetwork.com/modules.php?name=News&amp;file=article&amp;sid=296"><strong>Legal Talk Network</strong></a> gathers together&nbsp;bloggers and co-hosts, <a href="http://www.mayitpleasethecourt.com/about_miptc/jcw.asp">J. Craig Williams</a> and <a href="http://www.legaline.com/">Bob Ambrogi</a> to welcome <a href="http://www.cyberlawcentral.com/2008/07/25/guest-on-lawyer-2-lawyer-podcast-privacy-and-piracy-viacom-v-youtube/">Attorney Kevin A. Thompson</a> from the firm <a href="http://www.davismcgrath.com/attorneys/kthompson.asp">Davis McGrath LLC</a>, and <a href="http://cyberlaw.stanford.edu/profile/lauren-gelman">Lauren Gelman</a>, Executive Director of <a href="http://cyberlaw.stanford.edu/">Stanford Law School's Center for Internet and Society</a> to discuss Viacom's suit against&nbsp;Google's&nbsp;YouTube for the violation of&nbsp;its copyrights in a $1 billion lawsuit. <a href="http://www.wikipatents.com/"><strong><img vspace="5" hspace="5" border="5" align="right" style="width: 280px; height: 71px;" alt="" src="http://www.ipadrblog.com/WikiPatents.jpg" /></strong></a></p>
<p dir="ltr">Because I used to type patent applications for Uniroyal&nbsp;(IBM Selectric - 5 carbon copies)&nbsp;I get a sweet whiff of&nbsp;nostalgia from&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wikipatents.com/"><strong>Wiki Patents</strong></a> -- like this one --&nbsp;<a><strong>Flexible Row Redundancy System 7404113</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;--</strong>&nbsp;a row redundancy system is provided for replacing faulty wordlines of a memory array having a plurality of banks. The row redundancy system includes a remote fuse bay storing at least one faulty address corresponding to a faulty wordline of the memory array . . . .&nbsp;&nbsp;Another available data base for the engineering-attorney crowd is the subject of &nbsp;<strong><a href="http://www.securinginnovation.com/2008/07/articles/defensive-publishing/ibm-technical-disclosures-prior-art-database/">Securing Innovations</a></strong> post&nbsp;<a href="http://www.securinginnovation.com/2008/07/articles/defensive-publishing/ibm-technical-disclosures-prior-art-database/"><strong>IBM Technical Disclosures' Prior Art Data Base</strong></a><strong>.&nbsp; </strong><a href="http://www.concurringopinions.com/"><strong>Concurring Opinions</strong></a>&nbsp;covers <a href="http://www.concurringopinions.com/archives/2008/08/props_to_prawfs.html"><strong>IP in the News this week</strong></a>,&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://271patent.blogspot.com/2008/07/patentees-litigation-deemed-collosal.html">Peter Zura's 271 Patent Blog</a></strong> considers a patent that was&nbsp;a &quot;<strong><a href="http://271patent.blogspot.com/2008/07/patentees-litigation-deemed-collosal.html">Colossal Waste of Time</a></strong>&quot; and&nbsp; <a href="http://ipkitten.blogspot.com/"><strong>IP Kat</strong></a> curls up with&nbsp;<a href="http://ipkitten.blogspot.com/2008/08/small-and-sole.html"><strong>Small and Sole</strong></a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Next week, the </strong><a href="http://blawgreview.blogspot.com/"><strong>Blawg Review</strong></a><strong> will be hosted by the </strong><a href="http://ohioemploymentlaw.blogspot.com/"><strong>Ohio Employer's Law Blog</strong></a><strong> which we expect will be far more respectful of BR's readers' political, religious and sexual sensitivities than this one was.&nbsp;&nbsp;Thanks for letting us play.&nbsp; And a very, very, very good night!</strong></p>]]></description>
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<p>(art by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_Grooms">Red Grooms</a>)</p>
<p>As I've often said before, law is the default profession for liberal arts majors.&nbsp; And make no mistake, many of us continue to dance, sing, play musical instruments, act, paint, sculpt, and even <em>write poetry.</em> (See <a href="http://myweb.wvnet.edu/~jelkins/lp-2001/intro/contemp_pt2.html">Strangers to Us All - Lawyers and Poetry</a>)<em> </em></p>
<p>We have five lawyer writers&nbsp;in the <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com">summer 2008&nbsp;issue of the r.kv.r.y. quarterly literary journal here</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/JoeMockusPoetry.html">Joe Mockus</a>, San Francisco criminal defense attorney,&nbsp;an old college buddy and <em>the </em>man who taught me how to read poetry, <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/JoeMockusPoetrySummer08RKVRY.html">has contributed&nbsp;poetry once again</a>, for which we thank him mightily.&nbsp;&nbsp;Even more gratitude flows north from Los Angeles&nbsp;now that he has agreed to <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/BoardContrib.html">co-edit the poetry&nbsp;section of the journal with Joel Deutsch</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.telegrambooks.com/archives/one_hundred_siberian_postcards/one_hundred_siberian_postcards_about_the_author/">Local litigator and writer Rick Wirick</a> contributes another <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/WirickReviewJamesTate.html">book review -- of James Tate's new collection</a> -- even though I continue to urge him to send me poetry!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thecompletelawyer.com/volume4/issue4/article.php?ppaid=9486">Rick Hoel,</a> a fellow writer for <a href="http://www.thecompletelawyer.com/">The Complete Lawyer</a> gives us a short story <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/RideHome.html">A Ride Home</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.besttaxadvocate.com/">Irvine tax&nbsp;attorney Scott Kauffman</a>, gives us Part One of his Novella <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/DebbiesRanch.html">Debbie's Ranch</a>.</p>
<p>And, yes, I am too lazy to submit my poetry anywhere else but my own journal.&nbsp; <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/vpynchonpoetry.html">Here</a>.</p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[According to writer and surgeon <a href="http://www.gawande.com/">Atul Gawande</a>'s recent article <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/06/30/080630fa_fact_gawande?currentPage=all">The Itch</a>, the way the pepper tree in my back yard appears from my bedroom window may be as much as ninety percent memory and only ten percent&nbsp;&quot;data.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp; As Gawande writes:&nbsp; <blockquote>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>Given simply the transmissions along the optic nerve from the light entering the eye one would not be able to reconstruct the three-dimensionality, or the distance, or the detail of the bark -- attributes that we perceive instantly.</em>&nbsp; <br />
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<p dir="ltr">In other words, <em>perception</em> is not merely <em>reception</em>.&nbsp; &quot;Objective reality&quot; is just the brain's &quot;best guess&quot; about what the eyes observe, the ears hear and the fingers touch.<strong><em> <img height="306" alt="" hspace="5" width="425" align="textTop" vspace="5" border="5" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/hershman_phantom_limb_oct_0.jpg" /></em></strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">(image:&nbsp; <a href="http://mocoloco.com/art/archives/001569.php">Phantom Limb #2</a> by <a href="http://www.kochgallery.com/artists/contemporary/Hershman/">Lynn Hershman</a>)&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">&quot;The images in our mind,&quot; Gawande explains, &quot;are extraordinarily rich.<em>&quot;</em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em><em>We can tell if something is liquid or solid, heavy or light, dead or alive. But the information we work from is poor -- a distorted, two-dimensional transmission with entire spots missing. So the mind fills in most of the picture. You can get a sense of this from brain-anatomy studies. If visual sensations were primarily received rather than constructed by the brain, you'd expect that most of the fibres going to the brain's primary visual cortex would come from the retina. Instead, scientists have found that only twenty per cent do; eighty per cent come downward from regions of the brain governing functions like memory. Richard Gregory, a prominent British neuropsychologist, estimates that visual perception is more than ninety per cent memory and less than ten per cent sensory nerve signals.</em><br />
