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         <title>Deborah Rothman</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Superb, as usual.  Vickie, your observations and writing are sharp, informative and always entertaining. I don't know where you find the time, energy, inspiration and talent--I'm so jealous!!</p>]]></description>
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         <title>Gavin Craig</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Another great post.  I think there are two common misconceptions in the world of business.  The first is that you have a weak position if you are the first to suggest settlement.  While some people will think that way - ultimately I have never seen a result differ because one party thought the other side's position was weak because they were the first to initiated settlement talks.  In the end people negotiate on the merits, the costs, and the risks.  Sometimes obsessively.  And in business, the facts many times do not mean as much as the dollars, and the justification for any payment.     </p>

<p>The second misconception is that when a company makes a decision on a matter it creates a precedent.  I think the fear of creating a precedent is usually an excuse to avoid making a decision.  Precedent is a highly overrated concept.  Every case settles or is decided or settled on its merits and the economic realities of the case.  Settlement means compromise.  </p>

<p>I don't hesitate to be the first to suggest a settlement process on behalf of my client - so long as the client agrees.  I find some firms want to continue the litigation and discovery process, so we get to a settlement process at a later time.  But, we usually get there.        </p>

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         <title>Vickie</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Deborah and Gavin,</p>

<p>Thanks to both of you for dropping by and leaving comments.  It IS true that people negotiate on the merits but I recall having many discussions with the client about their timing:  before or after a summary judgment motion for instance -- "because we don't want our opponent to think we don't have the confidence that we'll win."  Maybe things have changed significantly since I left practice five years ago.  (could it POSSIBLY be that long??)  Hopefully, the entire bar is now familiar with interest-based negotiations and understands that litigation is "just a business negotiation being conducted in the courts."</p>]]></description>
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