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<p dir="ltr">Gawande doesn't explain how&nbsp;we&nbsp;manage to agree on <em>anything </em>with&nbsp;such&nbsp;impoverished perceptual&nbsp;abilities and richly imagined constructs of &quot;objective reality.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp; I suspect&nbsp;that our&nbsp;insatiable urge to tell one another stories is the primary way we&nbsp;create&nbsp;the collective memories that allow us&nbsp;to agree upon such simple &quot;facts&quot; as &quot;the apple is red and somewhat round,&quot; if not necessarily that &quot;the blue Kia entered the intersection after the traffic light turned red.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>What strikes me about Gawande's article is not so much the pure science described there, but the way in which opposing parties in litigation resemble &quot;phantom limbs&quot; and joint sessions the mirrors used by physicians to treat the pain &quot;felt&quot; in them.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
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<p>Recent research demonstrates that amputees' phantom limb pain can be reduced or eliminated by &quot;fooling&quot; the brain into believing that the missing limb is &quot;well.&quot;&nbsp; When researchers asked amputees to put their surviving arm through a hole in the side of a box with a mirror inside and to then move &quot;both&quot; arms,&nbsp; <br />
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<p><em><em>[t]he patients had the sense that they had two arms again. Even though they knew it was an illusion, it provided immediate relief. People who for years had been unable to unclench their phantom fist suddenly felt their hand open; phantom arms in painfully contorted positions could relax. With daily use of the mirror box over weeks, patients sensed their phantom limbs actually shrink into their stumps and, in several instances, completely vanish. . . . <br />
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<p><em><em>. . . here&rsquo;s what the new theory suggests is going on: when your arm is amputated, nerve transmissions are shut off, and the brain&rsquo;s best guess often seems to be that the arm is still there, but paralyzed, or clenched, or beginning to cramp up. Things can stay like this for years. The mirror box, however, provides the brain with new visual input&mdash;however illusory&mdash;suggesting motion in the absent arm. The brain has to incorporate the new information into its sensory map of what&rsquo;s happening. Therefore, it guesses again, and the pain goes away. </em>&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><strong>Litigation separates the parties from one another as radically as an amputation, often under circumstances where the law suit is all they have in common</strong>.&nbsp; Like amputees, the parties cannot massage the missing muscle, scratch the irritating itch, or ease the frustrating pain.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
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<p dir="ltr">When physicians give their patients mirrors and instruct them to move their one remaining arm in concert with its physically re-imagined partner, they conduct a silent concert of healing.&nbsp; With &quot;new&quot; information (hey! there's my other arm and it's not all cramped up!)&nbsp;the brain readjusts and stops sending false signals.&nbsp; The muscle relaxes.&nbsp; The itch is scratched.&nbsp; The pain is relieved.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p dir="ltr">Joint sessions can be used as mirrors to make missing disputants appear again./*&nbsp; The mediator -- who is trained in this art -- creates an environment (the &quot;box&quot;) in which the parties are able to adjust the mis-impressions and correct the mis-communications that make the conflict so difficult to resolve. After a brief period of discomfort and incoordination, the disputants begin to tell their stories of injustice in concert, spontaneously harmonizing the points on which there is little disagreement and resolving those parts of the tale where the greatest differences lie.&nbsp; <br />
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<p dir="ltr">Those parts of the story that have grown wildly distorted in the absence of any corrective influence, are shrunk back to their appropriate size.&nbsp; Freed from the tyranny of their phantom &quot;others,&quot;&nbsp; the parties begin to work collaboratively to solve the problem that they now understand is mutual.&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
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<p dir="ltr">Though this is surely metaphor, the process is not just theory.&nbsp; When parties consent to a joint session orchestrated by the mediator in collaboration with their attorneys, this type of reconciliation happens more often than not.&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
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<p dir="ltr">Don't, however, confuse this joint session with those in which attorneys&nbsp; give one another presentations proving their entitlement to victory as if there were a phantom&nbsp;&quot;decider&quot;&nbsp; -- a missing&nbsp;arbitrator or judge -- somewhere behind a curtain.&nbsp; These are the type of &quot;joint sessions&quot; that have given joint sessions a bad name because counsel well know their opponents' &quot;positions&quot;and the parties tend to become <em>less </em>rather than <em>more </em>amenable to settlement when their opponents' point of view is once again argued to them -- this time in quarters that are far too close for most <em>lawyers, </em>let alone their clients.&nbsp; </p>
<p dir="ltr">We'll keep exploring this issue.&nbsp; For now, more of the Gawande article below.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em><em>A new scientific understanding of perception has emerged in the past few decades, and it has overturned classical, centuries-long beliefs about how our brains work&mdash;though it has apparently not penetrated the medical world yet. The old understanding of perception is what neuroscientists call &ldquo;the na&iuml;ve view,&rdquo; and it is the view that most people, in or out of medicine, still have. We&rsquo;re inclined to think that people normally perceive things in the world directly. We believe that the hardness of a rock, the coldness of an ice cube, the itchiness of a sweater are picked up by our nerve endings, transmitted through the spinal cord like a message through a wire, and decoded by the brain. . . . <br />
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[There are] some serious flaws in the direct-perception theory&mdash;in the notion that when we see, hear, or feel we are just taking in the sights, sounds, and textures of the world. For one thing, it cannot explain how we experience things that seem physically real but aren&rsquo;t: sensations of itching that arise from nothing more than itchy thoughts; dreams that can seem indistinguishable from reality; phantom sensations that amputees have in their missing limbs. And, the more we examine the actual nerve transmissions we receive from the world outside, the more inadequate they seem. <br />
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Our assumption had been that the sensory data we receive from our eyes, ears, nose, fingers, and so on contain all the information that we need for perception, and that perception must work something like a radio. It&rsquo;s hard to conceive that a Boston Symphony Orchestra concert is in a radio wave. But it is. So you might think that it&rsquo;s the same with the signals we receive&mdash;that if you hooked up someone&rsquo;s nerves to a monitor you could watch what the person is experiencing as if it were a television show. <br />
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Yet, as scientists set about analyzing the signals, they found them to be radically impoverished&nbsp; . . . </em></em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">*/&nbsp;&nbsp; I don't know if any of this relates to mirror neurons, but I am certainly led to think about them.&nbsp; See <a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/brains_on_purpose/2008/06/mirror-neurons-some-resources.html">Stephanie West Allen's post Mirror Neurons, Some Resources here</a>.&nbsp; Whenever I see the word &quot;mirror&quot; I'm also always moved to think of my friend, the <a href="http://www.mediate.com/people/personprofile.cfm?auid=897">artist and mediator&nbsp;Dorit Cypis</a>.&nbsp; For more on her work, <a href="http://www.doritcypis.com/">click here</a>.</p>]]></description>
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         <title>Lawyers Do It:  Negotiate Collaboration</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p dir="ltr">Check out <a href="http://www.abanet.org/media/youraba/200806/article05.html">When Collaborative Law Makes Sense</a> in the most recent issue of the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.abanet.org/media/youraba/200806/">American Bar Association Journal</a>.&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em>Collaboration may be most amenable in areas where there is a need for ongoing relationships, like dissolving marriages that produced children, said Pauline Noe of Cambridge, a past president of the Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council. Noe suggested that discovery is often more fruitful in collaborations than in litigation, since collaboration requires full, prompt, honest and open disclosure of all relevant information, and vigorous good faith negotiation with full participation of all parties in an open forum.</em> </p>
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<p dir="ltr">Taking the <em>long </em>view as I'm now prone to do (by virtue of age and the fact that I generally only see litigation's end game)&nbsp;I continue to say that <em>we're all involved in on-going relationships -- not just those people whose disputes are more personal than commercial.</em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">As <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Joseph-Campbell-Power-Myth-III/dp/B00005MEVQ">Joseph Campbell</a>, the great student of world mythology taught us:</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>Schopenhauer, in his splendid essay called &quot;On an Apparent Intention in the Fate of the Individual,&quot; points out that when you reach an advanced age and look back over your lifetime, it can seem to have had a consistent order and plan, as though composed by some novelist. Events that when they occurred had seemed accidental and of little moment turn out to have been indispensable factors in the composition of a consistent plot. So who composed that plot? Schopenhauer suggests that just as your dreams are composed by an aspect of yourself of which your consciousness is unaware, so, too, your whole life is composed by the will within you. And just as people whom you will have met apparently by mere chance became leading agents in the structuring of your life, so, too, will you have served unknowingly as an agent, giving meaning to the lives of others, The whole thing gears together like one big symphony, with everything unconsciously structuring everything else. And Schopenhauer concludes that it is as though our lives were the features of the one great dream of a single dreamer in which all the dream characters dream, too; so that everything links to everything else, moved by the one will to life which is the universal will in nature. <br />
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It&rsquo;s a magnificent idea &ndash; an idea that appears in India in the mythic image of the Net of Indra, which is a net of gems, where at every crossing of one thread over another there is a gem reflecting all the other reflective gems. Everything arises in mutual relation to everything else, so you can&rsquo;t blame anybody for anything. It is even as though there were a single intention behind it all, which always makes some kind of sense, though none of us knows what the sense might be, or has lived the life that he quite intended. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>A classic&nbsp;example of <strong>combative litigation -- YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS OF ME!</strong></em></p>
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<p><strong>Dust Bowl Refugee, High School Drop Out, Western Union Messenger Boy, Merchant Marine, Salesman, Lawyer, Judge, Husband, &quot;Daddy&quot; Step-Father, Grand-Father, Brother, Uncle, Cousin, Mountain Climber, Sailor, River Rafter,&nbsp;Story-Teller, Proud Capitalist, World-Class Worrier &nbsp;and Sometime&nbsp;Liberal Democrat&nbsp;(when married to one)&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>The Truth of Departure</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -- W.S. Merwin</p>
<p>With each journey it gets <br />
worse <br />
what kind of learning is that <br />
when that is what we are born for <br />
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and harder and harder to find <br />
what is hanging on <br />
to what <br />
all day it has been raining <br />
and I have been writing letters <br />
the pearl curtains <br />
stroking the headlands <br />
under immense dark clouds <br />
the valley sighing with rain <br />
everyone home and quiet <br />
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what will become of all these <br />
things that I see <br />
that are here and are me <br />
and I am none of them <br />
what will become <br />
of the bench and the teapot <br />
the pencils and the kerosene lamps <br />
all the books all the writing <br />
the green of the leaves <br />
what becomes of the house <br />
and the island <br />
and the sound of your footstep <br />
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who knows it is here <br />
who says it will stay <br />
who says I will know it <br />
who said it would be all right</p>
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<p><strong>This is the force of faith. Nobody gets <br />
what they want. Never again are you the same. The longing <br />
is to be pure. What you get is to be changed. More and more by <br />
each glistening minute. . . .&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </strong></p>
<p><strong>from <a href="http://poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16375">Prayer</a> by Jorie Graham</strong></p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>If you are of a certain age, you will vividly recall where you were forty years ago when you learned that the unthinkable had happend -- <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_F._Kennedy_assassination"><em>another </em>Kennedy brother had been shot.</a></p>
<p>I was fifteen years old.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The insistent ring of the telephone broke into my sleep in the early morning hours of June 6, 1968.&nbsp; It was my&nbsp;friend&nbsp;the [now] <a href="http://www.cathyscott.com/">author and journalist Cathy Scott</a> saying, &quot;Kennedy's been shot.&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;No he hasn't,&quot; I&nbsp;groggily responded.&nbsp; &quot;That was <em>years </em>ago.&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;No, no,&quot; she insisted.&nbsp; &quot;That was John Kennedy.&nbsp; This is Bobby.&nbsp; Bobby's been shot.&quot;</p>
<p>Yesterday, the dreadful anniversary of Bobby Kennedy's death, I channel-surfed my way to the movie <a href="http://www.bobby-the-movie.com/">Bobby</a>, depicting the world I was growing up in and in <em>to.&nbsp;&nbsp;</em>I had only recently turned my political opinions away from my parents' -- opposing&nbsp;instead of supporting -- the Viet Nam War.&nbsp; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.eugenemccarthy.org/content/">McCarthy</a> was my guy.&nbsp; </p>
<p>I thought Bobby was late to the <a href="http://www.english.uiuc.edu/maps/vietnam/antiwar.html">anti-war party</a>.&nbsp; </p>
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<p>But what did I know?&nbsp; I was&nbsp;passing notes to my friends in second year French class about boys and assassinations (Martin Luther King, Jr.'s).&nbsp; Bhuddist monks were setting themselves aflame in public places. Race riots had only recently consumed the nation.&nbsp; My friends and I&nbsp;were negotiating adolescence during the time when those things that were&nbsp;changing (&quot;the times&quot;)&nbsp;continue to consume our nation's attention today -- the conflicting values of the&nbsp;&quot;culture wars.&quot;&nbsp;</p>
<p>The&nbsp;producers, director, writer and other creative&nbsp;forces&nbsp;behind &quot;Bobby&quot; chose to end their movie with the following speech&nbsp;-- On the Mindless Menace of Violence.&nbsp; Hearing it play out over images of Kennedy's last moments on the floor of the kitchen in the old Los Angeles Ambassador Hotel, it was as if the forty years between the night I groggily rose from my bed to&nbsp;watch&nbsp;another Kennedy brother's last moments&nbsp;and yesterday when&nbsp;I heard these words again&nbsp;as if for the first time had collapsed.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Bobby speaks here&nbsp;as plainly as he&nbsp;spoke to&nbsp;the nation then.&nbsp; Are we&nbsp;still not&nbsp;listening?</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.rfkmemorial.org/lifevision/onthemindlessmenaceofviolence/">On the Mindless Menace of Violence</a> <br />
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<p><em>City Club of Cleveland, Cleveland, Ohio <br />
April 5, 1968 <br />
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This is a time of shame and sorrow. It is not a day for politics. I have saved this one opportunity, my only event of today, to speak briefly to you about the mindless menace of violence in America which again stains our land and every one of our lives. <br />
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It is not the concern of any one race. The victims of the violence are black and white, rich and poor, young and old, famous and unknown. They are, most important of all, human beings whom other human beings loved and needed. No one - no matter where he lives or what he does - can be certain who will suffer from some senseless act of bloodshed. And yet it goes on and on and on in this country of ours. <br />
<br />
Why? What has violence ever accomplished? What has it ever created? No martyr's cause has ever been stilled by an assassin's bullet. <br />
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No wrongs have ever been righted by riots and civil disorders. A sniper is only a coward, not a hero; and an uncontrolled, uncontrollable mob is only the voice of madness, not the voice of reason. <br />
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Whenever any American's life is taken by another American unnecessarily - whether it is done in the name of the law or in the defiance of the law, by one man or a gang, in cold blood or in passion, in an attack of violence or in response to violence - whenever we tear at the fabric of the life which another man has painfully and clumsily woven for himself and his children, the whole nation is degraded. <br />
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&quot;Among free men,&quot; said Abraham Lincoln, &quot;there can be no successful appeal from the ballot to the bullet; and those who take such appeal are sure to lose their cause and pay the costs.&quot; <br />
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Yet we seemingly tolerate a rising level of violence that ignores our common humanity and our claims to civilization alike. We calmly accept newspaper reports of civilian slaughter in far-off lands. We glorify killing on movie and television screens and call it entertainment. We make it easy for men of all shades of sanity to acquire whatever weapons and ammunition they desire. <br />
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Too often we honor swagger and bluster and wielders of force; too often we excuse those who are willing to build their own lives on the shattered dreams of others. Some Americans who preach non-violence abroad fail to practice it here at home. Some who accuse others of inciting riots have by their own conduct invited them. <br />
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Some look for scapegoats, others look for conspiracies, but this much is clear: violence breeds violence, repression brings retaliation, and only a cleansing of our whole society can remove this sickness from our soul. <br />
<br />
For there is another kind of violence, slower but just as deadly destructive as the shot or the bomb in the night. This is the violence of institutions; indifference and inaction and slow decay. This is the violence that afflicts the poor, that poisons relations between men because their skin has different colors. This is the slow destruction of a child by hunger, and schools without books and homes without heat in the winter. <br />
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This is the breaking of a man's spirit by denying him the chance to stand as a father and as a man among other men. And this too afflicts us all. <br />
<br />
I have not come here to propose a set of specific remedies nor is there a single set. For a broad and adequate outline we know what must be done. When you teach a man to hate and fear his brother, when you teach that he is a lesser man because of his color or his beliefs or the policies he pursues, when you teach that those who differ from you threaten your freedom or your job or your family, then you also learn to confront others not as fellow citizens but as enemies, to be met not with cooperation but with conquest; to be subjugated and mastered. <br />
<br />
We learn, at the last, to look at our brothers as aliens, men with whom we share a city, but not a community; men bound to us in common dwelling, but not in common effort. We learn to share only a common fear, only a common desire to retreat from each other, only a common impulse to meet disagreement with force. For all this, there are no final answers. <br />
<br />
Yet we know what we must do. It is to achieve true justice among our fellow citizens. The question is not what programs we should seek to enact. The question is whether we can find in our own midst and in our own hearts that leadership of humane purpose that will recognize the terrible truths of our existence. <br />
<br />
We must admit the vanity of our false distinctions among men and learn to find our own advancement in the search for the advancement of others. We must admit in ourselves that our own children's future cannot be built on the misfortunes of others. We must recognize that this short life can neither be ennobled or enriched by hatred or revenge. <br />
<br />
Our lives on this planet are too short and the work to be done too great to let this spirit flourish any longer in our land. Of course we cannot vanquish it with a program, nor with a resolution. <br />
<br />
But we can perhaps remember, if only for a time, that those who live with us are our brothers, that they share with us the same short moment of life; that they seek, as do we, nothing but the chance to live out their lives in purpose and in happiness, winning what satisfaction and fulfillment they can. <br />
<br />
Surely, this bond of common faith, this bond of common goal, can begin to teach us something. Surely, we can learn, at least, to look at those around us as fellow men, and surely we can begin to work a little harder to bind up the wounds among us and to become in our own hearts brothers and countrymen once again. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">Kennedy recited these lines by Aeschylus on announcing the death of Martin Luther King, Jr. <br />
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<strong>&quot;He who learns must suffer. Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, and against our will, comes wisdom by the awful grace of God.&quot; </strong><em></em></p>
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<p><strong>Must read:&nbsp; </strong><a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/opinion/editorialsandoped/oped/columnists/bobherbert/index.html?inline=nyt-per"><strong>NYT Columnist Bob Herbert's</strong></a><strong> </strong><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/07/opinion/07herbert.html?_r=1&amp;ref=opinion&amp;oref=slogin"><strong>Savor the Moment</strong></a><strong>, brief excerpt below:</strong></p>
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<p><em>Racism and sexism have not taken their leave. But the fact that Barack Obama is the presumptive nominee of the Democratic Party, and that the two finalists for that prize were a black man and a white woman, are historical events of the highest importance. We should not allow ourselves to overlook the wonder of this moment.</em> </p>
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<p><strong>Blog entries of note on&nbsp;the RFK assassination and, more particularly, on the hope and action&nbsp; &quot;Bobby&quot; inspired below:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://thedemocraticdaily.com/2008/06/06/robert-f-kennedy-what-if-he-had-lived-a-golden-age-that-never-was/">Robert F. Kennedy:&nbsp; What if He Had Lived, A Golden Age that Never Was</a> by Blake Fleetwood in The <a href="http://thedemocraticdaily.com/">Democratic Daily</a></p>
<p>A note on the <a href="http://chuckcurrie.blogs.com/chuck_currie/2008/06/robert-f-kenned.html">Robert F. Kennedy Memorial</a> from UCC&nbsp;<a href="http://chuckcurrie.blogs.com/chuck_currie/">Rev. Chuck Currie's Blog</a></p>
<p><a href="http://rfkin2008.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/ny-state-renames-triborough-bridge-for-rfk/">NEW YORK STATE ASSEMBLY RENAMES TRIBOROUGH BRIDGE THE ROBERT F. KENNEDY BRIDGE</a> from the <a href="http://rfkin2008.wordpress.com/">Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. for President Blog</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://commentsfromleftfield.com/2008/06/robert-f-kennedy-died-40-years-ago-today">A personal remembrance and link to another</a> from <a href="http://commentsfromleftfield.com/">Comments from Left Field</a></p>
<p><a href="http://web.mac.com/cordpar/Client_Development_Tips/Blog/Entries/2008/6/5_Finding_Inspiration_in_Your_Future.html">An RFK-Inspired Thought for the Day</a> from the <a href="http://web.mac.com/cordpar/Client_Development_Tips/Blog/">Law Consulting Blog</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rainbowblawg.com/2008/04/tiny-ripple-of-hope.html">A Tiny Ripple of Hope</a> from the <a href="http://www.rainbowblawg.com/2008/04/tiny-ripple-of-hope.html">Rainbow Law Blog</a></p>
<p>And <a href="http://www.dianaswednesday.com/2008/06/rfk-bobby-kennedy/">this terrific compilation</a> from <a href="http://www.dianaswednesday.com/">Wednesday Night</a></p>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dulce Et Docorum Est</strong></p>
<p>Bent double, like old beggars under sacks, <br />
Knock-kneed, coughing like hags, we cursed through sludge, <br />
Till on the haunting flares we turned our backs <br />
And towards our distant rest began to trudge. <br />
Men marched asleep. Many had lost their boots <br />
But limped on, blood-shod. All went lame; all blind; <br />
Drunk with fatigue; deaf even to the hoots <br />
Of disappointed shells that dropped behind. <br />
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GAS! Gas! Quick, boys!-- An ecstasy of fumbling, <br />
Fitting the clumsy helmets just in time; <br />
But someone still was yelling out and stumbling <br />
And floundering like a man in fire or lime.-- <br />
Dim, through the misty panes and thick green light <br />
As under a green sea, I saw him drowning. <br />
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In all my dreams, before my helpless sight, <br />
He plunges at me, guttering, choking, drowning. <br />
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If in some smothering dreams you too could pace <br />
Behind the wagon that we flung him in, <br />
And watch the white eyes writhing in his face, <br />
His hanging face, like a devil's sick of sin; <br />
If you could hear, at every jolt, the blood <br />
Come gargling from the froth-corrupted lungs, <br />
Obscene as cancer, bitter as the cud <br />
Of vile, incurable sores on innocent tongues,-- <br />
My friend, you would not tell with such high zest <br />
To children ardent for some desperate glory, <br />
The old Lie: Dulce et decorum est <br />
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to <a href="http://westallen.typepad.com/idealawg/2008/04/famous-trials-w.html"><strong>Stephanie West Allen at idealawg</strong></a> (channeled to me this morning via the <a href="http://bfn.forbes.com/"><strong>Forbes Business and Financial Blog Network</strong></a>) for <a href="http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/ftrials.htm"><strong>the Famous Trials Website</strong></a> from <a href="http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/moussaoui/moussaouihome.html"><strong>Socrates</strong></a> to <a href="http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/moussaoui/moussaouihome.html"><strong>Moussaoui</strong></a>&nbsp;(and yes of course <a href="http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/Simpson/Simpsonaccount.htm"><strong>O.J.'s there</strong></a>)<strong>.</strong>&nbsp; </p>
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<p>(above, the<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacques_Louis_David">Death of Socrates by Jacques-Louis David</a>)</p>
<p><strong>Here's Stephanie's announcement:</strong></p>
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<p><em>Professor <a href="http://www.law.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/linder.htm"><strong>Douglas O. Linder of University of Missouri - Kansas City School of Law</strong></a> has created a Web site Famous Trials which presents one intriguing story after another. From Professor Linder's faculty page: </em></p>
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<p><em>The Famous Trials website, the Web's largest and most visited collection of original essays, images, and primary documents pertaining to great trials, has been an ongoing project of Professor Linder's since 1996. Professor Linder has contributed book chapters, participated in video projects, and presented public speeches on the subject of historic trials. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><a href="http://www.beyondintractability.org/essay/batna/"><strong>BATNA for the uninitiated simply means a Better (or the Best) Alternative to a Negotiated Resolution</strong></a>, which is what trial is when your opponent can't&nbsp;negotiate a&nbsp;settlement within the range of reason<em>.</em></p>
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<p>I talk a lot in this blog about community; about the need for all of us to understand that when you drill a hole in the other guy's side of the boat, you sink too.&nbsp; There's something about disaster on a grand scale that brings the best out in us -- creates heroes.&nbsp; And maybe, if you're inclined to ask why &quot;bad things happen to good people&quot; the answer is that we need to be reminded of our common humanity; common fragility; and, our common obligation to serve as stewards of the planet and all life on it.</p>
<p>So it is with more than a small amount of pleasure that I announce the book launch for my good friend Cathy Scott's&nbsp;memoir of the heroic pet rescues that took place in the wake of Katrina.</p>
<p>Cathy was one of the &quot;kids&quot; in my&nbsp;neighborhood&nbsp;fom the time I was five years old until we all left the old neighborhood for our adult lives.&nbsp; She was also a member of the first writers' group I was ever part of -- <strong>Sisters of the Pen</strong> -- a neighborhood &quot;club&quot; we started when I was in the sixth grade and Cathy just entering high school.</p>
<p>Only Cathy has truly fulfilled the dreams of that small group of children and teenagers.&nbsp; This is her sixth or seventh book and the one that I just know is going to sell a million or more copies for her.</p>
<p>Nostalgia aside, here is the information on the book launch!&nbsp; (for the <strong><a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/rkvryspring06cover.html">r.kv.r.y. literary journal's special issue on natural disasters, click here</a></strong>).&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>A book launch event will be held on Saturday, July 26, marking the national release of </em><a href="http://www.cathyscott.com/about.htm"><strong><em>author Cathy Scott's</em></strong></a><em>&nbsp; book, <strong><a href="http://www.wiley.com/WileyCDA/WileyTitle/productCd-0470228512.html">PAWPRINTS OF KATRINA: Pets Saved and Lessons Learned</a></strong> (to be released this summer by John Wiley &amp; Sons). </em></p>
<p><em>The event will be held from <strong>1:45 p.m. - 5 p.m. at <a href="http://network.bestfriends.org/">Best Friends</a> <a href="http://www.bestfriends.org/atthesanctuary/angelcanyon/visitorfaq.cfm">Animal Sanctuary's Welcome Center</a> (5001 Angel Canyon Road, Kanab, Utah 84741, a 3-1/2-hour drive from Las Vegas).</strong> Refreshments will be served. <br />
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Attending and signing books will be <strong><a href="http://www.helpinganimals.com/f-aliMacGraw.asp">actress and animal activist Ali MacGraw</a></strong>, who wrote the book's foreword, and <strong><a href="http://www.bestfriends.org/aboutus/staffdepartments/bioclaymyers.cfm">photographer Clay Myers</a></strong>, who has more than 70 compelling photos in the book. Also signing will be <strong><a href="http://www.policek9traininginstitute.com/instructors31.html">police K-9 handler Cliff Deutsch</a></strong>, who is featured on the cover rescuing a dog. </em></p>
<p><em><strong>On display at the Welcome Center patio deck during the event will be Ark</strong>, a full-sized replica of a flat-bottomed boat used to save animals from floodwaters. It was created by <strong><a href="http://www.cyrusmejia.com/">Cyrus Mejia, in-house artist and a co-founder of Best Friends</a></strong> . The 4-by-10-foot boat is covered in a unique collage of animal admissions forms (with rescued pets' pictures), photos from volunteers, satellite images of Katrina, maps of New Orleans and strips from pet product bags used during the rescue effort. <br />
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<strong><a href="http://network.bestfriends.org/hurricane/news/421.html">Volunteers from Katrina</a></strong> will be at the event, and many <strong><a href="http://www.bestfriends.org/aboutus/staffdepartments/bios.cfm">Best Friends staffers</a></strong> who worked in the region will be attending too, so it will very much be a reunion. While book signings are scheduled for other parts of the country (including New Orleans on the <strong><a href="http://risingfromruin.msnbc.com/about.html">third anniversary of Katrina</a></strong>), this is the kick-off event and a great opportunity to visit the sanctuary. <br />
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<strong>To find out where to stay in Kanab, go to: </strong></em><a href="http://www.bestfriends.org/atthesanctuary/angelcanyon/visitorfaq.cfm"><strong><em>http://www.bestfriends.org/atthesanctuary/angelcanyon/visitorfaq.cfm</em></strong></a><em><strong>.</strong> </em></p>
<p><em><strong>A new Holiday Inn Express has opened in Kanab</strong> (435-644-3100), so if the sanctuary cabins and cottages or other hotels are full, the new one will probably have openings. Summer is a busy time in the area, because of nearby Zion, Bryce and the Grand Canyon, and booking early is highly recommended. <br />
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<strong>If you'd like to take a free tour of the sanctuary</strong>, which sits on 33,000 acres in Angel Canyon with about 1,800 animals on any given day, you'll need to book a reservation by calling 435-644-2001, ext. 4537. Or, for more info, go to: </em><a href="http://www.bestfriends.org/atthesanctuary/angelcanyon/visitorfaq.cfm"><em>http://www.bestfriends.org/atthesanctuary/angelcanyon/visitorfaq.cfm</em></a><em> <br />
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<strong>To learn more about Pawprints of Katrina, go to:</strong> </em><a href="http://www.wiley.com/WileyCDA/WileyTitle/productCd-0470228512.html"><em>http://www.wiley.com/WileyCDA/WileyTitle/productCd-0470228512.html</em></a><em> </em></p>
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<p><em>Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now</em>. -- <strong>Goethe </strong></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><strong>Some Days</strong> <br />
by Billy Collins <br />
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Some days I put the people in their places at the table, <br />
bend their legs at the knees, <br />
if they come with that feature, <br />
and fix them into the tiny wooden chairs. <br />
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All afternoon they face one another, <br />
the man in the brown suit, <br />
the woman in the blue dress, <br />
perfectly motionless, perfectly behaved. <br />
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But other days, I am the one <br />
who is lifted up by the ribs, <br />
then lowered into the dining room of a dollhouse <br />
to sit with the others at the long table. <br />
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Very funny, <br />
but how would you like it <br />
if you never knew from one day to the next <br />
if you were going to spend it <br />
<br />
striding around like a vivid god, <br />
your shoulders in the clouds, <br />
or sitting down there amidst the wallpaper, <br />
staring straight ahead with your little plastic face? <br />
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<em>&quot;Some Days&quot; from Picnic, Lightning, by Billy Collins, &copy; 1998. All rights are controlled by the University of Pittsburgh Press, Pittsburgh, PA 15260. Used by permission of the University of Pittsburgh Press.</em> </p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>And for the over 50 crowd -- Forgetfulness -- by Billy Collins</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p>The name of the author is the first to go <br />
followed obediently by the title, the plot, <br />
the heartbreaking conclusion, the entire novel <br />
which suddenly becomes one you have never read, <br />
never even heard of, <br />
<br />
as if, one by one, the memories you used to harbor <br />
decided to retire to the southern hemisphere of the brain, <br />
to a little fishing village where there are no phones. <br />
<br />
Long ago you kissed the names of the nine Muses goodbye <br />
and watched the quadratic equation pack its bag, <br />
and even now as you memorize the order of the planets, <br />
<br />
something else is slipping away, a state flower perhaps, <br />
the address of an uncle, the capital of Paraguay. <br />
<br />
Whatever it is you are struggling to remember <br />
it is not poised on the tip of your tongue, <br />
not even lurking in some obscure corner of your spleen. <br />
<br />
It has floated away down a dark mythological river <br />
whose name begins with an L as far as you can recall, <br />
well on your own way to oblivion where you will join those <br />
who have even forgotten how to swim and how to ride a bicycle. <br />
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No wonder you rise in the middle of the night <br />
to look up the date of a famous battle in a book on war. <br />
No wonder the moon in the window seems to have drifted <br />
out of a love poem that you used to know by heart. </p>]]></description>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>. . . y<img height="346" alt="" hspace="5" width="240" align="right" vspace="5" border="5" src="http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/thailanterns.jpg" />ou tend to escape gravity&nbsp;in a fury of creative activity.</p>
<p>Like this!&nbsp; The Spring issue of the <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/">r.kv.r.y. quarterly literary journal</a>, which has just been published and is quickly approaching&nbsp;it's fourth anniversary.&nbsp; (see also <a href="http://rkvry.blogspot.com/">r.kv.r.y.'s blog&nbsp;here</a>!)</p>
<p>If you, like me, chose law as the default profession of the&nbsp;liberal arts major (Literature here, natch) <a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/">check out our latest issue</a>, which is full of great stuff -- more than a little of which has been written by lawyers.</p>
<p>Don't get me wrong -- I LOVED legal practice and am even more passionate about mediating the resolution of the type of case I litigated for 25 years --&nbsp;complex&nbsp;commercial litigation.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>NEGOTIATING the resolution of these cases</strong>&nbsp;is really just the final <em>part </em>of my legal career -- a turn in the road that I'm&nbsp;more than pleased to have followed, particularly as our national recession deepens.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Why?&nbsp; Because&nbsp;negotiated resolutions don't depend upon court calendars, cranky and often unpredicatable Judges (my friends on the Bench excluded) or someone else's idea (12 people good and true; three arbitrators; one Judge, etc.)&nbsp;of what the most beneficial and <em>fair</em> solution to a business problem might be.</p>
<p>It's all of a piece, you see, because <em>story </em>-- as in those written by <em><a href="http://www.ninetymeetingsinninetydays.com/">r.kv.r.y.'s</a> </em>contributors -- is more important to the mediated settlement of a dispute than a litigated resolution.&nbsp; In mediation, we dress the&nbsp;&quot;legal case&quot;&nbsp;back up in all of its compelling though&nbsp;often messy particulars; we put&nbsp;the flesh and blood <em>people</em> back into the&nbsp;<em>business</em> problems that led them to lawyers in the first instance, permitting them&nbsp;do with their mutual conflict&nbsp;what they do best -- create a commercial&nbsp;solution to a business&nbsp;problem.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Story. Self-determination.&nbsp; <em>Justice.</em></p>]]></description>
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<p>Almost <em>all </em>legal writing is collaborative, so I feel this English professor's pain.&nbsp; I just didn't know we shared this experience.&nbsp; </p>
<p>From <a href="http://blogenabyme.wordpress.com/">Blog en Abyme</a>, <a href="http://blogenabyme.wordpress.com/2008/03/23/excuses-excuses-2/">excuses excuses</a> by <a href="http://strose.edu/Academic_Programs/School_of_Arts_and_Humanities/FacultyEnglish.asp">Kim Middleton</a>,&nbsp;Assistant Professor of English&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="http://strose.edu/Academic_Programs/School_of_Arts_and_Humanities/american_studies_ug.asp">Director of the American Studies Program</a> at <a href="http://strose.edu/">The College of Saint Rose</a>.</p>
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<p><em>What I&rsquo;ve discovered is that when you&rsquo;re writing with someone, you&rsquo;re negotiating and discussing all the time. Which secondary sources to use and why; how much space a particular piece of the argument should occupy; the particular ways that data should be interpreted; style; etc. And that&rsquo;s all the stuff that we actually articulate. I&rsquo;d venture that there is also always a secondary level of negotiation going on non-verbally: should I just take the lead on this part?; am I slowing us down?; is my expertise relevant here?. Essentially, there are all of the interpersonal elements to negotiate as well. Is it any wonder that it takes longer than writing an article alone? <br />
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Meanwhile, note to self: next time I assign a group project to students (I&rsquo;m looking at you, film class!), I need to give them ample time to work through not just content, but interpersonal stuff as well. It would probably also help if I could get them to move across the street from one another, and assign one person per group to be the baker who provides snacks for each meeting. And then someone to do the group&rsquo;s laundry and grocery shopping while they get their article written&mdash;I mean project done. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">And yes, Professor, it does take food, drink and clean laundry to accomplish anything worthwhile as a team!&nbsp; Thanks for the thoughts.&nbsp; Now get back to that article <em>right now!</em><br />
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<p dir="ltr">I don't know if today's post by <a href="http://www.law.olemiss.edu/faculty/secunda_paul.html">Paul Secunda</a> over at <a href="http://www.concurringopinions.com/">Concurring Opinions</a> was&nbsp;penned in recognition of Mediation Week, but it might as well have been.&nbsp; See&nbsp;<a href="http://www.concurringopinions.com/archives/2008/03/the_firstperson.html">The First-Person Narrative in Legal Scholarship here</a> -- excerpt below.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Allen Rostron[ and] Nancy [Levit's] . . . .&nbsp;series in the UMKC Law Review last year called <em>Law Stories: Tales from Legal Practice, Experience, and Education . . .</em> [was begun] to&nbsp;expand on the art of legal storytelling: </p>
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<p><em><strong>Over the last few decades, storytelling became a subject of enormous interest and controversy within the world of legal scholarship. . .&nbsp;Some . . . .&nbsp;told accounts of actual events in ways that gave voice to the experiences of outsiders. . . .&nbsp;[A]&nbsp; major textbook publisher developed a new series of books that recount the stories behind landmark cases . . .&nbsp;to help students appreciate not only the players in major cases, but also the social context in which cases arise. . .&nbsp; </strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>Legal theorists began to recognize what historians and practicing lawyers had long known and what cognitive psychologists were just discovering - the extraordinary power of stories. Stories are the way people, including judges and jurors, understand situations. People recall events in story form. Stories are educative; they illuminate different perspectives and evoke empathy. Stories create bonds; their evocative details engage people in ways that sterile legal arguments do not.</strong> </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>Because . . .&nbsp;I [too] believe that legal storytelling is not only educative, but also a way to illuminate different perspectives, I chose to contribute this year to the Second Law Stories Series [--]&nbsp;<a href="http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=1109099">Mediating the Special Education Front Lines in Mississippi</a>&nbsp;[which] comes directly from my first-hand experiences as a special education mediator in Mississippi.</em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">Professor Secunda concludes by asking whether story-telling should have a place in legal scholarship.&nbsp; And quite a propitious day he posed to ask the question.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong><a href="http://www.thestar.com/News/USElection/article/347506">Barack Obama and&nbsp;the Racial Divide</a> </strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">Obama's speech today -- triggered by but not solely given to address questions about&nbsp;inflammatory statements made by his pastor from the pulpit --&nbsp;was <em>grounded </em>in story.&nbsp; Why?&nbsp; Because only the&nbsp;texture, detail, ambiguity, contradiction, and paradox of actual &quot;lived experience&quot; at&nbsp;a particular time and in a specific&nbsp;place, is capable of <em>approaching&nbsp;</em>the &quot;truth&quot; of the human&nbsp; predicament.&nbsp;&nbsp;Where does story&nbsp;start?&nbsp; Classically, with&nbsp;one's&nbsp;his birth and&nbsp;lineage.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>I am the son of a black man from Kenya and a white woman from Kansas. I was raised with the help of a white grandfather who survived a Depression to serve in Patton&rsquo;s Army during World War II and a white grandmother who worked on a bomber assembly line at Fort Leavenworth while he was overseas. I&rsquo;ve gone to some of the best schools in America and lived in one of the world&rsquo;s poorest nations. I am married to a black American who carries within her the blood of slaves and slaveowners &ndash; an inheritance we pass on to our two precious daughters. I have brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, uncles and cousins, of every race and every hue, scattered across three continents, and for as long as I live, I will never forget that in no other country on Earth is my story even possible.&nbsp;<br />
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<p dir="ltr"><strong>Giving to Airy Nothings/A Local Habitation and a Name</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">By beginning with autobiography, by <em>taking the time to tell his wholly personal yet universal&nbsp;story, </em>Obama does what Shakespeare said all writers must do --&nbsp;&quot;give[] to airy nothings/a local habitation and a name.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;No single snapshot, no&nbsp;view from 30,000 feet, no&nbsp;abstract and colorless (or &quot;colored&quot;)&nbsp;<em>everyman</em>&nbsp;can do much more than to&nbsp;&quot;simplify and stereotype and amplify the negative to the point that it distorts reality.&quot; </p>
<p dir="ltr">We&nbsp;should long have known that only&nbsp;a bi-racial man might be permitted to take the&nbsp;national stage to address&nbsp;&quot;white&quot; demoralization with as much forcefulness as&nbsp;&quot;black&quot; misery; to describe&nbsp;&quot;black&quot; and &quot;white&quot; anger&nbsp;with equal understanding; to say that&nbsp;&quot;[m]ost working- and middle-class white Americans don't feel that they have been particularly privileged by their race.&quot;</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>Their experience is the immigrant experience &ndash; as far as they&rsquo;re concerned, no one&rsquo;s handed them anything, they&rsquo;ve built it from scratch. They&rsquo;ve worked hard all their lives, many times only to see their jobs shipped overseas or their pension dumped after a lifetime of labor. They are anxious about their futures, and feel their dreams slipping away; in an era of stagnant wages and global competition, opportunity comes to be seen as a zero sum game, in which your dreams come at my expense. So when they are told to bus their children to a school across town; when they hear that an African American is getting an advantage in landing a good job or a spot in a good college because of an injustice that they themselves never committed; when they&rsquo;re told that their fears about crime in urban neighborhoods are somehow prejudiced, resentment builds over time. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">To acknowledge that&nbsp; </p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>for the men and women of Reverend Wright&rsquo;s generation, the memories of humiliation and doubt and fear have not gone away; nor has the anger and the bitterness of those years. That anger may not get expressed in public, in front of white co-workers or white friends. But it does find voice in the barbershop or around the kitchen table. At times, that anger is exploited by politicia ns, to gin up votes along racial lines, or to make up for a politician&rsquo;s own failings. <br />
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And occasionally it finds voice in the church on Sunday morning, in the pulpit and in the pews. . . . .&nbsp;That anger is not always productive . . .&nbsp;But [it]&nbsp;is real; it is powerful; and to simply wish it away, to condemn it without understanding its roots, only serves to widen the chasm of misunderstanding that exists between the races. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><strong>So Where Do We Begin?</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">Story, for Obama, is not simply a way to approach the difficult truth.&nbsp; It is&nbsp;the instrument to cauterize our wounds; the weapon with which to resist the easy answer and the politically &quot;correct&quot; response.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>Just as black anger often proved counterproductive, so have . . .&nbsp;white resentments distracted attention from the real culprits of the middle class squeeze &ndash; . . . .&nbsp;And yet, to wish away the resentments of white Americans, to label them as misguided or even racist, without recognizing they are grounded in legitimate concerns &ndash; this too widens the racial divide, and blocks the path to understanding. <br />
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This is where we are right now. It&rsquo;s a racial stalemate we&rsquo;ve been stuck in for years. </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">So where <em>do</em> we begin?&nbsp; </p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong>With story.</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">&quot;There is a young, twenty-three year old white woman named Ashley Baia who organized for our campaign in Florence, South Carolina,&quot; Obama concludes. </p>
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<p dir="ltr"><em>She had been working to organize a mostly African-American community since the beginning of this campaign, and one day she was at a roundtable discussion where everyone went around telling their story and why they were there. <br />
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And Ashley said that when she was nine years old, her mother got cancer. And because she had to miss days of work, she was let go and lost her health care. They had to file for bankruptcy, and that&rsquo;s when Ashley decided that she had to do something to help her mom. <br />
She knew that food was one of their most expensive costs, and so Ashley convinced her mother that what she really liked and really wanted to eat more than anything else was mustard and relish sandwiches. Because that was the cheapest way to eat. <br />
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She did this for a year until her mom got better, and she told everyone at the roundtable that the reason she joined our campaign was so that she could help the millions of other children in the country who want and need to help their parents too. . . .&nbsp; <br />
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. . .&nbsp;Ashley finishes her story and then goes around the room and asks everyone else why they&rsquo;re supporting the campaign. They all have different stories and reasons. Many bring up a specific issue. And finally they come to this elderly black man who&rsquo;s been sitting there quietly the entire time. And Ashley asks him why he&rsquo;s there. And he does not bring up a specific issue. He does not say health care or the economy. He does not say education or the war. He does not say that he was there because of Barack Obama. He simply says to everyone in the room, &ldquo;I am here because of Ashley.&rdquo; <br />
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&ldquo;I&rsquo;m here because of Ashley.&rdquo; </em></p>
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<p dir="ltr">The recognition&nbsp;that we are involved, engaged, hopeful, willing, motivated, cheered, encouraged, and made more courageous&nbsp;because we have <em>connected</em> with one specific textured, multi-dimensional, <em>storied&nbsp;</em>human being,&nbsp;is not, Obama admits &quot;enough.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">&quot;But it is where we start.&quot;</p>]]></description>
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